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U reach out or sit back
sawthelight:
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--- Quote from: sawthelight on November 14, 2018, 10:24:34 AM ---Most of the time, they have told me to wait for whichever POI to reach out first..this last time I called about someone recent, a few encouraged me to reach out to him but my gut told me that was the wrong thing to do.
I had one reader on Purple ocean tell me to be close to him whenever he comes close, and give him space when he backs off..etc...and i think that's horrible advice.
Since he ignored me most of the summer, I ignored his last text...that's what I felt the right thing to do was.
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Do whatever your gut says over any reader - it's always right.
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yea..I said to myself, if he reaches out again, I will answer him and see where it goes, but he never did...so that was my answer! lol. I needed more effort from him, and he didn't show it, so that's that.
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Good for you... so many girls will chase and chase and chase and then when the guy comes back they wonder why they are walking all over them... ummmm duh!
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LOL I lost so much self respect with that first guy that I can't do it anymore, just don't have it in me. I was never one to chase guys really but that guy had me acting like a fool, and part of the blame was because I was calling psychics and getting false info LOL. I actually believed what they were telling me rather than my own instincts or what he was showing me.
sparky:
I think it depends on the situation. I had two psychics tell me to reach out. To send something light even though they told me that my ex would contact me first. The rest of the them pretty much said just wait for her to reach out and contact me. One even mentioned about letting her miss me and then she will reach out. We will see if the predictions happen or not. Have a couple of months yet before any of it is predicted to happen.
star1:
--- Quote from: Satu on November 14, 2018, 02:19:32 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 14, 2018, 10:32:24 AM ---Do whatever your gut says over any reader - it's always right.
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This is the most sound, brilliant advice I've read on this board.
I would also add: Unless your POI is a soul-less, clueless idiot, he also has intuition. If you reach out, not because you're genuinely just wanting to check in, but because you're wanting him to respond so you can feel better, he's going to sense your desperation. Who likes being contacted by someone only when they want something (in this case reassurance)?
Get your energy and intention in order. Contact him when you're okay with whatever outcome happens. Contact him out of kindness rather than selfishness.
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Thank you :) I wish I had listened to mine a long time ago, but I shrugged it off (not being something I wanted to face up to and accept).
LAW1974:
Oddly, Last night I had a weird sense of wanting closure possibly and maybe friendship but I am not sure if I actually want him back.... or at least maybe not right now! I think he has too much of himself to work on and it's not my job to do that! For the first time I had an overwhelming sense of wanting to reach out to him. It's been over 6 weeks (and those were unkind texts, believe me). SO a part of me is a little nervous he wont respond back. I know that isnt the end of the world, doesnt leave me any worse off than where I am now but I feel like I can't move forward until we dont have this riff between us settled. I can finally "Let go". so to speak.....
You should know every advisor has promised me he is going to communicate by the end of the year and we will reconcile either by EOY or mid-Jan. Also, they have all told me NOT to reach out to him. He ended it and they have all told me he is basically waiting for me to reach out to him!
So I wanted some opinions - 1. Should I sit on this feeling for a few days and see if it goes away? 2. We are both music lovers and spent a lot of time listening to and talking about music and going to concerts, etc. So my text was not going to have anything to do with "us" -- I was going to send him a music video I have from a concert I know he'd enjoy - just something random! Kind of a white flag peace offering without us having to say that's what it is.... thoughts on this?
star1:
--- Quote from: LAW1974 on November 15, 2018, 03:57:08 AM ---Oddly, Last night I had a weird sense of wanting closure possibly and maybe friendship but I am not sure if I actually want him back.... or at least maybe not right now! I think he has too much of himself to work on and it's not my job to do that! For the first time I had an overwhelming sense of wanting to reach out to him. It's been over 6 weeks (and those were unkind texts, believe me). SO a part of me is a little nervous he wont respond back. I know that isnt the end of the world, doesnt leave me any worse off than where I am now but I feel like I can't move forward until we dont have this riff between us settled. I can finally "Let go". so to speak.....
You should know every advisor has promised me he is going to communicate by the end of the year and we will reconcile either by EOY or mid-Jan. Also, they have all told me NOT to reach out to him. He ended it and they have all told me he is basically waiting for me to reach out to him!
So I wanted some opinions - 1. Should I sit on this feeling for a few days and see if it goes away? 2. We are both music lovers and spent a lot of time listening to and talking about music and going to concerts, etc. So my text was not going to have anything to do with "us" -- I was going to send him a music video I have from a concert I know he'd enjoy - just something random! Kind of a white flag peace offering without us having to say that's what it is.... thoughts on this?
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Sit on it for a few days and if your gut says to still reach out, then send the music video (I hope my advice won't make things worse ;D).
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