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wishes215:
lets say your question to your readers is about contact or getting back together with ur ex, do u typically hear that you should initiate contact or wait for them to reach out to you?

LAW1974:

--- Quote from: wishes215 on November 14, 2018, 09:57:27 AM ---lets say your question to your readers is about contact or getting back together with ur ex, do u typically hear that you should initiate contact or wait for them to reach out to you?

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they ALWAYS tell me NOT to contact him... wait for him to reach out to me

Hillcam:
I’ve gotten both. It depends on the person I’m asking about usually.

When I was dealing with lower quality men, I was always advised not to reach out. At this point I don’t usually ask that question anymore because typically I find that reaching out will likely give me the answer I’ve been calling Keen to ask about. 🤷🏻‍♀️

If I text and they don’t respond, there’s no real need to call. If I text and I get a warm response, there’s no real need to call either.

star1:
I got a mixture of both. Mostly they give opinions though when they advise either. Some women are old fashioned and feel that the men are the "hunter gatherer at making the contact". I even was told that once by a reader. Others advise me to reach out. I think people should do what their gut tells them. Some people on this board haven't reached out because they were advised not to, and regretted it or in the end reached out for the guy to say "I was waiting for you to text me".

LAW1974:
I will say this.....  He has definitely started to show interest in me again recently!  He is watching all of my social media stories like as soon as I post them and he started doing his own (never used to) on snapchat (where he has like 5 friends, me being 1 of them) - If he does not contact me within the timeframes I am told ( the next 2/3 weeks) than I may reach out anyway..... He completely sabatoged our relationship and i can see him being a bit worried about me not taking him back and not reaching out but he is definitely trying to figure out what Im up to right now.....  I figure if he isnt going to reach out I have nothing to lose anyway right?

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