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U reach out or sit back
star1:
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--- Quote from: sawthelight on November 14, 2018, 10:24:34 AM ---Most of the time, they have told me to wait for whichever POI to reach out first..this last time I called about someone recent, a few encouraged me to reach out to him but my gut told me that was the wrong thing to do.
I had one reader on Purple ocean tell me to be close to him whenever he comes close, and give him space when he backs off..etc...and i think that's horrible advice.
Since he ignored me most of the summer, I ignored his last text...that's what I felt the right thing to do was.
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Do whatever your gut says over any reader - it's always right.
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yea..I said to myself, if he reaches out again, I will answer him and see where it goes, but he never did...so that was my answer! lol. I needed more effort from him, and he didn't show it, so that's that.
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If he chose not to reach out to you, then that's his loss. Why should you bother if he doesn't? You deserve better (what a hypocrite I am ::)).
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lol it's hard to learn this lesson...he did reach out once at the end of August, but that's after going quiet for several weeks when things were going good with us. Which didn't sit right with me. So when he text, I really gave it thought and decided not to reply.
One lesson I've learned out of all these psychic readings is self respect...don't settle for someone's crumbs of time.
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It is a hard lesson to learn, I've learnt so many lessons from ringing psychics. At least you're tougher and stronger than some of us, and could realise that there wouldn't be much change in your situation so decided not to reply to him.
sawthelight:
oh believe me, after what I went through with the first POI I called about (years of back and forth), I learned not to accept BS behavior. I put up with way too much from him.
Sad part is, I still have feelings for this last guy, but hell will freeze over before I reach out to him. Just hope I meet someone new that takes my mind off of him...but I feel my energy is closed off to meeting new people right now..just don't want the hassle. Afraid of disappointment I guess.
Fidget1028:
It's rare that I've been told to reach out. The one person who said I could, said to do so only if I felt a really strong urge to. She felt that sometimes the universe gives us that strong urge as a sign. Most, however, said that he needs to do the work and he won't learn a darn thing if he knows I'm always there for him.
star1:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on November 14, 2018, 11:04:19 AM ---oh believe me, after what I went through with the first POI I called about (years of back and forth), I learned not to accept BS behavior. I put up with way too much from him.
Sad part is, I still have feelings for this last guy, but hell will freeze over before I reach out to him. Just hope I meet someone new that takes my mind off of him...but I feel my energy is closed off to meeting new people right now..just don't want the hassle. Afraid of disappointment I guess.
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I'm like you in the second paragraph. I love my POI, but I'm not going to reach out this time. He has to get his finger out of his arse too sometimes!
LAW1974:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on November 14, 2018, 10:36:11 AM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 14, 2018, 10:32:24 AM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on November 14, 2018, 10:24:34 AM ---Most of the time, they have told me to wait for whichever POI to reach out first..this last time I called about someone recent, a few encouraged me to reach out to him but my gut told me that was the wrong thing to do.
I had one reader on Purple ocean tell me to be close to him whenever he comes close, and give him space when he backs off..etc...and i think that's horrible advice.
Since he ignored me most of the summer, I ignored his last text...that's what I felt the right thing to do was.
--- End quote ---
Do whatever your gut says over any reader - it's always right.
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yea..I said to myself, if he reaches out again, I will answer him and see where it goes, but he never did...so that was my answer! lol. I needed more effort from him, and he didn't show it, so that's that.
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Good for you... so many girls will chase and chase and chase and then when the guy comes back they wonder why they are walking all over them... ummmm duh!
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