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aquarian:
i'm not trying to make excuses, but this is my take from a logical point of view. unfortunately, i think this has to do more with how men think than anything. as we all know, some men dont know how to deal with their own emotions. not knowing why you feel a certain way and not having control is incredibly SCARY. also, men are conditioned to hide their feelings/emotions and not do stuff like cry. i'm sure theres also influence from their guy friends too.

Synergy:
That is very true, aquarian.  I think I'm just a little angry today because of my conversation with our mutual friend.  But you are right about this.

LiveLaughLove:
Yea that true...I'm just so pissed and annoyed because a friend of mine was telling me his ex gf decided after a month of him giving her a ultimatum that she was going to move out here to be with him even though that was another month ago when she said she was going to do that and he's all gunho about it and it pisse me off because she has cheated on him multiple times,breaks up with him every other month,strings him along and does all this shit but they find a way to work it out (even though I told him don't hold your breath,when she steps foot in Cali is when you are back together) and I look at this situation and look at mine and see how it was nothing like that! My ex never did any of that but we can't be together but he can with this female?! I know life isn't fair blah blah but give me a break!!! Ive alwAys been the one who gets the short end of the stick,always the one who needs to do more than others and STILL rarely get what I want.

I'm happy with this new guy he's nice,he's attractive,smart etc etc but deep down I can't be 100% happy because I know I'm suppose to be with my ex and nobody can tell me different..but what else can I do?! I'm just sick and tired of being sick and tired...

I'm just tired of seeing people around me getting what they want when it comes to relationships and the people are 100% wrong for them but no matter what it always works out....seriously give me a break!!

LuckyInLove:
Life really does suck Ladies. I have had no contact for 5 months now from my SM. I text him on his bday & for New Year & got absolutely nothing in response. Is it really that hard for them to say thanks. I mean how rude is that!!! I cant beleive how some of these men would let go everything because either they are scared or influenced by someone. My SM and I were so good together but one argument between us & he lets everything go with the help of his so-called friends who influenced him to break up with me. I mean can you believe that! Yeah and its always me who ends up at the short end of the stick. My three siblings two younger than me all happily married & I cannot even seem to hold onto one relationship decently. I am in my late thirties with no one to share my life with. How frustrating is that! What are we asking for really? Just someone to love us for who we are & in return we love that person equally or even more. Is that so much to ask for? Sad! Its darn annoying & damn frustrating!

positivethoughts2:
((((big hugs)))) lucky - we can all relate one way or another. It will get better - it always does.

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