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LiveLaughLove:
I understand you lucky! I mean even in school I always had to bust my ass to do well...meanwhile all these others are like oh I barely studied an I got a A and I studied my ass off and go a C...I mean I it make me a stronger person because I have to work so hard but just to have something my way esp the or thing I want...man that'd be the best day of my life. Lol

4everhopeful:
From the latest comments here it sounds like a lot of you are finally reaching that anger point and I think thats a good thing. Makes no difference if you are man or woman, we all got the same reading, our SM was fearful. BS!!!!! I know that my SM isnt fearful of what he's in now, he's been in this relationship for over a year now, so it doesnt sound to me like he has any fear at all. I pray for the day that you all can move on and find love with someone that deserves you. Believe me, it takes time, but it happens faster when you stop calling the psychics and looking for those predictions to manifest. I think Ive finally learned that we find love then we lose it, but we will find it again. But in the end, if someone walks away from you, let them go, it doesnt do us any good to pine for them. If they truly love us, they will reach out and try again. If not, put them in a little box and store them in your heart but dont let them take over your life. Life is to be lived, go out and enjoy it.
As far as the no contact rule, I agree to a point. But if you were in a relationship with someone for a period of time, I see no reason not to send a hello text or email. But if you get no response, take that as your answer. Its hard to hear, but its the truth. Silence speaks volumes, sometimes we just have to listen. I know I didnt for so long, but when I did, things got so much better. And I have so much more money now to spend on me and my family. Blessings to all of you.

sunandmoon:

--- Quote from: aquarian on February 08, 2012, 07:02:49 PM ---i'm not trying to make excuses, but this is my take from a logical point of view. unfortunately, i think this has to do more with how men think than anything. as we all know, some men dont know how to deal with their own emotions. not knowing why you feel a certain way and not having control is incredibly SCARY. also, men are conditioned to hide their feelings/emotions and not do stuff like cry. i'm sure theres also influence from their guy friends too.

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That holds true for most guys, but my guy was an emotional waterfall. I found it refreshing that he could get emotional after making love, or just after a great day together, really showed me how he felt. So I know he has it in him to fully express himself because he spent OVER THREE YEARS doing it to me!

Go figure.

wishfulthinker:
Glass,

Hi there.  I'm positive you are not a dense guy!  But I thought it was hilarious that after everything I have put myself through over this guy - for months on end - Cookie's response was so damn simple.  It just kills me.  Maybe life really is that simple.  :P
Hope everything is going well with you. 

Sunlightstar:
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