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Synergy:
I just wanted to take a moment to tell all of you who have waited patiently without initiating contact with your ex that you should be very proud of yourselves!!!!!
In a way, I have been very lucky (and stupid ;)) because both my SMs work at the same facility and I get to see them from afar or I get some contact with them. It's only been 6 days since I last spoke with Chance, and only 2 weeks since we haven't spent time together, yet I am having such a tough time. I don't know if it's because I am such an emotional Libra or what, but going from daily contact to no contact really hurts and is so difficult to maintain.
How long have you guys gone without contact? I guess I just need to hear that it can be done, so that I can be encouraged to do it. I want to call, text, see him... anything so bad!!! :'(
haileyn:
--- Quote from: Synergy on February 07, 2012, 11:14:13 PM ---I just wanted to take a moment to tell all of you who have waited patiently without initiating contact with your ex that you should be very proud of yourselves!!!!!
In a way, I have been very lucky (and stupid ;)) because both my SMs work at the same facility and I get to see them from afar or I get some contact with them. It's only been 6 days since I last spoke with Chance, and only 2 weeks since we haven't spent time together, yet I am having such a tough time. I don't know if it's because I am such an emotional Libra or what, but going from daily contact to no contact really hurts and is so difficult to maintain.
How long have you guys gone without contact? I guess I just need to hear that it can be done, so that I can be encouraged to do it. I want to call, text, see him... anything so bad!!! :'(
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Going on 3 months next week, right on Valentine's Day...
Nottakingthebait:
;)
LiveLaughLove:
5 months for me...:-/
Synergy:
Wow!! You guys have really made it so long! That's a huge accomplishment for each and every one of you!! I actually feel a lot better! Thanks for sharing!!
I haven't had a reading today, and it's been great. I had scheduled a reading with Althea, but I cancelled it because the person just added an HOUR to their time!!!!!! AND somehow the system put someone else in front of me! I'm going to go home and enjoy my daughters instead of waiting around for her call. :)
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