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Should I just reach out?
AustralieNs:
Whskers that advice is gold.
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: AustralieNs on January 13, 2018, 01:48:33 AM ---Maroonlight that is my exact fear - can you tell me if either POI admitted that there was a time where they were seeing if they would hear from you and took it as a sign of your disinterest when they didn't? Like did you get the sense that if you hadn't waited so long to reach out things might have been different?
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Nope. One had just moved on with his life completely (he had moved away)
The other one knew that I liked him a lot and sort of lead me on. He just wasn’t into me.
I felt like such an idiot for waiting out the timeframes and spending all the money for a complete fantasy.
That’s why I think the best choice is to just take action regardless of what the psychics tell you. They were all wrong for me and I spent over 3k. The worst that can happen is he doesn’t respond and you get the same wake up call that I did and move on.
Luckystar:
--- Quote from: maroonlight on January 13, 2018, 12:33:32 AM ---
At least if you contact him you can get an answer instead of waiting around for him to contact you, which might never happen especially if you blocked him. If he responds, then great, if not, then it's time to move on.
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I agree
maroonlight:
As a side note, the one who moved away left me because he decided to move to pursue a career that he couldn’t pursue here. I really thought for awhile he would come back and all of the psychics said he would and I reached out to him after a year of no contact, he never responded, and now he has a new girlfriend. I’m thankfully over both guys but am dealing with another complicated situation with a new guy.
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: Luckystar on January 13, 2018, 02:55:45 AM ---
--- Quote from: maroonlight on January 13, 2018, 12:33:32 AM ---
At least if you contact him you can get an answer instead of waiting around for him to contact you, which might never happen especially if you blocked him. If he responds, then great, if not, then it's time to move on.
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I agree
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Yeah I know a lot of people are set on this no contact rule, but often times all that will happen with that is the person forgets about you completely and moves on with their life. Sure, sometimes it works, but I believe in taking action to remedy situations rather than sitting around. If the person likes you, they will regardless of whether you contact them first or not.
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