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Should I just reach out?
ladya:
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--- Quote from: maroonlight on January 13, 2018, 12:33:32 AM ---
At least if you contact him you can get an answer instead of waiting around for him to contact you, which might never happen especially if you blocked him. If he responds, then great, if not, then it's time to move on.
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I agree
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Yeah I know a lot of people are set on this no contact rule, but often times all that will happen with that is the person forgets about you completely and moves on with their life. Sure, sometimes it works, but I believe in taking action to remedy situations rather than sitting around. If the person likes you, they will regardless of whether you contact them first or not.
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If i get pulled to contact someone i always do. i don't think one contact will change anything on a grand scale.
lostsoul209:
--- Quote from: maroonlight on January 13, 2018, 02:58:56 AM ---
--- Quote from: Luckystar on January 13, 2018, 02:55:45 AM ---
--- Quote from: maroonlight on January 13, 2018, 12:33:32 AM ---
At least if you contact him you can get an answer instead of waiting around for him to contact you, which might never happen especially if you blocked him. If he responds, then great, if not, then it's time to move on.
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I agree
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Yeah I know a lot of people are set on this no contact rule, but often times all that will happen with that is the person forgets about you completely and moves on with their life. Sure, sometimes it works, but I believe in taking action to remedy situations rather than sitting around. If the person likes you, they will regardless of whether you contact them first or not.
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I agree. Don’t listen to those so call fake psychic. I have to learn the hard way. They will said the same thing to everyone. Don’t contact them if you do they will run away for good lol yea right they are not into you and you were wrong.
mystery123:
--- Quote from: ladya on January 13, 2018, 03:24:15 AM ---
If i get pulled to contact someone i always do. i don't think one contact will change anything on a grand scale.
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I agree contact doesn't change anything.. if the person is not into me then he is just not and few text exchanges won't make him commit to me.. all the psychics who told me there will be contact were right because there was contact but it was so pointless..just cursory greetings and that's about it.. also I think it depends at which stage you are in your life, if you are young, want to wait around, try things around then it's a different story, but if your intention is to find a life partner then ask yourself do you really want this guy? Sorry to go off tangent but just a thought. Like for me I think if my guy is not coming with an engagement ring then I don't want to see his face LOL.. because I am not going to fool around anymore at this stage in my life. Five years back when I was 25 I was all about that not anymore.
Also, if I intuitively feel that I should contact a guy then I will, it's almost like if you are being guided then do it but if it's with a hidden agenda and ego based decision then I usually stop myself because then that's when you are trying to force things and your needy energy can push someone away..
You were with him for 3 months, you owe an explanation or at least one last message where you tell him how hurt you are by his behavior but if this is what he wants then you wish him well!
AustralieNs:
I think you guys are right- maybe the next move is on me. But I do want to kind of clarify that my blocking him wasn't as aggressive as it may seem- I don't have a Facebook, we just mutually followed each other on Instagram and my account is private, so I removed him from my followers. Mostly I just felt stupid because I was falling in love with him and I felt like a fool. But yes, the end result is he goes to look at my Instagram but he sees he's been locked out of it. Same effect.
Thank you ladies for all your input and for sharing your experiences-
I will keep you guys updated! Cross your fingers for me !
Luckystar:
Please do let us know, good luck to you :)
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