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AustralieNs:
I've been hoping to hear from a guy I was seeing for almost three months now. At this point it feels like it's getting ridiculous. I'm always in pain because I'm not hearing from him and I think I want to take control and contact him. It would be MUCH better if HE were the one to reach out to ME but what if he never does? So many top readers see contact happening in January- so I'm thinking of waiting out January- but if I don't hear anything by February 1, just texting him something friendly/casual. But tonight I spoke to Tara from CP and she gave me a time of five weeks- putting me at Mid February. I hate when continuously getting readings keeps you shifting your focus to later and later timelines, so I think I might just cut it off at Feb 1 anyway. Now, I have been warned a million times this guy would much rather be the one to make contact and easily feels pushed and pressured- and I can attest to this. So reaching out is risky (hence psychics). What do you guys think I should do? Is Tara really that trustworthy? Have any of you defied the timelines and reached out on your own? Did you regret it? Should I contact him?

Love-33:
Not gonna hurt to do it, at least you'll have your final answer :)

Illumin8:
sorry. if it were me, i wouldn't contact him. you have said yourself that he is the type of guy that likes to be in control and would want to be in the drivers seat. I have been in your position before and did reach out to a POI at the time and NEVER heard back. You may or may not get a response. He has ghosted you and when a man does this, there is ALWAYS a reason. If a man truly wants to see you, talk to you or be with you ... history time and time again says that they will reach out when they want to. I get it, it sucks. I know. If this Tara woman is correct, then get real busy and they will contact when their timing is right. But don't hang around and make peace with the situation.

sawthelight:

--- Quote from: Illumin8 on January 12, 2018, 11:09:57 AM ---sorry. if it were me, i wouldn't contact him. you have said yourself that he is the type of guy that likes to be in control and would want to be in the drivers seat. I have been in your position before and did reach out to a POI at the time and NEVER heard back. You may or may not get a response. He has ghosted you and when a man does this, there is ALWAYS a reason. If a man truly wants to see you, talk to you or be with you ... history time and time again says that they will reach out when they want to. I get it, it sucks. I know. If this Tara woman is correct, then get real busy and they will contact when their timing is right. But don't hang around and make peace with the situation.

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Agree 100%

lostsoul209:
Don’t make the same mistake as I do. They will said the same thing to everyone. Just contact him and ask him out if he said no then he not into you.

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