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Should I just reach out?
ladya:
--- Quote from: Sooshi on January 12, 2018, 09:12:04 PM ---Maybe just unblock him. If he notices it, he might jump at the opportunity.
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that's good! i agree.
maroonlight:
I absolutely think you should if it's been awhile and you haven't heard from him. I learned this lesson from my past two POI's. Nothing any of the dozens of psychics said ever happened, so I was waiting for their timelines and eventually when nothing happened I did try contacting both people and it turns out they both had new girlfriends.
At least if you contact him you can get an answer instead of waiting around for him to contact you, which might never happen especially if you blocked him. If he responds, then great, if not, then it's time to move on.
whskers:
Really good advice I got: do not break up with men if you are not sure. Because they have so much pride. And would likely not do the first move to get back together. But if I was in your situation, I’ll be 50-50 if I’ll reach out or not. I’ll probably make him because I want to make sure he commits. But again I had an ex that was similar to your Situation. I told him to not contact me anymore, after a month I reached out to him and he said he’s the happiest man alive. He said he was miserable when I wasn’t communicating with him.
ladya:
--- Quote from: whskers on January 13, 2018, 01:37:16 AM ---Really good advice I got: do not break up with men if you are not sure. Because they have so much pride. And would likely not do the first move to get back together. But if I was in your situation, I’ll be 50-50 if I’ll reach out or now. I’ll probably make him because I want to make sure he commits. But again I had an ex that was similar to your Situation. I told him to not contact me anymore, after a month I reached out to me and he said he’s the happiest man alive. He said he was miserable when I wasn’t communicating with him.
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100 percent agree. i said same. it's unfortunate but its really true. way too much pride.
AustralieNs:
Maroonlight that is my exact fear - can you tell me if either POI admitted that there was a time where they were seeing if they would hear from you and took it as a sign of your disinterest when they didn't? Like did you get the sense that if you hadn't waited so long to reach out things might have been different?
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