Hi all - new poster here - I have called QOC18 a couple of times in the last year or so to check to see if there are any third parties involved in my situation with my POI - I tend to do this when he seems to be more withdrawn from me (and I subsequently get paranoid). She has never seen any third parties involved, even as recently as couple of days ago.
The problem is, I'm having a hard time believing this is true (and I am not comfortable asking POI in order to validate).... Can I bank on her being accurate in *NOT* seeing a third party? I understand from the thread that if she *DOES* see a third party it's usually accurate, but is the opposite true? I ask because POI and I don't have an "official" relationship - it's more of a long term FWB situation - so I have always assumed there is a pretty high chance of a third party being involved on his part. Or do "third parties" only show up if they are significant (emotionally/potential relationship-wise) to the POI? Not sure how this whole "third party" thing works, especially in reverse....any insight is much appreciated!