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bstalling:
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--- Quote from: bstalling on March 28, 2014, 01:05:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: divinewishes on March 28, 2014, 12:26:49 PM ---Two questions:
How long would you wait for something to present itself, while reality starkly draws an alternative picture? If armed with such faith and trust in your gut/intuition above all else, why continue to get readings?
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So because she acted like a jealous woman, the guy just decided to make his love feelings vanish and never to be heard from again? Please.
If I am jealous and a guy that loves me sees it, he would spill his guts and say how he is only into me and wants me. He wouldn't just decide to "not love me" because I poked him a bit.
Honestly, I find this expectation that we are to be totally passive and just let things happen to us...dysfunctional.
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Who said it was jealousy? I am not sure the OP mentioned jealousy at all. And I don't believe the guy vanished either. Point is pressing someone on anything when that person is not inclined is never a good idea, psychic reading or otherwise. If something isn't happening, once has a choice. Stay or leave. Trying to force something had the opposite effect.
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I was talking about Sagrita..who was the poster that you were referencing I think. She referenced jealousy, you said she "questioned him".
And Im saying, what is pressuring someone and what is being an adult and putting stuff out there to get feedback? The psychic was wrong in the end and that is all that we can take as fact. Sometimes I feel like we are not supposed to blow in a certain direction lest our predictions don't come to pass. Unhealthy, IMO.
Bark angel:
--- Quote from: bstalling on March 28, 2014, 01:27:18 PM ---
--- Quote from: Bark angel on March 28, 2014, 01:17:30 PM ---
--- Quote from: bstalling on March 28, 2014, 01:05:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: divinewishes on March 28, 2014, 12:26:49 PM ---Two questions:
How long would you wait for something to present itself, while reality starkly draws an alternative picture? If armed with such faith and trust in your gut/intuition above all else, why continue to get readings?
--- End quote ---
So because she acted like a jealous woman, the guy just decided to make his love feelings vanish and never to be heard from again? Please.
If I am jealous and a guy that loves me sees it, he would spill his guts and say how he is only into me and wants me. He wouldn't just decide to "not love me" because I poked him a bit.
Honestly, I find this expectation that we are to be totally passive and just let things happen to us...dysfunctional.
--- End quote ---
Who said it was jealousy? I am not sure the OP mentioned jealousy at all. And I don't believe the guy vanished either. Point is pressing someone on anything when that person is not inclined is never a good idea, psychic reading or otherwise. If something isn't happening, once has a choice. Stay or leave. Trying to force something had the opposite effect.
--- End quote ---
I was talking about Sagrita..who was the poster that you were referencing I think. She referenced jealousy, you said she "questioned him".
And Im saying, what is pressuring someone and what is being an adult and putting stuff out there to get feedback? The psychic was wrong in the end and that is all that we can take as fact. Sometimes I feel like we are not supposed to blow in a certain direction lest our predictions don't come to pass. Unhealthy, IMO.
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I think we can both agree that acting jealously is not putting stuff out there to get feedback. One is done to evoke a desired response, the other is done to evoke a response regardless of whether it is the desired or not. That said, there is always something to be said for taking control of a situation and determining its fate. I'm not recommending that people put off what they wish to do, like I said you have to go with your gut. However the person that prefers to air the matter now and not wait for the future to unfold is not the ideal candidate for psychic readings in my opinion. If one is not inclined to let things unfold in their own time, why get a psychic reading in the first place? They are mainly to give you a glimpse of what is yet to come, aren't they?
Nottakingthebait:
Did I just read the operative word WAIT? Hhhmmm
--- Quote from: Bark angel on March 28, 2014, 01:45:00 PM ---
--- Quote from: bstalling on March 28, 2014, 01:27:18 PM ---
--- Quote from: Bark angel on March 28, 2014, 01:17:30 PM ---
--- Quote from: bstalling on March 28, 2014, 01:05:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: divinewishes on March 28, 2014, 12:26:49 PM ---Two questions:
How long would you wait for something to present itself, while reality starkly draws an alternative picture? If armed with such faith and trust in your gut/intuition above all else, why continue to get readings?
--- End quote ---
So because she acted like a jealous woman, the guy just decided to make his love feelings vanish and never to be heard from again? Please.
If I am jealous and a guy that loves me sees it, he would spill his guts and say how he is only into me and wants me. He wouldn't just decide to "not love me" because I poked him a bit.
Honestly, I find this expectation that we are to be totally passive and just let things happen to us...dysfunctional.
--- End quote ---
Who said it was jealousy? I am not sure the OP mentioned jealousy at all. And I don't believe the guy vanished either. Point is pressing someone on anything when that person is not inclined is never a good idea, psychic reading or otherwise. If something isn't happening, once has a choice. Stay or leave. Trying to force something had the opposite effect.
--- End quote ---
I was talking about Sagrita..who was the poster that you were referencing I think. She referenced jealousy, you said she "questioned him".
And Im saying, what is pressuring someone and what is being an adult and putting stuff out there to get feedback? The psychic was wrong in the end and that is all that we can take as fact. Sometimes I feel like we are not supposed to blow in a certain direction lest our predictions don't come to pass. Unhealthy, IMO.
--- End quote ---
I think we can both agree that acting jealously is not putting stuff out there to get feedback. One is done to evoke a desired response, the other is done to evoke a response regardless of whether it is the desired or not. That said, there is always something to be said for taking control of a situation and determining its fate. I'm not recommending that people put off what they wish to do, like I said you have to go with your gut. However the person that prefers to air the matter now and not wait for the future to unfold is not the ideal candidate for psychic readings in my opinion. If one is not inclined to let things unfold in their own time, why get a psychic reading in the first place? They are mainly to give you a glimpse of what is yet to come, aren't they?
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hope4love:
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Zee:
I believe the point is, we would not have blown in a certain direction had we not continually spun on something a reader told us.
--- Quote ---I am not against getting readings; I wouldn't be here if I were. What I am against, is not placing the proper burden upon these readers when they are wrong.
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You are 1000% percent right about this, as far as I'm concerned because I believe this as well and no one said anything about being passive. Don't get me wrong, I also agree with your sentiment that if I am feeling jealous I would expect my partner to comfort and support me, but to stay in his face and harp about it and continually bemoan our plight will chase anything away.
For one thing, I personally find it detrimental to get a reading about a relationship, considering how volatile emotions are, even if it puts you at ease for the moment.
All I was saying is letting things go (this seems to be the biggest hump for most people) because it's very, very difficult to do. Trust me. Did I say 'very' difficult already? We don't need to keep grasping for something that we believe should already be ours. This only results in pushing our desires away, which may also explain why time frames keep getting pushed further and further out.
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