I want to quit

[sai07]

Thank you so much Mina and Candy - and to the rest of the ladies on here, this is helpful, thank you for your support.

Btw, reported the last comment b/c it was unsupportive and I don't need it on my thread. This is a support thread and any negativity is unwelcome.

[allisgood]

Thank you so much Mina and Candy - and to the rest of the ladies on here, this is helpful, thank you for your support.

Btw, reported the last comment b/c it was unsupportive and I don't need it on my thread. This is a support thread and any negativity is unwelcome.

LOL!!!! a bit dictatorial, right? If you don't like a comment you report? Sorry lady, you are a bit nuts. This is not a support forum. This is called "The Psychics Reviews". Maybe you cannot read. And this stupid thread is not about psychic reviews. Maybe you need to join an addiction forum.
Anyway, no one will do anything about the post because this forum is like a jungle. There is no Admin LOL

[sai07]

@allisgood. You're sad, please say more. Say EVERYTHING you want to say. You poor poor thing. C'mon. Spill your guts, honey. We are listening.

Oh and p.s. no one has time for your BS. This is as you say, The Psychic Reviews, and your psycho babble is irrelevant but seeing as you're so painfully in need in spewing negativity, go right ahead. Please. Be my guest.

[Mina]

@Mina. Not sure if you have noticed but this forum is called "The Psychic Reviews". Maybe you would need to join another forum for people trying to quit psychics or whatever and stop writing these novels. It just gives people a headache.

Thanks for being fan

Not sure if your noticed but this is the psychic addiction section

Plus
You deleted a bunch of YOUR reviews and I was more then sympathetic towards cause, and I apologize if we got off on the wrong foot

Sorry you’re jelly? Or feel that way
I honestly don’t care if you want to put me down

But I do care that ppl struggle and there is an issue with psychic addiction that has been growing - whether it’s spiritual or impulsive like compulsive spending

I just want that voice heard and help ppl get some kind of normal that doesn’t ruin themselves

Hope you get help
Again thanks for being a fan!

[sai07]

Ok let's bring this back to my quitting story

So I failed miserably this month. I went on binge calls the past two days >.< I feel guilty. But I also feel I needed to talk to someone =(
I can't talk about my situation with anyone else. I have been distancing and not texting my POI and I am hurting. I am in the phase where I am having a hard time accepting that it is in my best interests to move on. I go back and forth with the whole thing.

I don't understand how someone can go from being so loving and genuine and wanting to spend their time with you to talking to multiple other people and giving you the cold shoulder. I also don't believe in the whole, 'get under someone to get over someone else' . At least not in the beginning stages of pulling away from someone you love. That won't make me feel better.

Anyways, my point being, I binged and I am disappointed. I am struggling with fully letting go of this person which is why the binges happened - a couple advisors told me it will get better (but I do not believe them) and one told me there is no future (while I believe her, a part of me does not want to believe her). I don't know how I am going to pray my way out of the hurt, but I can't keep calling advisors.

I worry my intuition and sense of judgement is off too. How could I believe this is the person I was going to marry? And how does a tiny part of me still think this will magically work out? I feel confused and hurt.

Re: prayer, I also am struggling to decide if I want to pray for this person to change and come back into my life or if I want to pray the feelings away :/ Feels like I'm not in a clear state of mind.

Anyways, thanks for listening.

[Notacrystalfreak]

Ok let's bring this back to my quitting story

So I failed miserably this month. I went on binge calls the past two days >.< I feel guilty. But I also feel I needed to talk to someone =(
I can't talk about my situation with anyone else. I have been distancing and not texting my POI and I am hurting. I am in the phase where I am having a hard time accepting that it is in my best interests to move on. I go back and forth with the whole thing.

I don't understand how someone can go from being so loving and genuine and wanting to spend their time with you to talking to multiple other people and giving you the cold shoulder. I also don't believe in the whole, 'get under someone to get over someone else' . At least not in the beginning stages of pulling away from someone you love. That won't make me feel better.

Anyways, my point being, I binged and I am disappointed. I am struggling with fully letting go of this person which is why the binges happened - a couple advisors told me it will get better (but I do not believe them) and one told me there is no future (while I believe her, a part of me does not want to believe her). I don't know how I am going to pray my way out of the hurt, but I can't keep calling advisors.

I worry my intuition and sense of judgement is off too. How could I believe this is the person I was going to marry? And how does a tiny part of me still think this will magically work out? I feel confused and hurt.

Re: prayer, I also am struggling to decide if I want to pray for this person to change and come back into my life or if I want to pray the feelings away :/ Feels like I'm not in a clear state of mind.

Anyways, thanks for listening.

Another person is not the key to your happiness. He’s just another, flawed human being. You deserve more, you deserve to be occupied by better things.

[sai07]

Thank you @NotaCrystalFreak

You are absolutely right. I have to control my own happiness.

[sai07]

Just an update - I went through some bad binges over the weekend and up till yesterday and now I feel I have it decently out of my system. The only reason I was calling was for my POI and I have decided to walk away from him so there's no point anymore.

Some psychics have continued to say it's going to work out despite him talking to multiple girls and not talking to me (wtf lol??) and I just cannot continue to see how that will happen. It's a turn off when someone gives someone else attention over you. I also feel if someone gives you THAT much anxiety and makes you go to psychics that much, they're not for you or they're not ready and there's no point in constantly checking if they ever will be ready for you. Everyday that passes, while agonizing, I feel more and more comfortable with my decision to walk away and just let things happen organically in my life. I don't need to know the future, it's just not worth it. All the psychics are half-wrong anyways. I have yet to meet someone that gives you a complete picture and then predicts outcomes accurately.

When I am ready, maybe in a few weeks or a couple months, I will open myself up to dating again.
But I am ready to move on and invest in myself.

There are periods of loneliness. I have to figure those out but the unsurmountable depression - thankfully, is lifting slowly, a bit at a time.

[Notacrystalfreak]

Just an update - I went through some bad binges over the weekend and up till yesterday and now I feel I have it decently out of my system. The only reason I was calling was for my POI and I have decided to walk away from him so there's no point anymore.

Some psychics have continued to say it's going to work out despite him talking to multiple girls and not talking to me (wtf lol??) and I just cannot continue to see how that will happen. It's a turn off when someone gives someone else attention over you. I also feel if someone gives you THAT much anxiety and makes you go to psychics that much, they're not for you or they're not ready and there's no point in constantly checking if they ever will be ready for you. Everyday that passes, while agonizing, I feel more and more comfortable with my decision to walk away and just let things happen organically in my life. I don't need to know the future, it's just not worth it. All the psychics are half-wrong anyways. I have yet to meet someone that gives you a complete picture and then predicts outcomes accurately.

When I am ready, maybe in a few weeks or a couple months, I will open myself up to dating again.
But I am ready to move on and invest in myself.

There are periods of loneliness. I have to figure those out but the unsurmountable depression - thankfully, is lifting slowly, a bit at a time.

We’ve got each other if that means anything. Reading all these posts just strengthens my resolve. And especially knowing someone else is going through the same emotions as me…uncertainty, loneliness etc.

[sai07]

Just an update - I went through some bad binges over the weekend and up till yesterday and now I feel I have it decently out of my system. The only reason I was calling was for my POI and I have decided to walk away from him so there's no point anymore.

Some psychics have continued to say it's going to work out despite him talking to multiple girls and not talking to me (wtf lol??) and I just cannot continue to see how that will happen. It's a turn off when someone gives someone else attention over you. I also feel if someone gives you THAT much anxiety and makes you go to psychics that much, they're not for you or they're not ready and there's no point in constantly checking if they ever will be ready for you. Everyday that passes, while agonizing, I feel more and more comfortable with my decision to walk away and just let things happen organically in my life. I don't need to know the future, it's just not worth it. All the psychics are half-wrong anyways. I have yet to meet someone that gives you a complete picture and then predicts outcomes accurately.

When I am ready, maybe in a few weeks or a couple months, I will open myself up to dating again.
But I am ready to move on and invest in myself.

There are periods of loneliness. I have to figure those out but the unsurmountable depression - thankfully, is lifting slowly, a bit at a time.

We’ve got each other if that means anything. Reading all these posts just strengthens my resolve. And especially knowing someone else is going through the same emotions as me…uncertainty, loneliness etc.

Thank you so much <3
Of course, here for you as well