ahh! so sorry Im just seeing this now! Im just now getting back to the board and going through posts I missed.
So the party was a lot of fun! My ex showed up last, but it worked out well because I was sitting with all of our friends already, having a good time (and looking awesome in my Halloween costume). At one point not long after that I was standing near the snack table and he was standing a little bit away. He made his way over to me and made a comment about there not being any food to eat for us (we are both very picky eaters and at most parties it can be hard to find something for us to munch on. And really... not to be THAT person...but there really wasnt much of a spread anyway for the amount of people at a party that started at 5pm. There was some sort of weird veggie dip, some odd pumpkin cheescake dip, and a meat platter. And a few cookies with nuts so yea... not a lot for pickins!). We spoke for a little bit about a few things and then made our way back to the group.
As the night started winding down we and 2 other friends planned to quietly make our exit (the rest of the party was getting toooo rowdy and even though it was only like 10pm we all wanted to head out). So he waited around with me and we walked out together. He gave me a hug and said goodnight. We exchanged a few texts after that and that was it for that night.
AND THEN I was invited to ANOTHER party!!! lol About 2 days after that first party, another invite went out for a party that was that very next Saturday! (yep parties two weekends in a row!)
At this one it was a lot smaller than the first;just 6 people total. We kept it pretty quiet and tame and to a simple game night. We talked a bit at this party as well, and a couple of times he chose me as his partner for certain games (yeesh I feel like such a kid saying that! lol but it was cute). We all left at the same time for this party pretty much. But I did a little sneaky sort of and tested something out; I purposely took my sweet time leaving to see if he would hang back; and he did! lol
I took my time saying goodbye to the hosts, making plans to get together soon for a girl's night, saying goodbye to the other couple leaving... and he waited. And waited... and waited!!! lol It wasn't too long but I was suprised he waited! He gave me a big hug, said good night and told me to have a safe drive home (I live pretty far from where that party was). Since then we've exchanged a few texts here and there.
So yea... overall i all went pretty well!
There is a chance I might see him this weekend as well, fingers crossed. A friend and I are trying to organize our usual group to go to an event on Saturday so we shall see what happens!