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Dilemma
Synergy:
I completely agree with scorpiogirl. I heard all the same statements for multiple men. I don't want to diminish your pain or minimize the strength of your connection, but there comes a point when you have to accept reality and actions at face value.
SomethingBetter:
I have gotten the same as well, most have here. I am sure it's true for some and an outright lie for others, anything is possible.
But actions do speak louder and I think it's always best to feel like you are the rule and not the exception, because most of these psychics will try and make you feel like its the other way around. Sometimes it is, most often it isn't.
Good luck :)
Luckystar:
--- Quote --- Upon learning that I sent the text and received no reply, three advisors said it was because he is not ready. One advisor said he is contemplating what to say, to represent his feelings without them being construed by me as a lie. Two advisors said he is thinking about what to say, and an answer will come soon. One advisor said that the absence of a reply is telling in that it shows he still has feelings, because if he had no feelings, he wouldn't have had to think much about how to reply, and it would have been easy to just send a quick, "thank you, you too". I see that reasoning, I guess, but I also don't rule out the possibility that either he didn't believe it warranted a reply or that he was trying to show me that I am not important to him.All of the advisors said he was thinking about me now.
--- End quote ---
Please let us know if he does reply. I would love to know. It always seems like psychics start making up things when they get something wrong, so it will be interesting if he replies to you at some point and those particular psychics were right.
When i was going through the situation with my "sm" a couple of years ago, i had sooooo many different psychics tell me why he was with the girl he was dating at the time and why he couldn't be with me. So many of them gave me timeframes of him returning which passed and then that lead to my dissapointment. Now i want to share a part of my story with you guys because i consider myself lucky in that my guy did in fact return.
The girl my sm was dating a couple of years ago lives in Canada and they dated while we were in college. Prior to entering the relationship with the girl we both felt a connection and i had talked to him about the future and i could tell he was getting scared (I think we were around 22). Well he kept telling me he wasn't ready to settle down and i don't think i listened and partly blame myself for him cutting off contact with me and dating that girl instead. Anyways, the story is too long to type here, but fast forward a few years later and he just ADMITTED to me that he wasn't ready for a "final committment" and that was part of the reason he ran. The problem i am having here is
1) Forgiveness (he hasn't really proven himself to me and i don't know if he would do that again) and
2) WHY should i wait for when HE is ready? (he goes back and forth with wanting to be in a relationship and not wanting to be) >>>>Uhh no.
So a few months ago when we were hanging out, he basically said he wants to be financially stable before getting serious. I told him i was seeing someone, and wanted to continue dating this guy if he didn't want an actual committment. So here we are again, i am currently dating someone else (and the guy is amazing), and the sm texts me almost every night.
BTW, the only psychics who have gotten this situation down correctly (or for the majority of the time) were:
Eden (CP)-specifically gave a personality description of the new guy in my life and told me i would have to make a choice by the end of summer
My two local readers- gave different details
Aries Intuition (Keen)-she specifically knew my ex would be around when i started dating this other guy, knew the new guy just started his own business, and also has predicted that i will have to make a choice
It should also be noted that while Jean off of CP only worked for me in some of her readings, she did say that the tables would turn (now i am dating someone and he is not).
SomethingBetter:
I am glad you posted that Luckystar. I have one year down waiting for him to be ready and probably another year or two. And I have decided I am done waiting. It's not fair for anyone to wait while another gets their life together. I know this man loves me, but I could be missing someone amazing in the meantime. We all could be.
U am actually going to be closing my Keen account shortly, and I will give a more final tally shortly.
loops77:
--- Quote from: Luckystar on September 04, 2012, 04:25:56 PM ---
--- Quote --- Upon learning that I sent the text and received no reply, three advisors said it was because he is not ready. One advisor said he is contemplating what to say, to represent his feelings without them being construed by me as a lie. Two advisors said he is thinking about what to say, and an answer will come soon. One advisor said that the absence of a reply is telling in that it shows he still has feelings, because if he had no feelings, he wouldn't have had to think much about how to reply, and it would have been easy to just send a quick, "thank you, you too". I see that reasoning, I guess, but I also don't rule out the possibility that either he didn't believe it warranted a reply or that he was trying to show me that I am not important to him.All of the advisors said he was thinking about me now.
--- End quote ---
Please let us know if he does reply. I would love to know. It always seems like psychics start making up things when they get something wrong, so it will be interesting if he replies to you at some point and those particular psychics were right.
When i was going through the situation with my "sm" a couple of years ago, i had sooooo many different psychics tell me why he was with the girl he was dating at the time and why he couldn't be with me. So many of them gave me timeframes of him returning which passed and then that lead to my dissapointment. Now i want to share a part of my story with you guys because i consider myself lucky in that my guy did in fact return.
The girl my sm was dating a couple of years ago lives in Canada and they dated while we were in college. Prior to entering the relationship with the girl we both felt a connection and i had talked to him about the future and i could tell he was getting scared (I think we were around 22). Well he kept telling me he wasn't ready to settle down and i don't think i listened and partly blame myself for him cutting off contact with me and dating that girl instead. Anyways, the story is too long to type here, but fast forward a few years later and he just ADMITTED to me that he wasn't ready for a "final committment" and that was part of the reason he ran. The problem i am having here is
1) Forgiveness (he hasn't really proven himself to me and i don't know if he would do that again) and
2) WHY should i wait for when HE is ready? (he goes back and forth with wanting to be in a relationship and not wanting to be) >>>>Uhh no.
So a few months ago when we were hanging out, he basically said he wants to be financially stable before getting serious. I told him i was seeing someone, and wanted to continue dating this guy if he didn't want an actual committment. So here we are again, i am currently dating someone else (and the guy is amazing), and the sm texts me almost every night.
BTW, the only psychics who have gotten this situation down correctly (or for the majority of the time) were:
Eden (CP)-specifically gave a personality description of the new guy in my life and told me i would have to make a choice by the end of summer
My two local readers- gave different details
Aries Intuition (Keen)-she specifically knew my ex would be around when i started dating this other guy, knew the new guy just started his own business, and also has predicted that i will have to make a choice
It should also be noted that while Jean off of CP only worked for me in some of her readings, she did say that the tables would turn (now i am dating someone and he is not).
--- End quote ---
Why do you have to make a choice so quickly? why not keep dating the guy to see if you actually want to be with him..or he with you? Will you automatically loose all your dating/romantic options forever?Keep your ex on the sidelines or out of your life where he always wanted to be anyway and make him prove his worth.
I dont always understand why readers say "You have to make a choice". I just think that this is an easy thing to say. The old guy never made a choice, and he is still sniffing around years later. Why not just see how things play out before committing to anyone or anything? Especially if you are just dating the new guy.
Just thinking out loud...
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