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Luckystar:
Exactly SB. People stay sad if they keep waiting for someone to change or make a move.

and loops >>
--- Quote ---  Why do you have to make a choice so quickly? why not keep dating the guy to see if you actually want to be with him..or he with you? Will you automatically loose all your dating/romantic options forever?Keep your ex on the sidelines or out of your life where he always wanted to be anyway and make him prove his worth.
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That IS what i am doing. Notice how i said he hasn't proven his worth? And i am happy dating the current guy. I never make choices quickly especially not a choice like that. However, Kisha did say i would eventually have to.

loops77:
But what if you don't, is what I'm asking. Will both guys vanish forever?

Luckystar:
I have no idea what is going to happen. I will keep you posted.

Furah2fun:
@Luckystar,

  I am in a similar situation. Since October 2010 (the first break up), have been in a back and forth situation because the sm can't get his life in order (unemployed, not financially stable etc., not where he wanted to be at this point in his life...the list is endless.). The psychics were all correct regarding contact, and we would get back together for a few months, then break up cause he still couldn't figure his life out. He himself would talk about the future with me repeatedly, meeting my parents, marriage etc.  So I kept going along with it, because it seemed that the psychics were all right, and they kept telling me i am impatient, which may be true, but this is ridiciliuous. I should have started dating someone else a long time ago.

 It all started up again last August because Alison of CP convinced me to reach out and said that he would respond within 2 hours, which he did. I wonder what would have happened had I not done anything. Then even after what I thought was the closure conversation in February, he wouldn't leave me alone.  One particular time I was having health issues, and he showed up to my house and wanted to take me to the hospital (this is after we hadn't seen each other in five months, alison predicted this as well, by the way.) So it was very confusing to say the least.  I know he cares immensely but I can't wait for the rest of my life! Currently, we are not talking. I hope if he returns he is ready to move forward, otherwise this is a waste of my time.

 
 

tjoy12:
Hey guys!

Good to hear these stories - I think these stories personally help sometimes even more than the readings...because guess what - I can validate that the info provided is real, not what a reader says.

Anyway,
I created my own prediction. I know...I'm crazy!

Background. It has been 3 months since my ex broke up with me. For one month, i hung around as the "friend" - the next month, I cut contact - the following month I opened the door to friendship again. He immediately ran right through that door and contacted me then the following week, invited me out, then I did not hear from him in 2 weeks till this past weekend after I met up with his sis for drinks. After that meeting, he called a few hours later.

Note: Since opening the door to friendship, all communication and hanging out has been strictly platonic. No intimacy or talk of intimacy.

Anyway, many and I mean many readers have seen engagement and marriage with this guy. They all say he is coming back including:

Kisha
Sincerity
Abundant Visions (Gaylene)
Cookie
Venus (CP)
Sapphire21
Yvonne (CP)
Ciarra (CP)
Lady Persephone

I'm mentioning who I read with recently and the most popular. I of course read with more at CP, but learned most are not good.

Anyway, I'm learning to step back and see things for what they really are. From what I can see, yes, my ex responds to my messages if I text (rare), yes, he calls me (not all the time), I would like to think if he was done his sis wouldn't have met with me...etc...but still: I'm at the point that if I cannot validate something right now...then it is NOT valid.

I believe he has all the signs he needs to move forward if he wanted to:

1. I opened the door to friendship
2. I accept his calls
3. I went out with him
4. I met with his sis

My prediction: If I don't see any extra effort by mid Sep, I predict that I will slowly wean off of friendship with him... i.e. waiting a couple days to call back, etc...

I'm also going based off of what I was told too by:

LadyP
Kisha

That the contact initially will not be consistent at first, but will build up this month.
It's just that I have to step in and make decisions for myself too and not rely on readings solely which I feel like maybe I was doing.
I don't want to find myself in a cycle of calling and calling and things continuing to get pushed out further. I'm taking a stand to give him and myself a timeline and will then act based upon the progression or lack thereof - without calling readers.

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