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elcaliente:
Exactly. When he left he said he cherished the friendship we had, and considered me his best friend and asked if we could continue the friendship. He said you can think about it, but I said I didn't need to, and I agreed. I also agreed in an email I sent 2 days later. Since then he has made no contact. It's been nearly 3 months now. I think the text showed him that I was honouring my word, and still acknowledging the friendship has had asked me to preserve. Now that I think about it, the fact that I am honouring my word and he has not, not once, but now twice, might make him feel badly.
--- Quote from: truelove on September 04, 2012, 03:48:33 AM ---Well you took the high road and that's good. Now he knows you don't hate him and you can be satisfied that you made that clear.
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scorpiogirl:
--- Quote from: smee2 on September 04, 2012, 04:06:32 AM ---Exactly. When he left he said he cherished the friendship we had, and considered me his best friend and asked if we could continue the friendship. He said you can think about it, but I said I didn't need to, and I agreed. I also agreed in an email I sent 2 days later. Since then he has made no contact. It's been nearly 3 months now. I think the text showed him that I was honouring my word, and still acknowledging the friendship has had asked me to preserve. Now that I think about it, the fact that I am honouring my word and he has not, not once, but now twice, might make him feel badly.
--- Quote from: truelove on September 04, 2012, 03:48:33 AM ---Well you took the high road and that's good. Now he knows you don't hate him and you can be satisfied that you made that clear.
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Truthfully ( and this will sound mean, sorry but I've been here) he just probably just didn't want to be the bad guy so he offered a "friendship". Irrespective of what a psychic says, the fact that he has not responded or made an effort should show you his true intention. Don't you deserve a better "friend" than that?
elcaliente:
Indeed. At this point he isn't my friend, as he's made that quite clear in his choice to completely cut me out of his life and others, I might add. However, I am his. I sense that he is going through more than just a change in love interest, at this time. And the readings do indicate that it's more like a life review - midlife crisis. All of his actions leading up to the break up suggest that this could be what is going on.
--- Quote from: scorpiogirl on September 04, 2012, 04:55:51 AM ---
--- Quote from: smee2 on September 04, 2012, 04:06:32 AM ---Exactly. When he left he said he cherished the friendship we had, and considered me his best friend and asked if we could continue the friendship. He said you can think about it, but I said I didn't need to, and I agreed. I also agreed in an email I sent 2 days later. Since then he has made no contact. It's been nearly 3 months now. I think the text showed him that I was honouring my word, and still acknowledging the friendship has had asked me to preserve. Now that I think about it, the fact that I am honouring my word and he has not, not once, but now twice, might make him feel badly.
--- Quote from: truelove on September 04, 2012, 03:48:33 AM ---Well you took the high road and that's good. Now he knows you don't hate him and you can be satisfied that you made that clear.
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Truthfully ( and this will sound mean, sorry but I've been here) he just probably just didn't want to be the bad guy so he offered a "friendship". Irrespective of what a psychic says, the fact that he has not responded or made an effort should show you his true intention. Don't you deserve a better "friend" than that?
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elcaliente:
I'd just like to add to my last post. I've been told in all my readings that my ex and I share a deep connection regardless of the distance between us. I'm not sure if that something you all get in your readings, but it certainly has been in all of mine. I've also been told that one way psychics can tell if there is potential in a relationship is to measure the connection. If there is little energy in a connection, chances are it is not going to manifest in a good outcome. I've also been told (whether it is true or not, I cannot verify) that psychics can also tell if a relationship between two people is one that involves emotional feelings or not, and that is assessed through the energy of the connection. So, in the case of third parties, if a person shows up in a reading but there is little energy in the connection, the psychic indicates that it is not an attachment that involves emotion. It could be a purely physical interest, or a casual interest.
Of course, it is possible that two people can share love for each other as friends, and so a deep connection doesn't necessarily mean a romance. But, if it is true, and if I consider the absence of a response to my friendly text as a demonstration that my significant other has no interest in pursuing friendship with me, then what is the deep connection between us that is being seen in the readings?
If the above is true, a
scorpiogirl:
I don't always want to sound like I'm being tough on anyone so all I will say is if you read back on other people's posts (even mine from when I joined this board and wrote of the crazy psychic addiction I used to have a few years ago because I was heartbroken) you will see that everyone has been told they have a strong connection. Then look at how many people got the person back.
It's not an easy thing to work through and I think many psychic readings keep people tied to someone emotionally when the connection is long gone. I was in that position where I called for reassurance and even though the facts showed otherwise I believed in the stories I was fed.
Even now I will have a general reading about things, job, family etc and I will always be told that whoever I'm dating at the time is who I'm going to marry. I've been told the guy is in love with me even though we haven't known each other too long. So I look at how he treats me and not what a psychic says and what I cannot confirm. If they;d been right, I would have been married about 5 or 6 years ago.
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