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After an 11th month reading binge today I was told by one of the great “heavy hitters”
If you believed in your person you wouldnt be getting comfort readings
The words “You never believed in him thats why you were getting comfort reads” really hit home I guess after a while when predictions fail and you question it all eventually ethical readers have to show you reality when theres nothing left to say.
& that just about sums it up.
I did read with Mattie that was my final read but I doubt it will ever see fruition no matter how validating it sounded.
This whole experience and that comment resonates louder.
If you believe you wont have to comfort read & thats what its been through all these months.
Fairytales and life in a bubble & then it pops and you see the reality for what it is
I just hope I can heal & thank no one has to go through such experiences
Its just entertainment…it took me a while because Im stupid & now I understand & its heartbreaking💕
I wouldn't really call that an ethical reader telling you that the reason you're getting comfort readings is because you don't believe in your POI. We're all calling about our POIs because our POIs are being pieces of shit to us one way or another and most of us want to hope it will all change so that we don't have to feel that pain. None of us SHOULD be "believing" in our POI in a positive way when all they show is shitty behavior. So if it's Mattie you read with and she told you that you should believe in your POI, she's garbage. I've never read with her but that's actually really UNethical for her to say, especially if she can supposedly see that you're not being treated properly. You don't want to give yourself a false sense of hope and belief either because that is called being delusional. What you want to do is let go. Letting go doesn't mean something won't turn around at some point if it's supposed to. Letting go simply means you're not going to fill yourself up with false hope and "belief" so that you can prevent additional pain and heartache. Letting go means loving yourself more and trusting that the universe has a divine plan and whatever is meant for you will come to you, even if it isn't what you think you want right now.
Please, stop listening to this dangerous individual
She is preaching and teaching lessons about what LETTING GO" means!!!!!!!
This is individual has spent HER ENTIRE LIFE WITH TOXIC SITUATIONSHIPS. She has been abandoned by all her " partners" ( that is why she talks about being with multiple people) because as she herself described she needs to save them....lol
She has been calling psychics all her life about her situationships till date. After 4 years with a drug addict who is incapable to be in a relationship and clearly no relationship material she is still paying 160 dollars for 10 minutes to see if the drug addict contacts her in 1 or in 2....she comes here 30 minutes after the drug addict contacts her to update...
AND THIS INDIVIDUAL COMES HERE TALKING ABOUT LETTING GO....she needs to be locked
She is very unstable and while she cannot be saved I urge people to not pay attention to what she writes on this forum in order not to go in the direction of insanity.
Her " letting go" is wait until the drug addict comes back in 1, 2 or 100 to keep the toxicity going because she is codependent and cannot let go.
Letting go means burning the bridge forever, not going back regardless whether the person returns or not. That is the only healthy meaning of letting go.
Please, beware of this user. She appears to be giving life lessons when what she needs is mental help in an urgent manner.
