How often do you recommend getting readings?

[christinaaaa]

Just curious for those who are trying to establish a healthier relationship with readings and balance what you hear with your own intuition, how often are you getting them? 

[Sunset21]

Once a month if you find a reader that fits you and you trust. I spiralled and tried many daily trying to find one that resonated then you get stuck in a loop with different scenarios confusing you.
Find a reader that needs little information such as only names and then allow the reader to flow if it fits your situation stick with them and see what passes as time goes by but once a month or every three months to allow yourself time for things to flow and not disrupt your own head and energy.
I went through a time so confused readers changing the narrative as it suited them so stick with someone consistent.
Hope this helps you and good luck xx

[christinaaaa]

Thanks so much for your answer! This makes total sense. Very, very helpful and best of luck to you as well!

[Mina]

I know I’m not the popular vote here but I heard readers say anything more than once every six months is excessive … which who honestly is sticking with that and saying they’re well off? (I’m sure they’re not on here excessively checking)

So…That’s a really good question. I don’t think I can have a healthy relationship with this.

For me even once a month would have me thirsting for more.

I do agree with having readers who are for you and don’t leave you emotionally spiraling.

Once a month does sound achievable for some who are emotionally well balanced. But I also sense this isn’t achievable for many… something feels off about this. That’s just me… and I’m also in search of rebalancing myself out.

[christinaaaa]

Thank you for sharing your experiences! I have found a really great local reader who has stayed extremely consistent for me and I will say that the readings all ended up looking very similar when I get them too often. However, 6 months also feels like a long stretch haha. I think instead of sticking to a hard and fast rule, we should give ourselves enough time to let predictions unfold a bit before going back .

[Miss Philosopher]

In my personal experience, If I've read with one reader but still feel like I need to read with another reader to confirm and on and on it goes, then the first reader was off. That's when the excessive readings happen, I believe, is when we read with those that don't match what our own intuition is saying to us, regardless if we're fighting against it or not.

When you've found the reader that is in alignment with your own gut, then you won't feel the need to get more readings, there will be some semblance of trust there, and you'll find yourself not really wanting another for several months.

Example: When I was reading with Aries Intuition (she's retired), I'd have one reading every 3 to 4 months and never felt the need to have more readings with anyone else. Currently, I read with one main one and one secondary one when I can't afford my main one. I don't really feel the need to have more readings for at least one month or longer.

I think the frequency of readings should NEVER be more than one month apart. However, I do understand the anxiety factor, which is another giant cause for binges. At the end of the day, trying to learn emotional control is the best way to abstain from having ridiculous amounts of readings. We all do it from time to time, so no judgment on my end.