MY ONGOING PROCESS - NOT YET OUTCOMES

[cake101]

It's funny, I remember reading OP's post like probably a month ago.
I remember reading the part where if the psychic see's him as too busy or overwhelmed that meant he was with someone else. I remember thinking "Naw that's not true, mines not doing that"
Well consider my surprise when he reached out last week, writing me a letter where he explained why he had to end things.

Earlier in the year I had what was the best relationship of my life. Calling us soulmates was an understatement
 We were perfect together and so happy. It was only 4 months but it was an intense 4 months. Then one day out of no where he texted me to break it off mid drive on his way to see me. I never got an explanation other then he was too busy and not feeling it? The day before he was literally telling me how much he missed me and couldn't wait to see me. That's when my psychic binge for the second time in my life started lol.

Fast forward to now. I figured he was being avoidant or maybe just not that into me. Psychics fed me the he's avoidant or he has past baggage he needs to sort through (I guess technically true) but that he would be back and apologize and reconcile.

The letter basically outlined that he left me at the time to go back with his ex partner
 Saying that she was jelous of me so she made some life changes and wanted to try again for their 2 year old daughter. He told me basically he went along with it and a coworker told him to just dump me and not tell me.
So I guess this has been eating him up inside. The letter was very conflicted and confusing. Saying how much he misses me but also saying he feels he needs to do the "right" thing and stick it out with the ex.

So when you say they are likely with someone else, I'm here to say that's soooooo true.

Only Gemini Moon and Phoenix Burning said straight up he was with someone else.
Everyone else mainly said he was stuck on the past and clearing out old baggage from a last relationship (I suppose could be true but so far they are actively together)
QoC18 was the only realistic one where all her readings made sense and referenced his daughter multiple times.
Others were close in that with the new information it fits but they never said there was a third party flat out.
Mattie really disappointed me as she said they would never be involved again - clearly wrong unless there's something I don't know.

Jury's still out I guess what he will do since his letter made it sound like he wasn't happy with his choice to leave me. Unfortunately I'm stuck making my rounds to see what will happen with this and then I'm hoping to start detaching and moving on. Hopefully leaving psychics in the past because my bank account can't support this habit for long.

[sugarsky]

Sorry to hear about your situation!! That is awfully painful. I hope everything works out.

I honestly don’t think there’s one general rule.
All of the psychics mentioned in this thread have been crazy wrong for me at different times of my readings. I really believe it’s just 95% guesses at this point.

[beautifulsunset]

Sorry to hear about your situation!! That is awfully painful. I hope everything works out.

I honestly don’t think there’s one general rule.
All of the psychics mentioned in this thread have been crazy wrong for me at different times of my readings. I really believe it’s just 95% guesses at this point.

Couldn't agree more. As I mentioned in one of my previous posts....99.9% are scammers and the 0.1% left can barely see present, let alone future. If something happens to pan out is ONLY educated guesses. They were just lucky in what they said the same I could be lucky and win the lotto once out of a million times I play.

[hopefulwife1]

Has anyone noticed if Yona timing with a related incident is more accurate  than her normal timing. For instance if she says that this is going to occur when she sees this happening around you. Opposed to 6 to 8 weeks etch.

[beautifulsunset]

Has anyone noticed if Yona timing with a related incident is more accurate  than her normal timing. For instance if she says that this is going to occur when she sees this happening around you. Opposed to 6 to 8 weeks etch.

It really makes me sad for people like you when you keep asking and no one responds.

Please, realise that this "forum" is DEAD. This is an unmanaged jungle and a dangerous one if your self esteem is not very high. Only a handful of psychopaths come here from time to time to promote scammers (philosopher, SGvues). These people are very mentally sick and are addicted to psychics so please, don't take them seriously. For example, rayban212 comes here to only ask but never provides feedback. She/he is a well known psychopath from years back and I mean text book psychopat, the same as that whimjerj user.

I am afraid that no one will answer and I would encourage you to stay away from this place and the bunch of psychopaths here.

[cake101]

Sorry to hear about your situation!! That is awfully painful. I hope everything works out.

I honestly don’t think there’s one general rule.
All of the psychics mentioned in this thread have been crazy wrong for me at different times of my readings. I really believe it’s just 95% guesses at this point.

Thanks ❤️
It is, it would have been better if he just said he went back to his ex because he wanted to and left it at that.
Now feels like a Romeo and Juliet story, destined to be together just not in this life time 😅
I hope he figures it out. If he truely loved his ex and that's why he's there I wouldn't complain with that. But the fact he is with her because he feels he has to but longs to be with me sucks.

And couldn't agree more. Even looking at some of the transcripts it is like are they just so good at general that its easy to make it fit or did they really see pieces of the situation.

Also I'm proud of beautifulsunset for making a mature/constructive comment for once. I thought I was gonna get roasted

[beautifulsunset]

Sorry to hear about your situation!! That is awfully painful. I hope everything works out.

I honestly don’t think there’s one general rule.
All of the psychics mentioned in this thread have been crazy wrong for me at different times of my readings. I really believe it’s just 95% guesses at this point.

Thanks ❤️
It is, it would have been better if he just said he went back to his ex because he wanted to and left it at that.
Now feels like a Romeo and Juliet story, destined to be together just not in this life time 😅
I hope he figures it out. If he truely loved his ex and that's why he's there I wouldn't complain with that. But the fact he is with her because he feels he has to but longs to be with me sucks.

And couldn't agree more. Even looking at some of the transcripts it is like are they just so good at general that its easy to make it fit or did they really see pieces of the situation.

Also I'm proud of beautifulsunset for making a mature/constructive comment for once. I thought I was gonna get roasted

Don´t fool yourself. If he wanted to he would. It is very simple

[cake101]

Sorry to hear about your situation!! That is awfully painful. I hope everything works out.

I honestly don’t think there’s one general rule.
All of the psychics mentioned in this thread have been crazy wrong for me at different times of my readings. I really believe it’s just 95% guesses at this point.

Thanks ❤️
It is, it would have been better if he just said he went back to his ex because he wanted to and left it at that.
Now feels like a Romeo and Juliet story, destined to be together just not in this life time 😅
I hope he figures it out. If he truely loved his ex and that's why he's there I wouldn't complain with that. But the fact he is with her because he feels he has to but longs to be with me sucks.

And couldn't agree more. Even looking at some of the transcripts it is like are they just so good at general that its easy to make it fit or did they really see pieces of the situation.

Also I'm proud of beautifulsunset for making a mature/constructive comment for once. I thought I was gonna get roasted

Don´t fool yourself. If he wanted to he would. It is very simple

Don't worry, I'm not arguing against that logic.
It's the likely truth we all don't want to face.
I remind myself everyday if he really thought I was the one then he'd choose me.
I have my peace knowing what happened now. I just have to choose to move on is the next step

[beautifulsunset]

It's funny, I remember reading OP's post like probably a month ago.
I remember reading the part where if the psychic see's him as too busy or overwhelmed that meant he was with someone else. I remember thinking "Naw that's not true, mines not doing that"
Well consider my surprise when he reached out last week, writing me a letter where he explained why he had to end things.

Earlier in the year I had what was the best relationship of my life. Calling us soulmates was an understatement
 We were perfect together and so happy. It was only 4 months but it was an intense 4 months. Then one day out of no where he texted me to break it off mid drive on his way to see me. I never got an explanation other then he was too busy and not feeling it? The day before he was literally telling me how much he missed me and couldn't wait to see me. That's when my psychic binge for the second time in my life started lol.

Fast forward to now. I figured he was being avoidant or maybe just not that into me. Psychics fed me the he's avoidant or he has past baggage he needs to sort through (I guess technically true) but that he would be back and apologize and reconcile.

The letter basically outlined that he left me at the time to go back with his ex partner
 Saying that she was jelous of me so she made some life changes and wanted to try again for their 2 year old daughter. He told me basically he went along with it and a coworker told him to just dump me and not tell me.
So I guess this has been eating him up inside. The letter was very conflicted and confusing. Saying how much he misses me but also saying he feels he needs to do the "right" thing and stick it out with the ex.

So when you say they are likely with someone else, I'm here to say that's soooooo true.

Only Gemini Moon and Phoenix Burning said straight up he was with someone else.
Everyone else mainly said he was stuck on the past and clearing out old baggage from a last relationship (I suppose could be true but so far they are actively together)
QoC18 was the only realistic one where all her readings made sense and referenced his daughter multiple times.
Others were close in that with the new information it fits but they never said there was a third party flat out.
Mattie really disappointed me as she said they would never be involved again - clearly wrong unless there's something I don't know.

Jury's still out I guess what he will do since his letter made it sound like he wasn't happy with his choice to leave me. Unfortunately I'm stuck making my rounds to see what will happen with this and then I'm hoping to start detaching and moving on. Hopefully leaving psychics in the past because my bank account can't support this habit for long.

What I highlighted above is very alarming. This is not what a MATURE and HEALTHY person does and most definitely does not do it like that. For me, it is already screaming red flags everyhwere. Someone breaking off by text, not giving explanations and saying he is busy.......RED FLAGS EVERYWHERE and this is not about having chosen the other one, which he did but about his way of dealing with things. IMMATURE IS an understatement. He is NOT relationship material.
Additionally, I wouldn't call an intense thing of 4 months a relationship in any shape or form. And the word INTENSE is also very telling. In 4 months you don´t know anything about someone.

I repeat once again - if he wanted to be with you he would. He has not chosen you and yes, he has chosen the other one. Don´t fool yourself or make excuses.

[hopefulwife1]

@beutifulsunset thank you for responding. I was thinking the something why no one was answering my question. I did ask more than once. I thought I was just imagining things.

[beautifulsunset]

@beutifulsunset thank you for responding. I was thinking the something why no one was answering my question. I did ask more than once. I thought I was just imagining things.

Yes, I saw you asking several times now and in the past, and no one says a word. Be very careful of this "forum". It is full of psychopaths belive me, believe me. And also full of mentally unstable people who actually need psychiatric help and they seem to confuse psychiatric with psychic so they get addicted to psychics and promote them. You also have "readers" (aka scammers) disguised as users here reading and bashing others. This place is wild............

Please, look at the screenshot attached....318 people online today and currently 183 guests online (aka people hiding, reading and not providing any feedback)......and you keep asking questions and nothing.

[Mina]

To an extent maggot husband stealing rainbow sl** has some points but not all of it per usual- and while she chooses to beat themselves up SO ITS ALL WRONG -instead of practicing compassionate mindfulness

It’s a hard to pill to swallow but stories we really like is a key feature in limerence and I admit they are kinda areas I fantasize about or make excuses.  And yes sadly honest inquiry if I’m using psychics to feed that tale.
Like:
•Past lives “we had together” -can’t prove it but the story is very compelling (that this is some unresolved karma that we must suffer in this life)
•Cinderella stories- like the movie she’s all that: I’m this nerdy girl and he’s this popular jock; crazy rich Asian: I’m this poor smart girl and he’s this rich guy who stands up to his mom (I’m not saying they can’t happen but to an extent there is idealization “chick flick” film that has destitute beginning and a type of closure happy ending)
•Soul mates/twin flames- I’m sorry but you can’t prove this. And in my 20s most the psychic I did call where a hit to Hera that story of our past life
•Intense chemistry: so this one is tricky but gets easier to see with time and age. (At least my teenager self vs adult self.) These gimmicky get him back videos on YouTube like coach Lee- really helped me see that attraction does come with hormones. And they are a powerful cocktail combination of bonding. He even describes as a drug. But attraction fades and real connection is relationship  byproduct- this is slow building. Most support relationship groups have tale sign of anything less than 3 months is a red flag.

So where does mindfulness compassion come in. It’s when we see our mistakes, shame, guilt and say “I see you.” You hold that pain and not it take personal. It is like talking to that child part of ourselves who is facing their parent saying their divorcing - but still having strength to love that part of ourselves anyways. Or any hard part from childhood or even recent wounds. To an extent psychic kinda try to fill that void; but it is a spiritual bypass- they seem to give us compassion with answers. Personally, I just got done with powerful inner child session with the myself and admitted how this relationship was suppose to be the why to that other relationship didn’t work out. And life is not like that. The hard lesson is facing not needing to be justified. That’s it. It isn’t personal. However, consoling my inner wound involves holding a strong boundary and love- and I think we all have a different way to approach ourselves. But how I say to myself buck up will look different for others.

Statements “if he wanted to he would” - is an answer for ppl who have cut themselves off. It not a black white and rule across every board. I remember in my friggin 30s the reason why a guy didn’t back to me was because his car got impounded for 3 months. I know how emotionally immature but things will still get a guy down: money, job, and car. He didn’t have the money he was depressed and he felt ashamed. And it wasn’t because a 3rd party.

The best thing you can do though is focus on you. Meaning don’t twist your focus on them if it loses your focus on your well being.

Also stay away from beautiful sunset IT is a hateful thing. She has told members here when family members passed away and ppl DV situation to bash their heads harder and that they deserved it. Even when the context was not psychics

Seems like they’re finally taking their meds to not respond in all caps

[beautifulsunset]

To an extent maggot husband stealing rainbow sl** has some points but not all of it per usual- and while she chooses to beat themselves up SO ITS ALL WRONG -instead of practicing compassionate mindfulness

It’s a hard to pill to swallow but stories we really like is a key feature in limerence and I admit they are kinda areas I fantasize about or make excuses.  And yes sadly honest inquiry if I’m using psychics to feed that tale.
Like:
•Past lives “we had together” -can’t prove it but the story is very compelling (that this is some unresolved karma that we must suffer in this life)
•Cinderella stories- like the movie she’s all that: I’m this nerdy girl and he’s this popular jock; crazy rich Asian: I’m this poor smart girl and he’s this rich guy who stands up to his mom (I’m not saying they can’t happen but to an extent there is idealization “chick flick” film that has destitute beginning and a type of closure happy ending)
•Soul mates/twin flames- I’m sorry but you can’t prove this. And in my 20s most the psychic I did call where a hit to Hera that story of our past life
•Intense chemistry: so this one is tricky but gets easier to see with time and age. (At least my teenager self vs adult self.) These gimmicky get him back videos on YouTube like coach Lee- really helped me see that attraction does come with hormones. And they are a powerful cocktail combination of bonding. He even describes as a drug. But attraction fades and real connection is relationship  byproduct- this is slow building. Most support relationship groups have tale sign of anything less than 3 months is a red flag.

So where does mindfulness compassion come in. It’s when we see our mistakes, shame, guilt and say “I see you.” You hold that pain and not it take personal. It is like talking to that child part of ourselves who is facing their parent saying their divorcing - but still having strength to love that part of ourselves anyways. Or any hard part from childhood or even recent wounds. To an extent psychic kinda try to fill that void; but it is a spiritual bypass- they seem to give us compassion with answers. Personally, I just got done with powerful inner child session with the myself and admitted how this relationship was suppose to be the why to that other relationship didn’t work out. And life is not like that. The hard lesson is facing not needing to be justified. That’s it. It isn’t personal. However, consoling my inner wound involves holding a strong boundary and love- and I think we all have a different way to approach ourselves. But how I say to myself buck up will look different for others.

Statements “if he wanted to he would” - is an answer for ppl cut themselves. It not a black white and rule across every board. I remember in my friggin 30s the reason why a guy didn’t back to me was because his car got impounded for 3 months. I know how emotionally immature but things will still get a guy down: money, job, and car. He didn’t have the money he was depressed and he felt ashamed. And it wasn’t because a 3rd party.

The best thing you can do though is focus on you. Meaning don’t twist your focus on them if it loses your focus on your well being.

Also stay away from beautiful sunset IT is a hateful thing. She has told members here when family members passed away and ppl DV situation to bash their heads harder and that they deserved it. Even when the context was not psychics

Seems like they’re finally taking their meds to not respond in all caps

YOU ARE NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!

AND YES, IF HE WANTED HE WOULD. MOST DEFINITELY. STOP YOUR BULLSHIT
It is all very simple when people don´t make forever shitty excuses believing in Santa Claus. When a guy wants you he will chase you and he will make sure that he doesn´t lose you. YES, IF HE WANTED HE WOULD AND IF HE WAS RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL HE WOULD BE AN ADULT, MATURE AND HEALTHY TO NOT WRITE THIS BULLSHIT STOPPING THINGS WITH SOMEONE OVER A TEXT MESSAGE WITH NO EXPLANATIONS TO ON TOP OF THAT CHOOSE SOMEONE ELSE

STOP YOUR BULLSHIT MINA BITCH. YOUR POSTS GIVE MIGRAINES.

YOU FUCKING LIAR BITCH. I DID NOT DO A SINGLE THING YOU SAID. GO AND FUCK YOURSELF.

PLEASE, BEWARE OF PSYCHOPATH MINA....ANOTHER ONE TO THE LIST

[TA422]

@beutifulsunset thank you for responding. I was thinking the something why no one was answering my question. I did ask more than once. I thought I was just imagining things.

I can’t speak for everyone, but there’s a good chance people don’t respond to questions because they will likely get attacked. I’d say that’s why this forum is pretty much dead. I’ll drop you a message regarding what I’ve noticed with Yona.

[beautifulsunset]

@beutifulsunset thank you for responding. I was thinking the something why no one was answering my question. I did ask more than once. I thought I was just imagining things.

I can’t speak for everyone, but there’s a good chance people don’t respond to questions because they will likely get attacked. I’d say that’s why this forum is pretty much dead. I’ll drop you a message regarding what I’ve noticed with Yona.

You are wrong, I am afraid. This forum is dead because it is dead. And it is not even a forum but an ugly place full of psychopaths, well known ones who have been here years degrading, bullying and committing acts of psychopathy. It was the same ugly place before and it has always been.
In addition, there are several mentally unstable users here who are addicted to "psychics" aka scammers and are enablers and promoters. This is dangerous for people who are still sane.
All in all, avoid the stuff written here.