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Offline Florallover87

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MY ONGOING PROCESS - NOT YET OUTCOMES
« on: January 24, 2025, 06:24:02 PM »
My Story

I’ve known X (my POI) for 21 years. We had a situationship for three years before ending things. After 13 years of zero contact, he unexpectedly reached out. I hadn’t done a reading on his return beforehand, so his message completely caught me off guard. I hesitated at first, but in the end, he convinced me to meet and talk. Truthfully, I still missed him, and I also felt the need for closure. Our previous ending had been abrupt—not because of him, but due to certain circumstances—leaving me with many lingering questions.

We talked for a while, and ultimately, we officially reconciled in July 2022.

When he reached out, he asked to restart our relationship. I had my doubts, especially since, as Yona puts it, he was still in a committed relationship—and still is—though he has a “side hustle” from time to time. I didn’t want to accept this reality, as it was never my intention to involve myself with anyone in that situation. But despite everything, I was still in love.

At first, everything felt great—he wanted to impress me, to prove he was in a better place than before, more mature and responsible. And he did. Even after so many years of no contact, a part of me was still in love with him. As some say, falling in love with someone for the second time is even deeper, stronger, and, unfortunately, more painful.

Our first period together lasted about ten months. Those ten months were amazing—sometimes on and off—but at least I was seeing him twice a month. Once, while he was drunk, he opened up about his feelings for me, telling me I was everything he wanted and that he was considering leaving his official commitment for me. He said I was driving him crazy.

By February 2023, I couldn’t have been more invested in the relationship and more in love with him. I wanted to see him more because the time we spent together never felt like enough—we even started making plans to travel together.

I started getting readings in December 2022, mainly to confirm that he truly loved me as he claimed. After that, I wanted to know if he would finally express his feelings openly, and eventually, my readings focused on whether we would become more committed. Every reader told me the same thing—that he would take things more seriously by April.

Sure enough, he did become more committed—but not to me.

By March 2023, he started acting distant. I would go to his workplace to ask what was wrong, but he would claim he was overwhelmed with work—so much so that he supposedly couldn’t even return my text messages. He always had something in his mouth as an excuse not to kiss me. In April, it was more of the same—or maybe worse.

By this point, I was already depressed, with a thousand thoughts running through my head. On top of that, a close friend of mine was moving to China, which devastated me. By the end of April, I decided to give him an ultimatum—thinking he loved me too much to let me go. But instead, he broke up with me, claiming he couldn’t give me what I expected and that he had to focus on his children (yeah, sure).

That’s when I started frantically consulting serious readers, and my IG algorithm began suggesting ads for Keen and Kasamba—besides being the worst decision of my life, it was also the worst experience. Those platforms were filled with sugarcoaters and fairytale readings, giving me nothing but false hope of a beautiful wedding and him becoming everything I wanted. None of those first readers I reached out to ended up being right, and I must say, most of them were the ones that were online the most and had the highest rates.

I would see X online on different social media platforms, and by May 2023, he started behaving strangely on IG. He had never really used it before, claiming he didn’t know how it worked, but suddenly, he was online six to ten times a day. At night, he would stay connected until 4 or 5 AM. I kept wondering—how in the world could anyone stay online that long? That’s when I realized he was starting to court the woman Tajah had mentioned.

Around mid-May, I came across this amazing forum where I found valuable information about some readers like Tara, Indio, and Tajah. Indio gave a semi-fairytale reading, even saying X was depressed and drinking excessively due to our breakup. Tajah was my second reading and extremely direct—she told me he was seeing someone else, described her appearance with shocking accuracy, and explained why he was involved with her. But she also said it wouldn’t last. They all saw him coming back soon.

Then came the nightmare—TEN months of silence—before he finally reached out, asking to reconcile.

We reconnected at the end of February 2024. Before Valentine’s Day, we had a brief, casual encounter at a concert. It took him a week after that to actually call me and ask to meet and talk. I agreed, and once again, he asked to reconcile. We got back together—but this time, there was a major issue. I was about to move to another country—on the other side of the world. I told him I was leaving but didn’t specify for how long because I didn’t want to lose him again. He said we would work things out in the meantime.

We had two incredible weeks together before I left. But the moment I was gone, the same pattern repeated itself. He disappeared.

Psychic Readings and Accuracy

All the following psychics accurately predicted the timeframe for communication, but none of them realized it would take so long. Some, especially those who read for me right after the breakup, mistook “6” for June, when in reality, it meant six months. Others saw contact happening but misinterpreted it as him reaching out to me, when in fact, it was him reaching out to his momentary fling.

The only one who precisely foresaw both the exact month of his return and our reconciliation was Gemini Moon—and one other psychic listed below. She actually gave the exact date.

Bitwine Psychics:
   •   Maharaani
   •   Miss Toria - Only the date or timeframe was accurate
   •   CindyS
   •   Ari
   •   Gemini Moon
   •   Tarot by Hipa
   •   Miss Ann
   •   Andrew - Only the date or timeframe was accurate
   •   Annette Marie - Only the date or timeframe was accurate
   •   Rachel Marie - Way off on the timeframe but has been accurate about how events are unfolding (she predicted we would break up again).
   •   Psychic Eric D - Only the date or timeframe was accurate

California Psychics:
   •   Mattie
   •   Tajah (she was also the first to mention a third party)
   •   Tara

Other Readers:
   •   Yona Farrell – A great support, providing deep insight
   •   Matilda – Wrong about communication but accurate in other areas of my life (she predicted I would move to the country I ended up in)
   •   Moonbabe Tarot (Instagram) – Gave great insight into the situation along with helpful advice
   •   Angelic Dream – Picked up an “8” for contact and reconciliation, which aligns with the eight months it took him to reach out again.
        •      Zadalia

(I’ll continue updating this list, including both the most accurate and the worst ones.)

My Experience with Readings

y questions have always been very specific with every psychic. I asked about his feelings, thoughts, actions, and intentions. I wanted to know if they saw a reconciliation if he would come back, if they could predict when we’d communicate again, and even if they could give me a timeframe for his return. 

In the end, many of the psychics who read for me right after the breakup were completely off. Most predicted he would return within two to three months, but in reality, it took ten months. 

At the same time, many of them told me he was "busy"—that he had things to take care of, was overwhelmed with work, focused on money, or worried about his children. Now, I understand why many psychics say that your POI is busy, doesn’t have time, or is dealing with something. More often than not, that “something” is another person—a new romantic interest. 

What I don’t understand is whether these psychics’ spirit guides fail to show them this information or if they simply choose not to say it to avoid hurting us. Either way, I find it disrespectful—both to themselves as professionals and to us as clients—because they take it as if they took us for fools, sadly truth always comes to light. But life always reveals it in the end. 

I eventually discovered the truth because I’m naturally investigative. Sadly, some psychics are simply not good—not necessarily bad people, but clumsy in how they deliver a reading. They try so hard to seem accurate, try to interpret dates when sometimes its further behind, or claim, “No, he’s not with anyone,” while other readers say the exact opposite. 

For example, the psychic mentioned above California Psychics immediately told me in our very first session that he was involved with someone else. She had already seen this third party. She was one of the few who gave me an almost exact description of what this other person looked like. 

A Hard Truth About Psychic Readings

To everyone who gets readings—whenever a psychic tells you that your POI is busy, has things to take care of, or that they love you and will come back but are just "dealing with something"—consider that, more often than not, that “something” is another person. 

Maybe in 20% to 30% of cases, it could genuinely be a situation related to health, money, travel, or other personal matters. But in most cases, **it’s someone else.** 

As I write this and reflect on my experience with psychic readings, I find myself crying. I realize now that I’ve been living under a false illusion and feel hopeless about my life.

I hope I can move on soon, find someone new, and experience real, fulfilling love. I’ve drastically reduced the number of readings I get, and I know I will stop completely soon. 

As Yona says— **shitty things unfold first** before the good things can develop. 

That’s all for now. I will keep updating this post to share the rest of my story.
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Offline sugarsky

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Re: MY ONGOING PROCESS - NOT YET OUTCOMES
« Reply #1 on: January 24, 2025, 06:47:19 PM »
Thank you for posting this and opening up about your situation. So many of us on this board can absolutely relate to your story in one way or another.

It is true. A man who loves you will not repeatedly hurt you. Of course everybody has a different personality in different ways of coping but if he loves you, he loves you.

I dealt with my own attachment issues to somebody who was so not my match and it wasn’t until recently that I finally decided on my own to let go of him. Completely and finally. My journey was not as long as yours is, and I still had trouble doing it but now I feel so free and like I have so much beautiful life to live. We have to be strong. This man was halfway in and halfway out the entire 6 to 7 years of mine, knowing him and treated me so poorly. I recently told him I was done with him and he threw a fit and tried to win me back and I think that’s where some of us ladies who have these emotional connections and these open hearts get stuck because it’s hard to stand up to somebody that you thought was good for you or that you thought saw something in you at one point. Nope.— no more

There has to be a point where we start saying no more of this nonsense and you have to live for yourself

Consider yourself lucky to have made these realizations about your life because that is the first and most difficult step of moving on.. not everybody gets there

You will make it through xx

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Re: MY ONGOING PROCESS - NOT YET OUTCOMES
« Reply #2 on: January 24, 2025, 09:06:41 PM »
Hi Floralover87,

I am echoing the others sentiments, thank you for sharing your story. I can also relate as I went on a downward spiral last year after an unexpected breakup. I was fed the same fairy tales and I repeatedly asked for contact predictions and reconciliation predictions. I would be devastated when each month passed without contact. While some did predict some very significant events related to career and minor contact/events, the outcome related to love and reconciliation never passed. I finally got to a point where I just asked my former POI point blank if he was seeing anyone and if he saw me in his future. I got the answer I needed right then. It was devastating and I immediately cancelled all my psychic reading platforms, but still had a couple readings booked with Yona and a couple others that I decided to keep.

I highly recommend if you are weening off the readings to request a general reading as it is less devastating to hold the psychics to contact predictions that may not pass. That has worked for me and I found it to be more interesting with the talented readers who all seem to give me the same future readings. I try not to ask for timing at all and just live my life the way I want without counting down to those dates. My predictions all seem to be in the distant future, so it’s easier to live in the now. Hope this helps and hang in there.
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Re: MY ONGOING PROCESS - NOT YET OUTCOMES
« Reply #3 on: May 06, 2025, 07:51:46 PM »
I think I’m done.
After being predicted a beautiful outcome — this year rekindling my relationship and actually starting something with him — all the psychics ended up changing the timeframe, the circumstances, everything.

This doesn’t necessarily mean I’ll never get another reading again, because I know detaching from this whole process takes time… but for now, I’m done.

Yesterday, he reconciled with the same woman he left me for.

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« Reply #4 on: May 06, 2025, 09:30:51 PM »
I'm so sorry to hear this hun. I think sometimes psychics see things like reconciliation and confuse the "who" part. I've heard many of times where psychics see reconciliation or marriage but it isn't with the inquisitor. It's with someone totally different and that's painful.

Something I recommend to start doing if you're still going to have readings is, find a reader that does general readings, whether it be general life in all areas or general love life etc. They tend to be more accurate about YOUR life and anyone coming or going from it rather than looking into a 3rd party's life and seeing what they have in store on their path. That way, if you're getting a general reading, they would be able to see an ex returning or even someone new coming in.

That's one huge thing I've learned about readings. Mixing/confusing energies is so common. It really is just better to get general readings if you can find a psychic that's great at those.

I do hope that things look up for you sooner rather than later. Sending you hugs, love, blessings, and healing.

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« Reply #5 on: May 07, 2025, 09:32:36 AM »
Please please don’t listen to psychics.

It makes me so sad to read these things

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« Reply #6 on: May 07, 2025, 08:51:48 PM »
Thank you guys so much!
The fact that each month is delayed… is the thing.
It makes me so upset!I will leave an update on the readers and some of the situations that took me to the I’m done

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Re: MY ONGOING PROCESS - NOT YET OUTCOMES
« Reply #7 on: May 08, 2025, 02:12:37 AM »
I think I’m done.
After being predicted a beautiful outcome — this year rekindling my relationship and actually starting something with him — all the psychics ended up changing the timeframe, the circumstances, everything.

This doesn’t necessarily mean I’ll never get another reading again, because I know detaching from this whole process takes time… but for now, I’m done.

Yesterday, he reconciled with the same woman he left me for.

So if I may share…
Jane Wilcox in 2019 saw in the month Sept/oct my SP at the time would fully be ready to be in committed for relationship with me. But it was not with me …because he had ghosted me and I wasn’t able to piece together puzzle (until 3 yrs later why) but it was with someone else he committed himself to. Jane Wilcox then stopped taking my call after that month (or she did) but committed that he is committed to her and I was the 3rd party.

In 2011 some reader on the psychic power network said my SP at THAT time would be ready to have a family, that it was very clear in his aura, but it wasn’t with me. He got someone else pregnant and half ass committed to her. Even though they have two kids; They’re not married, but felt half ass enough to have another kid. (Which I’ve seen many ppl my age have two kids and still not end up together with a baby mamma. Something about maybe we should have two kids to be sure we don’t belong together. 😆 ) But strangely I did hear from this guy 10 yrs later to reveal time that he still thinks of me and misses me, still has love for me, but then blocked me again and we’re back to year 3 of not talking. And I admit for this SP/ex I still miss him, and I have love for him… but I am puzzled not out resentment although it has had to evolve so many times that yes I do have love for this sp/ex (even more so than more recent exes/sp). But time is strange, and love strange; It is expansive. But from here, in this time in space, I absolutely I would not go back to him or any of these SP… and I would like to curiously have the same scientific distant from this current ex/SP.

So… I get it! And I don’t blame psychics… but things are strange. So that’s kinda why I’ve been more involved with attachment theory. I see the why I did the things I do; I am prone to chasing when it triggers childhood trauma (almost every one kind of has their unique danger situation that makes them just chase a losing situation)… but this time either because I’m in 40s (and hormones are one part) but also the amount of trauma i been thru I don’t resentment them either (then again I finally had good enough therapy to process this grief), it’s just tiring enough to just not care to call psychic about it anymore.

The best I can recommend is do right by you, put your mental health first, create healthy spiritual rituals that ground you (with some it may or may not include psychics. For me it was going back to church… and little witchcraft… but I know when it comes to the big G (God) I definitely am not in control) Create healthy habits when things fall apart you can go back to then to ground yourself to pick yourself up (because pain and heartbreak ARE part of this life). Careful which destructive habits you choose because it does speak of your financial life, your friends and family … AND it is hard enough that even with all the best coping mechanisms that are in place… it’s still hard.

Ppl say it’s luck they’ve been with partner that’s never cheated on them or left them; but I think that’s a gaslighting lie. It’s not all luck; it’s work: They had to learn to practice good boundaries, learn to have uncomfortable talks about relationships, examine if their values systems do align and be ready to walk away from compromises that are not compromises but empty words instead of actions known as complacentness. That’s the reality “the work” that SEEMS like luck.

I have this this saying I learned from my ballet teacher: practice makes permanent

If you don’t correct the behavioral habit regardless it becomes permanent and I find that quite true in lots of systems of paradigms. So each time I break up or someone breaks up with me if I go back to psychics then have I really corrected anything or learned or grew?

But overall my deepest condolences. Treat yourself to compassion. You deserve it. Your life is your journey (unlike that all women tone deaf mission statement into orbit) and hopefully psychic weren’t this thing just taking up cluttered space
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