New Bitwine Psychics

[saxenaniks]

Is thera extremely sugarcoated in her readings?

[poorprincess]

I felt she was super into sugarcoating/fairytale.

Is thera extremely sugarcoated in her readings?

[KikiWelll]

To me, she wasn't. She even warned me that if she sees something I wouldn't like, I must accept it. And she was quite realistic about my situation, not terribly negative but definitely not sugarcoating or overly promising either.

[Florallover87]

Did you provided backup information? 😬

[Mina]

I also read with Thera.
I found her just before she was mentioned on this site at the end of the year in Dec. I have been reading with her up until lent… and yes she was one of the readers “I had to read with” post lent.

I kinda agree with some of Ninancy assessment she is an empath. And if there is a gold nugget I learned from this site, thats been mentioned before: empaths are not the best for predictions.

They are stellar with feelings though! I prefer empath readings. POIs in the past have come back and validated word for word what many empath’s have said BUT the reconciliation never last or happened. Also what’s good with feelings, what can I do with that?, actions matter, and feelings do change.

Prediction wise umm well. I dunno. I think she gives everything (and that includes prediction wise) upfront before she charges, she just starts firing information… but again after a few minutes I see she was more consoling my emotions. When I re read older transcripts, and post sabbatical, I see I got a lot of emotional comfort… versus predictions.

There was one short term prediction… well actually I see I didn’t ask it directly but it felt implied. Again the feelings were spot on but what happened I dunno if it matched. I mean ultimately in the big picture she was right, but at the time it felt it was off.

Ugh I hate to saying this next part because it’s pretty naive to think readers don’t know about this site: I asked when I would see my SP in Feb she said not until a “fall” timeline. It made my heart drop and I felt like maybe that was off. Then when I read with her again post lent it was kind of implied I would see him this summer. So I hope she doesn’t read this count it against me. Because I really do like her. But again the reality is feelings change, I have free will, I often change my feelings, and that’s not a bad thing, I know I have more trust in myself then before, I also have some good distance from my SP to be open or moving on with someone else.

I would love to read with her again… but I see, for me, focusing on the predictions has been robbing me of enjoying my life.

So that’s where I’m at.

Please no, DM about this. Won’t answer them. I kinda prefer to keep silent until things happen. But I wanted to say she is lovely.

[KikiWelll]

I agree. I also noticed that empaths can be very good at reading the present and getting into people's heads, but they are not best for predictions. They can only see the dynamics based on current energies, and if these energies stay the same, their insights may manifest accurately, but sometimes circumstances change, and their predictions never happen, or time frames significantly move.
It is still helpful in some cases to consult with empaths when you want to understand people and some situations better. I just gave her names with no context or story, and she picked up everything on her own with some very specific details, and I could validate those, I'm already aware of. So I think she might be a legit reader, and she is fast and generous with information, which is good.

I usually prefer psychics who do readings over the phone for a better connection.
But I tried maybe 20 readers on Bitwine, and some of them were good too, told me similar things, but some were totally off. Some were too slow, writing one short, dry sentence every few minutes. Some were more focused on predictions rather than empathy.

[Mina]

I also noticed that empaths can be very good at reading the present and getting into people's heads, but they are not best for predictions. They can only see the dynamics based on current energies, and if these energies stay the same, their insights may manifest accurately, but sometimes circumstances change, and their predictions never happen, or time frames significantly move.
It is still helpful in some cases to consult with empaths when you want to understand people and some situations better. I just gave her names with no context or story, and she picked up everything on her own with some very specific details, and I could validate those, I'm already aware of.

Really well said! A spot on way to describe empath psychics and her style

[Florallover87]

Yep, I totally agree with you, she is really nice and generous!

I agree. I also noticed that empaths can be very good at reading the present and getting into people's heads, but they are not best for predictions. They can only see the dynamics based on current energies, and if these energies stay the same, their insights may manifest accurately, but sometimes circumstances change, and their predictions never happen, or time frames significantly move.
It is still helpful in some cases to consult with empaths when you want to understand people and some situations better. I just gave her names with no context or story, and she picked up everything on her own with some very specific details, and I could validate those, I'm already aware of. So I think she might be a legit reader, and she is fast and generous with information, which is good.

I usually prefer psychics who do readings over the phone for a better connection.
But I tried maybe 20 readers on Bitwine, and some of them were good too, told me similar things, but some were totally off. Some were too slow, writing one short, dry sentence every few minutes. Some were more focused on predictions rather than empathy.

[poorprincess]

Great points from all of you! This is exactly the perspective I need from a forum like this!

I suppose should not always assume good news is sugarcoated please pardon my cynicism, years of shitty relationships has jaded me!

[Ninacy]

Does Thera always gives a timeline of 4-6 months?

she actually gave me a timeline of 4-7 months and 5-8 months for contact from my POI. I wonder also if she gives similar timelines to everyone and they pass in random. Now I have doubts about her ability to predict the future--like I said I get the impression she is an empath, but not sure yet if she can predict the future, and I also felt her outcome was a bit sugary.

[sugarsky]

Thera is cool. She’s definitely a good empath. Sugary? Maybe a little bit, but I think a lot of that is just her personality. She’s very very sweet
I asked her about a recent POI and her timeline for contact wasn’t really conclusive - she said “soon” basically - within this month. Which I can see happening
But she gave me 6-8 months for development

I think the key is being unattached to outcomes and just living life .. of course we all know that

But she is a generous reader and she definitely got the dynamic correct

[saxenaniks]

Folks, I don’t think Thera is legit. I asked her about a friend of mine and she portrayed him as my long lost ex who won’t commit. Just letting you guys know so you don’t waste money!

[Ninacy]

Folks, I don’t think Thera is legit. I asked her about a friend of mine and she portrayed him as my long lost ex who won’t commit. Just letting you guys know so you don’t waste money!

Xmm suspected it, I do feel she is an empath to a certain degree but she can only pick up some of your emotions based on what you tell her, she hasn't convinced me either she has true psychic ability and can connect to the people you asked her about--I am wondering if all these people coming back and saying their predictions came to pass were just lucky as she got them right randomly.

It's too late for now, my money is already wasted, but I see if I can make a complaint and get a refund. Whoever suggested her, I am glad she worked for you but it looks like she gave you lucky guesses and she was right...

[KikiWelll]

Folks, I don’t think Thera is legit. I asked her about a friend of mine and she portrayed him as my long lost ex who won’t commit. Just letting you guys know so you don’t waste money!

OMG that's so unfortunate... But I've actually had similar experiences. I consulted many Etsy readers about my POI and initially thought their readings were accurate. But when I decided to test them by asking about platonic friends and even cousins, they all failed, incorrectly identifying them as romantic interests.

I suspect these readings often sound legitimate because many situations we inquire about share common traits. For instance, in love triangles where the POI is married, it's almost a given that a reader might say they don't love their spouse etc... simply because they have a lover. Similarly, with exes who are likely to be with someone else, a reader might naturally predict that. Or, with confusing love interests who are not ready for relationships (resulting in no contact), a reader might say, "Oh, they might care about you, but they are just this and that..." and in many cases, contact does happen eventually, as that's a normal human interaction.

Because these are very typical scenarios, it's easy for readers to make a lucky guess that sounds legitimate based on simple psychology and common relationship dynamics.
I do believe, though, that some readers have a genuine gift. I prefer consulting more reputable ones who show their identity and offer more direct interactions, such as phone readings, like Karen Jo, Lady Persephone, or Yona, etc... Even tho Yona isn't an empath, she has been quite accurate about current and people's feelings.
But, even reputable readers aren't perfect, as they aren't always 100% accurate and don't always resonate with everyone.
I accept that, but I guess getting readings is like therapy sometimes

[Ninacy]

well as an amateur reader, readers may actually pick up certain figures from their cards, tools, and visions that are close to the querent, but can't tell if this/these figures are romantic interests, friends, colleagues, family members, or acquaintances. It takes enormous skill and intuitive "on" ability to decipher this, and most psychics, even genuine ones, fail numerous times--what I don't get is that they could ask right away their pendulum or get clarification cards to see who is this person in the querent's like and their role. I often can tell if that person is a boss, friend, or a love interest--or a love rival but sometimes, especially when they are multiple figures in the reading, I can't. And I always ask first hand if I'm not sure--is that person your boss or your ex or whatever??do you have two kids with your ex? to make sure I am connected to the right party, rather than just go and make a guess.