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Offline aquagirl

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Re: How Much Is Too Much?
« Reply #15 on: October 15, 2021, 07:33:17 PM »
I have three people i trust to read for me. And i usually don't read with all them in a short period of time. Rarely if i'm going through something then for different perspective. but your energy is scattered and its can interfere with your reading. I don't trust just anyone with my energy. I have a different perspective on energy exchange than most.  The odd time if my trusted isn't available, i'll try someone new, and 95% of the time regret it. In my experience my best readings are when my energy is grounded. Doesn't mean i'm not sad or upset, just that my energy is more level. Reading with numerous people within the same day just messes up your energy, and can make it hard to read, so even a great reader may end up picking up on your fears vs what is really going on, because that frequency is more present and forward.  Yes, of course there are not just bad readers out there but ones that are also fake.

If you're calling about love there's your answer? well no.  i have a friend in a good relationship and she calls every so often as a check in when she calls about other things. She just likes to hear the nice stuff as confirmation.  Some people have insecurities and call for reassurance.  Some situations to the logical mind my seem "obvious" that they are doomed or won't work out, but not the case at all. I know many such situations that actually did.  And sometimes they just aren't going to work. One thing i've learned is that there is no cookie cutter solution for every situation. Just because it didn't work for Ann, doesn't mean it won't work for Jane.

Human nature is to bitch and complain. This is why you seldom see people come back and share their success stories. Doesn't mean they didn't happen, but the likelihood of them coming back to say something awesome happened is very unlikely. Just like customer service one out ten people will go out of their way to compliment an employee for good work.  So, I don't give much merit to people not sharing success stories. Even something like with my friends, i always hear about when their partners have done something wrong vs when they are being awesome. Doesn't mean they don't do things that are great.  And there are also those who complain just for the sake of complaining and nothing is ever good enough. I find it really hard to believe that no psychic ever got anything right for that one person. also, consider the source, i have found that people have very unrealistic exceptions of what psychics can and cant do and that each is still a human being and even though they have the same abilities their strength in using them is different.   That is also why i look at who left a review about someone, because if that person is always negative about every reading , regardless of who they used and always has some level of negativity, then that person's "reviews" i never take seriously.


Going back to the orginal question. If i get a reading from one of my trusted three, I will not call the other two. exception is one is not on sites and has a busy schedule so i never know when i'll get a reading with her. So if i say call one of the other two and she happens to say call me tonight, I don't miss that opportunity. So i'll read with both in the same day. They don't know each other and usually say similar with some different nuances. which to me is valuable. but then also offers confirmation for me that i'm on the right path.   The only other time , i've binged in a short time frame is when something really major has happened and i can't get one of the three. So i tried someone new and don't click with them and then try another, and when i get to one of my top three I feel the energy is just different. It's not about hearing what you want, because it's not what they do, but for me its on a soul level i know which person is right. rarely that has happened with someone new. But this is a rare situation, i have learned to tame this and be more patient.

So yes i believe that your energy gets jumbled and that you can get very different readings. Which can lead to a lot of confusion. My advice is this, ground your energy, wait on the person if can that reads the best for you. You don't need to keep reading until predictions pass. Also, the things we hand on to the most are the least to happen. It's letting that energy go and flow that is important. Doesn't mean let go of the person, or situation , just the energy and focus on yourself. The more you focus on you and doing things for yourself the easier and faster these things will come to you. 

Offline Natashanyc

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Re: How Much Is Too Much?
« Reply #16 on: October 15, 2021, 09:37:51 PM »
I have three people i trust to read for me. And i usually don't read with all them in a short period of time. Rarely if i'm going through something then for different perspective. but your energy is scattered and its can interfere with your reading. I don't trust just anyone with my energy. I have a different perspective on energy exchange than most.  The odd time if my trusted isn't available, i'll try someone new, and 95% of the time regret it. In my experience my best readings are when my energy is grounded. Doesn't mean i'm not sad or upset, just that my energy is more level. Reading with numerous people within the same day just messes up your energy, and can make it hard to read, so even a great reader may end up picking up on your fears vs what is really going on, because that frequency is more present and forward.  Yes, of course there are not just bad readers out there but ones that are also fake.

If you're calling about love there's your answer? well no.  i have a friend in a good relationship and she calls every so often as a check in when she calls about other things. She just likes to hear the nice stuff as confirmation.  Some people have insecurities and call for reassurance.  Some situations to the logical mind my seem "obvious" that they are doomed or won't work out, but not the case at all. I know many such situations that actually did.  And sometimes they just aren't going to work. One thing i've learned is that there is no cookie cutter solution for every situation. Just because it didn't work for Ann, doesn't mean it won't work for Jane.

Human nature is to bitch and complain. This is why you seldom see people come back and share their success stories. Doesn't mean they didn't happen, but the likelihood of them coming back to say something awesome happened is very unlikely. Just like customer service one out ten people will go out of their way to compliment an employee for good work.  So, I don't give much merit to people not sharing success stories. Even something like with my friends, i always hear about when their partners have done something wrong vs when they are being awesome. Doesn't mean they don't do things that are great.  And there are also those who complain just for the sake of complaining and nothing is ever good enough. I find it really hard to believe that no psychic ever got anything right for that one person. also, consider the source, i have found that people have very unrealistic exceptions of what psychics can and cant do and that each is still a human being and even though they have the same abilities their strength in using them is different.   That is also why i look at who left a review about someone, because if that person is always negative about every reading , regardless of who they used and always has some level of negativity, then that person's "reviews" i never take seriously.


Going back to the orginal question. If i get a reading from one of my trusted three, I will not call the other two. exception is one is not on sites and has a busy schedule so i never know when i'll get a reading with her. So if i say call one of the other two and she happens to say call me tonight, I don't miss that opportunity. So i'll read with both in the same day. They don't know each other and usually say similar with some different nuances. which to me is valuable. but then also offers confirmation for me that i'm on the right path.   The only other time , i've binged in a short time frame is when something really major has happened and i can't get one of the three. So i tried someone new and don't click with them and then try another, and when i get to one of my top three I feel the energy is just different. It's not about hearing what you want, because it's not what they do, but for me its on a soul level i know which person is right. rarely that has happened with someone new. But this is a rare situation, i have learned to tame this and be more patient.

So yes i believe that your energy gets jumbled and that you can get very different readings. Which can lead to a lot of confusion. My advice is this, ground your energy, wait on the person if can that reads the best for you. You don't need to keep reading until predictions pass. Also, the things we hand on to the most are the least to happen. It's letting that energy go and flow that is important. Doesn't mean let go of the person, or situation , just the energy and focus on yourself. The more you focus on you and doing things for yourself the easier and faster these things will come to you.


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Re: How Much Is Too Much?
« Reply #17 on: October 16, 2021, 04:03:12 PM »
More than 2 in a day is bad for me.  I'll probably always like getting readings now and then but my goal is to enjoy them and to be able to wait for events to occur or not occur before calling again.  Two years ago around this time I was calling a lot to try to get a prediction on a situation I no longer care about.  In the last year, I've tended to call when I'm bothered about something and want a third party to just listen to me and give me an opinion, and I really should be saving a lot of it for my therapist.

I was triggered by something and binged a couple of weeks ago for the first time in a long time. "Too much" territory for me is when I'm desperately seeking out people to call in the moment and trying to justify doing so to myself instead of purposefully calling 1 or 2 either trusted-ish readers or readers I want to try.

Thanks for this I know a lot of users probably thought I was being facetious but it’s so great that you realized what triggers you and you can control yourself. I have a trusted advisor and couple weeks ago I was triggered by boredom and called on someone one else , they turned out wrong and I regret it. But it taught me more self control. And yes most definitely at a certain point of addiction therapy is needed but I think it’s judged and frowned upon so ppl don’t like to resort to that. I also think too many reads cloud your energy so even a gifted individual can’t read you that well. At some point it needs a break

I didn't mean addiction therapy (although I don't think that's such a bad idea), but rather that nowadays I'm finding myself calling when I really just want a third party to talk to about something that is bothering me, like having a therapist on demand.  The platform sites make it difficult because you can impulsively call that moment and not have to schedule anything.

The rates keep creeping up and up which makes it increasingly difficult to justify my calls.  I added up my binge from a few weeks ago and it came to around $800 -- and I don't feel that I even talked for that long.

I'm not completely opposed to readings; I think that they can be fun, and I have sometimes learned to look at situations with a new perspective or with insight I never would have had on my own.   But, for me, it's playing with fire.

I think the answer lies in developing one's ability to self-soothe, to feel confident in oneself and one's ability to know what to do, and to sit with painful or bothersome emotions.  These are skills that are developed in real therapy, not with psychics.

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Re: How Much Is Too Much?
« Reply #18 on: October 18, 2021, 05:49:04 PM »
Handling Rejection can be very devastating, dangerous and a  compulsive difficulty. If We could master our feelings and emotions Psychic Readings would reduce.

Therapy may help but Really it's self-care, high standards,  self-love and value that is key.

Sometimes You just have to let go and inspire for better and more.
 
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Re: How Much Is Too Much?
« Reply #19 on: October 21, 2021, 11:19:46 PM »
More than 2 in a day is bad for me.  I'll probably always like getting readings now and then but my goal is to enjoy them and to be able to wait for events to occur or not occur before calling again.  Two years ago around this time I was calling a lot to try to get a prediction on a situation I no longer care about.  In the last year, I've tended to call when I'm bothered about something and want a third party to just listen to me and give me an opinion, and I really should be saving a lot of it for my therapist.

I was triggered by something and binged a couple of weeks ago for the first time in a long time. "Too much" territory for me is when I'm desperately seeking out people to call in the moment and trying to justify doing so to myself instead of purposefully calling 1 or 2 either trusted-ish readers or readers I want to try.

Thanks for this I know a lot of users probably thought I was being facetious but it’s so great that you realized what triggers you and you can control yourself. I have a trusted advisor and couple weeks ago I was triggered by boredom and called on someone one else , they turned out wrong and I regret it. But it taught me more self control. And yes most definitely at a certain point of addiction therapy is needed but I think it’s judged and frowned upon so ppl don’t like to resort to that. I also think too many reads cloud your energy so even a gifted individual can’t read you that well. At some point it needs a break

I didn't mean addiction therapy (although I don't think that's such a bad idea), but rather that nowadays I'm finding myself calling when I really just want a third party to talk to about something that is bothering me, like having a therapist on demand.  The platform sites make it difficult because you can impulsively call that moment and not have to schedule anything.

The rates keep creeping up and up which makes it increasingly difficult to justify my calls.  I added up my binge from a few weeks ago and it came to around $800 -- and I don't feel that I even talked for that long.

I'm not completely opposed to readings; I think that they can be fun, and I have sometimes learned to look at situations with a new perspective or with insight I never would have had on my own.   But, for me, it's playing with fire.

I think the answer lies in developing one's ability to self-soothe, to feel confident in oneself and one's ability to know what to do, and to sit with painful or bothersome emotions.  These are skills that are developed in real therapy, not with psychics.

Yes exactly... I was meaning at a certain point of addiction, therapy is necessary. Srry I missed the coma initially lol. I think if you are going to binge have a budget monthly so it doesn’t exceed your livelihood. $800 is what I just spent on shoes today and I treated myself. $800 is lil steep but I’m sure I spent more in my time in total so I completely understand. I’m not opposed to readings but I’m opposed to being hooked on manipulation and lies that cost me money lol I’m thankful I have a circle of friends and ppl to talk to but I know some don’t have that. Sometimes a drive with a good album or playlist makes me feel good during stress. Self awareness is key

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Re: How Much Is Too Much?
« Reply #20 on: October 22, 2021, 07:14:35 PM »
That is True, Budgeting your finances will help You. You won't feel like your wasting your money especially on fake or false Psychics.

My Tip of Advice which took me years to figure out and accept. LEARN HOW to Love the Good in Goodbye. Some doors closed are a Blessing to You.

Learn how to Love and accept the Good in Goodbye.

Be Blessed.

 

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