Blessings!
I really hope you have a beautiful outcome someday!
By the way this is a new POI
I get it. You are so embarrased that now you are trying to pretend that this is a new POI but sweety, don´t bother lying because it is obvious that he is the one you were involved with before, yes, the committed with someone else, who loved you so much that he did not leave her for you and instead kept you both and you allowed it and went along with it, the one with a side hustle, who would be up at 4 am online on applications he did not know how to use (so he told you) LOL to chat other women up, the one who cannot even open up to you and the one who ghosts you constantly, the one you need to pay scammers because he is so mature that you need to pay scammers for them to tellyou because he doesn´t and he won´t, the one who tells you he loves you but he doesn´t prove it and then you need to go to the scammer to see if what he tells you is true, but yeah, Sincerity got it right and he reconnected LOL, same as with the other addict....reconnection and ghosting, reconnection and ghosting....LOL PATHETIC.
I will put it in plain English - intertmittent reinforcement, crumbs to keep you there, lying, cheating, toxicity, co-dependency, lack of self respect and love for yourself, addiction....do you want me to keep going? You have no future with such person no matter how many times he reconnects. True, mature and healthy love doesn´t come and go like the wind changes direction. You are fucked the same way that philosopher is fucked and has been all her life.