Hi all, just reporting back. I was able to catch Peach. It did not resonate at all-it was a random collection of dudes she saw, a short guy after me who is a friend ( I have a friend who is like 6 3 after me), a man who will wine and dine me and only want sex (I never let guys pay for anything, not even a coffee, precisely for this reason, and I don't need a warning about such a guy b/c I have a dismally low libido and don't feel anything sexual with 99.999% of guys), and then a fairy tale like sounding scenario with me at a lake next summer in a red bikini and a lifeguard hits on me. Lol there is a lake and I do have a red bikini but the lake has no life guards and even if they were, they would be less than half my age and I am not going to be anyone's cougar fantasy-beside which I just don't have the cougar looks.
But I tried the second link-lady akasha, on career and it resonated. She saw that I'd be "head hunted" exactly verbatim Yona's words, and not just that but the only way for post-tenure academics to move, really, but not this year but September of 21 and that she could see I'd move to an institution in a city like setting with better pay. the only thing that did not align with Yona is that she saw that it's a male collaborator who seeks me out and Yona is seeing the male as well but saying I don't take that offer and instead am approached later by a female colleague.
This is already in the works. I have a male colleague-two actually-at a place in upstate NY. It is a location that is a cross between a college town and a city-it's a city technically but a small affordable one. Upstate NY isn't my cup of tea b/c I detest the cold year round-I used to love it but I'd be depressed cooped up inside. The bigger issue is that I'd be leaving the field-it's an interdisciplinary department that pays better but I'd be sacrificing being in the discipline for better pay.
