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Intuition/Fear vs Readers?
pfizer:
if you are interested in him but he is not making any move romantically; then no need to think if he has a gf or not; coz he is not making a move
if he is making a move then ask him
i wont go to a reader to ask something which i can find it out myself.
Calleronhiatus:
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 11:12:33 PM ---Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.
So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatically are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationship so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.
I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversation with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.
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I understand that feeling well. Fear is really easy to give into. Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart.
snowbell:
--- Quote from: Calleronhiatus on March 05, 2020, 04:42:20 AM ---
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 11:12:33 PM ---Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.
So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatically are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationship so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.
I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversation with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.
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I understand that feeling well. Fear is really easy to give into. Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart.
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I love this phrase, "Trust your instincts but keep an optimistic heart." Thank you!
Sabrina:
Intuition or fear, what I came to realize is that when someone is interested in you, they will make effor to interact with you. If they aren't, then they are not interested. It's simple as that.
Girly1998:
--- Quote from: Sabrina on March 06, 2020, 09:52:07 AM ---Intuition or fear, what I came to realize is that when someone is interested in you, they will make effor to interact with you. If they aren't, then they are not interested. It's simple as that.
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Digging an old post from the grave but this isn’t really something that I agree with. I for one am a person that won’t really reach out to someone no matter how much I want to if my mind is giving me reason not to - which a lot of the times I’ve found out was just fear.
Honestly had I been able to distinguish between fear and intuition I could’ve saved myself a ton of heartbreak. I’ve suffered in silence for months over certain people only to have them reach out at a later time and confirm positive things that I was trying to block out.
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