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Intuition/Fear vs Readers?
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 11:36:44 PM ---Thanks. My intuition is clouded by my fears, which is why I asked if anyone has been in a similar boat where the what all the readers said came out to be true.
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I have to be honest and this is just my own opinion. I don't think it's your "fear" talking to you. I feel like it's your intuition screaming at you and you're trying to ignore it thinking it's just fear. I'm an outsider looking in but, typically, people don't use everyday chat apps for business purposes unless, of course, they run their own businesses or something like that. You're saying he's on it during office hours and late at night. Most of us don't conduct business late at night.
More information is needed to come to a more accurate analysis. Such as, does he message you daily? Does he message you first? Is he showing a consistent interest? Is he often too busy to talk to you? Does he respond to your messages (if you initiate any first), and if so, how long does it take him on average? I can go on down the list of questions.
I'm going to say that you will KNOW if someone is interested in you. You won't be feeling fearful, confused, or second guessing. I think you know all of this already though. At the end of the day, you're the only one that can know for sure because you're the one experiencing the situation. I just think there isn't enough information given to be able to really form a proper judgment.
EDIT: As a side note, yes I've absolutely been in that boat where I've had 100 psychics tell me one thing but it never sat right within me and, they all ended up being wrong. If it doesn't sit right within you, that's your intuition. Most readers will feed you crap. It's very few that keep it real.
snowbell:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on March 05, 2020, 02:35:59 AM ---
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 11:36:44 PM ---Thanks. My intuition is clouded by my fears, which is why I asked if anyone has been in a similar boat where the what all the readers said came out to be true.
--- End quote ---
I have to be honest and this is just my own opinion. I don't think it's your "fear" talking to you. I feel like it's your intuition screaming at you and you're trying to ignore it thinking it's just fear. I'm an outsider looking in but, typically, people don't use everyday chat apps for business purposes unless, of course, they run their own businesses or something like that. You're saying he's on it during office hours and late at night. Most of us don't conduct business late at night.
More information is needed to come to a more accurate analysis. Such as, does he message you daily? Does he message you first? Is he showing a consistent interest? Is he often too busy to talk to you? Does he respond to your messages (if you initiate any first), and if so, how long does it take him on average? I can go on down the list of questions.
I'm going to say that you will KNOW if someone is interested in you. You won't be feeling fearful, confused, or second guessing. I think you know all of this already though. At the end of the day, you're the only one that can know for sure because you're the one experiencing the situation. I just think there isn't enough information given to be able to really form a proper judgment.
EDIT: As a side note, yes I've absolutely been in that boat where I've had 100 psychics tell me one thing but it never sat right within me and, they all ended up being wrong. If it doesn't sit right within you, that's your intuition. Most readers will feed you crap. It's very few that keep it real.
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We aren't really friends so we don't communicate on the phone or text. He is someone from my past. I don't know if he likes me for sure because he hasn't said so. I've had my intuition lie to me in the past when I have been anxious, which is why I am not trusting it. But the business chat piece is not sitting right with me. The messaging app does have a lot of groups, professional groups also....unless this is what they are catching....if he is on there chatting relating to his profession, which could mean business or related to work. What was weird is that all three readers I consulted said finances and related to work.
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 05, 2020, 02:59:50 AM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on March 05, 2020, 02:35:59 AM ---
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 11:36:44 PM ---Thanks. My intuition is clouded by my fears, which is why I asked if anyone has been in a similar boat where the what all the readers said came out to be true.
--- End quote ---
I have to be honest and this is just my own opinion. I don't think it's your "fear" talking to you. I feel like it's your intuition screaming at you and you're trying to ignore it thinking it's just fear. I'm an outsider looking in but, typically, people don't use everyday chat apps for business purposes unless, of course, they run their own businesses or something like that. You're saying he's on it during office hours and late at night. Most of us don't conduct business late at night.
More information is needed to come to a more accurate analysis. Such as, does he message you daily? Does he message you first? Is he showing a consistent interest? Is he often too busy to talk to you? Does he respond to your messages (if you initiate any first), and if so, how long does it take him on average? I can go on down the list of questions.
I'm going to say that you will KNOW if someone is interested in you. You won't be feeling fearful, confused, or second guessing. I think you know all of this already though. At the end of the day, you're the only one that can know for sure because you're the one experiencing the situation. I just think there isn't enough information given to be able to really form a proper judgment.
EDIT: As a side note, yes I've absolutely been in that boat where I've had 100 psychics tell me one thing but it never sat right within me and, they all ended up being wrong. If it doesn't sit right within you, that's your intuition. Most readers will feed you crap. It's very few that keep it real.
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We aren't really friends so we don't communicate on the phone or text. He is someone from my past. I don't know if he likes me for sure because he hasn't said so. I've had my intuition lie to me in the past when I have been anxious, which is why I am not trusting it. But the business chat piece is not sitting right with me. The messaging app does have a lot of groups, professional groups also....unless this is what they are catching....if he is on there chatting relating to his profession, which could mean business or related to work. What was weird is that all three readers I consulted said finances and related to work.
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So is this guy from your past someone that you're interested in rekindling with? If you don't communicate via phone or text, how do you communicate and how often? Who initiates? Were you romantically involved with this guy in that past or? I mean, I get what you're saying and understand why you're confused if you're into him like that but there are signs when the feeling is mutual.
snowbell:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on March 05, 2020, 03:06:29 AM ---
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 05, 2020, 02:59:50 AM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on March 05, 2020, 02:35:59 AM ---
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 11:36:44 PM ---Thanks. My intuition is clouded by my fears, which is why I asked if anyone has been in a similar boat where the what all the readers said came out to be true.
--- End quote ---
I have to be honest and this is just my own opinion. I don't think it's your "fear" talking to you. I feel like it's your intuition screaming at you and you're trying to ignore it thinking it's just fear. I'm an outsider looking in but, typically, people don't use everyday chat apps for business purposes unless, of course, they run their own businesses or something like that. You're saying he's on it during office hours and late at night. Most of us don't conduct business late at night.
More information is needed to come to a more accurate analysis. Such as, does he message you daily? Does he message you first? Is he showing a consistent interest? Is he often too busy to talk to you? Does he respond to your messages (if you initiate any first), and if so, how long does it take him on average? I can go on down the list of questions.
I'm going to say that you will KNOW if someone is interested in you. You won't be feeling fearful, confused, or second guessing. I think you know all of this already though. At the end of the day, you're the only one that can know for sure because you're the one experiencing the situation. I just think there isn't enough information given to be able to really form a proper judgment.
EDIT: As a side note, yes I've absolutely been in that boat where I've had 100 psychics tell me one thing but it never sat right within me and, they all ended up being wrong. If it doesn't sit right within you, that's your intuition. Most readers will feed you crap. It's very few that keep it real.
--- End quote ---
We aren't really friends so we don't communicate on the phone or text. He is someone from my past. I don't know if he likes me for sure because he hasn't said so. I've had my intuition lie to me in the past when I have been anxious, which is why I am not trusting it. But the business chat piece is not sitting right with me. The messaging app does have a lot of groups, professional groups also....unless this is what they are catching....if he is on there chatting relating to his profession, which could mean business or related to work. What was weird is that all three readers I consulted said finances and related to work.
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So is this guy from your past someone that you're interested in rekindling with? If you don't communicate via phone or text, how do you communicate and how often? Who initiates? Were you romantically involved with this guy in that past or? I mean, I get what you're saying and understand why you're confused if you're into him like that but there are signs when the feeling is mutual.
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I'll PM message you :-)
Miss Philosopher:
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 05, 2020, 03:08:28 AM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on March 05, 2020, 03:06:29 AM ---
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 05, 2020, 02:59:50 AM ---
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on March 05, 2020, 02:35:59 AM ---
--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 11:36:44 PM ---Thanks. My intuition is clouded by my fears, which is why I asked if anyone has been in a similar boat where the what all the readers said came out to be true.
--- End quote ---
I have to be honest and this is just my own opinion. I don't think it's your "fear" talking to you. I feel like it's your intuition screaming at you and you're trying to ignore it thinking it's just fear. I'm an outsider looking in but, typically, people don't use everyday chat apps for business purposes unless, of course, they run their own businesses or something like that. You're saying he's on it during office hours and late at night. Most of us don't conduct business late at night.
More information is needed to come to a more accurate analysis. Such as, does he message you daily? Does he message you first? Is he showing a consistent interest? Is he often too busy to talk to you? Does he respond to your messages (if you initiate any first), and if so, how long does it take him on average? I can go on down the list of questions.
I'm going to say that you will KNOW if someone is interested in you. You won't be feeling fearful, confused, or second guessing. I think you know all of this already though. At the end of the day, you're the only one that can know for sure because you're the one experiencing the situation. I just think there isn't enough information given to be able to really form a proper judgment.
EDIT: As a side note, yes I've absolutely been in that boat where I've had 100 psychics tell me one thing but it never sat right within me and, they all ended up being wrong. If it doesn't sit right within you, that's your intuition. Most readers will feed you crap. It's very few that keep it real.
--- End quote ---
We aren't really friends so we don't communicate on the phone or text. He is someone from my past. I don't know if he likes me for sure because he hasn't said so. I've had my intuition lie to me in the past when I have been anxious, which is why I am not trusting it. But the business chat piece is not sitting right with me. The messaging app does have a lot of groups, professional groups also....unless this is what they are catching....if he is on there chatting relating to his profession, which could mean business or related to work. What was weird is that all three readers I consulted said finances and related to work.
--- End quote ---
So is this guy from your past someone that you're interested in rekindling with? If you don't communicate via phone or text, how do you communicate and how often? Who initiates? Were you romantically involved with this guy in that past or? I mean, I get what you're saying and understand why you're confused if you're into him like that but there are signs when the feeling is mutual.
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I'll PM message you :-)
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Ok dear
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