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snowbell:
Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatically are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationship so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.

I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversation with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.

Arigirl:

--- Quote from: snowbell on March 04, 2020, 11:12:33 PM ---Has anyone been in a situation where all the readers said the same thing but your intuition said something else? I should use the word fear in my case instead of intuition actually.

So I have been seeing him online on a messaging app a lot and my fears automatically are telling me that maybe he's talking to a woman. We are not in a relationship so I can't question him. I have consulted a few readers and no woman ever comes up. Pretty much all of them say it's out of boredom and has to do something with finances. However, I see him online during office hours or late at night also.

I met him a week ago and he actually made an effort to have a conversation with me and was warmer than he has been in the past. I want to believe what the readers are telling me, that he will come around but my fears are telling me something else.

--- End quote ---

Ask him, does he know thar you use the same messaging app and can see his status online?

snowbell:
I can't ask him directly. We are not dating and aren't even really friends.

Arigirl:
If your intuition is telling you something, it's best to follow that than what a reader might say. You know the situation better than anyone. Hope this helps!

snowbell:
Thanks. My intuition is clouded by my fears, which is why I asked if anyone has been in a similar boat where the what all the readers said came out to be true.

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