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Dating and Guilt
Girly1998:
--- Quote from: HopelesslyHis on August 31, 2019, 02:47:50 AM ---
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on August 30, 2019, 11:59:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: HopelesslyHis on August 30, 2019, 11:24:24 PM ---I have tried to date and had that same feeling. I'm actually looking forward to telling him about it because he is the type of guy who expects me to wait around pining and I want him to know there's life after him. 😂
But I can't seem to get past a second date without feeling bad or uncomfortable. Like I don't want this guy to think this is going anywhere because I'm just waiting for POI. I don't even want a fling. I just feel pressured by friends telling me to move on.
I'm just doing things for myself and trying to treat myself better.
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Are we the same person?! My friends tell me the same and act like I’m crazy when I try to explain my reasoning lol. I’m in no rush to move on, I genuinely love the feeling of being in love with someone but I know I don’t need someone new right now. I don’t spend my days sobbing about him but he’s still the only person I want to go to when something happens - good or bad.
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EXACTLY. I'm done looking around. If someone sweeps me off my feet in some sneak attack romance, you can't fight fate but I have no interest in these blind dates, dating apps or hook ups that people say will do the trick. I'm set, thank you. 😅
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I’m sure a prince could approach me and I wouldn’t touch him with a 6ft stick at this point 😂
Lovefash67:
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on August 31, 2019, 03:13:02 AM ---
--- Quote from: HopelesslyHis on August 31, 2019, 02:47:50 AM ---
--- Quote from: Girly1998 on August 30, 2019, 11:59:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: HopelesslyHis on August 30, 2019, 11:24:24 PM ---I have tried to date and had that same feeling. I'm actually looking forward to telling him about it because he is the type of guy who expects me to wait around pining and I want him to know there's life after him. 😂
But I can't seem to get past a second date without feeling bad or uncomfortable. Like I don't want this guy to think this is going anywhere because I'm just waiting for POI. I don't even want a fling. I just feel pressured by friends telling me to move on.
I'm just doing things for myself and trying to treat myself better.
--- End quote ---
Are we the same person?! My friends tell me the same and act like I’m crazy when I try to explain my reasoning lol. I’m in no rush to move on, I genuinely love the feeling of being in love with someone but I know I don’t need someone new right now. I don’t spend my days sobbing about him but he’s still the only person I want to go to when something happens - good or bad.
--- End quote ---
EXACTLY. I'm done looking around. If someone sweeps me off my feet in some sneak attack romance, you can't fight fate but I have no interest in these blind dates, dating apps or hook ups that people say will do the trick. I'm set, thank you. 😅
--- End quote ---
I’m sure a prince could approach me and I wouldn’t touch him with a 6ft stick at this point 😂
--- End quote ---
Lmfaoooo hahah
montauk:
I have gone through the same thing ACTIVELY trying to look for people to date, almost like proving that I have moved on.
But I only met the current bf when I gave up going on dates and looking actively,
the current bf was predicted by Yona and another psychic almost a year prior, so now I just feel like a serious relationship is almost fated to happen in a way,
and blindly looking for someone or hooking up without purpose will not make that special connection come faster, or slower. :P :P
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