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Dreamer23:
I was in a similar place, I accepted seeing POI casually because psychics told me that we are going to work out. But it never moved beyond that.
I didn't listen to my own feelings and I listened to the psychics who told me a positive outcome. Eventually I got fed up with it and stopped. Now I hope to never be in such a situation again, where I accept something I am not really okay with, because of someone predicting a bright future for me.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on June 24, 2019, 06:00:04 PM ---I was in a similar place, I accepted seeing POI casually because psychics told me that we are going to work out. But it never moved beyond that.
I didn't listen to my own feelings and I listened to the psychics who told me a positive outcome. Eventually I got fed up with it and stopped. Now I hope to never be in such a situation again, where I accept something I am not really okay with, because of someone predicting a bright future for me.
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Same situation...and looking back, I feel so used. And I feel I've come a really long way, because if that man ever tried to pull with me now what he did then, I would literally tell him to F off. Or if ANY man tried that crap...I would NEVER entertain it.
I look back wonder what I was thinking but yea, a lot of it was that the readings were telling me that this guy would eventually commit..
Jeninmd2:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on June 24, 2019, 06:27:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on June 24, 2019, 06:00:04 PM ---I was in a similar place, I accepted seeing POI casually because psychics told me that we are going to work out. But it never moved beyond that.
I didn't listen to my own feelings and I listened to the psychics who told me a positive outcome. Eventually I got fed up with it and stopped. Now I hope to never be in such a situation again, where I accept something I am not really okay with, because of someone predicting a bright future for me.
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Same situation...and looking back, I feel so used. And I feel I've come a really long way, because if that man ever tried to pull with me now what he did then, I would literally tell him to F off. Or if ANY man tried that crap...I would NEVER entertain it.
I look back wonder what I was thinking but yea, a lot of it was that the readings were telling me that this guy would eventually commit..
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Looks like there’s a lot of us here in the same boat!! I feel so ashamed that I have held on to hope for so long. I had my reasons - some of which were psychics telling me positive outcomes - but there were other reasons for me as well. Even so, I was never ok with the situation and never should have agreed to it - part of me regrets it (the sad right now part lol) but strangely part of me doesn’t. But yeah I totally agree...I won’t be entertaining this situation again with anyone else!!
sawthelight:
It's hard to give up on a person you have intense feelings for..the readings definitely make it worse. I did feel an intense connection with the first guy, very rare for me to feel that, so it made it even harder to let go. And I accepted a lot of BS because of it.
As long as we learn from our mistakes, it's a step in the right direction...hugs to all going through it. :)
Dreamer23:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on June 24, 2019, 06:27:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on June 24, 2019, 06:00:04 PM ---I was in a similar place, I accepted seeing POI casually because psychics told me that we are going to work out. But it never moved beyond that.
I didn't listen to my own feelings and I listened to the psychics who told me a positive outcome. Eventually I got fed up with it and stopped. Now I hope to never be in such a situation again, where I accept something I am not really okay with, because of someone predicting a bright future for me.
--- End quote ---
Same situation...and looking back, I feel so used. And I feel I've come a really long way, because if that man ever tried to pull with me now what he did then, I would literally tell him to F off. Or if ANY man tried that crap...I would NEVER entertain it.
I look back wonder what I was thinking but yea, a lot of it was that the readings were telling me that this guy would eventually commit..
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Hi @sawthelight ... I can totally relate. I would typically NOT be okay with a friends for benefits situation, but I bent my rules (and this was my mistake) because I consulted a few psychics and they all told me that we are meant to be, and that if I want this to work I have to just go along with whatever is happening. I wanted it to work so badly that I chose to bend my rules for this dude. Never again. I am still somewhat damaged from everything that happened and trying to not feel like I was used. It's hard but I am hoping with every day that passes, I will continue to heal more and more.
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