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I need help guys... :/
sawthelight:
I agree with ST...you need to just be strong for your baby and not let anyone upset you this much..no man is worth it, I promise, and the money could be so much better spent on you and the baby.
ST, just curious, how long did it take you to stop getting the urge to call psychics...I ask because I still get a reading here and there (not NEARLY as much as I used to) and want to just stop completely, but I feel i go through a withdrawal when I cold turkey lol.
lp1111:
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--- Quote from: Lpoche on June 26, 2019, 02:09:00 PM ---Yes! Babies are so expensive. If you are having money problems please, please stop getting readings. Not to mention it is just not good for your mental state. Why don’t you have a heart to heart with the baby’s dad? This is also his child, and regardless of your relationship, he should be involved in your health and well-being so that his child’s health and well-being will be addressed.
Also, you have posted several times that Yona has never been accurate with you and you did not enjoy her readings, also you said Gaylene was plain wrong for you in the past. Before you throw them more money, think about what they’ve accurately predicted. If it’s nothing significant, you are just going back to them to hear what you want to hear, and that is not good for you or your little family. Please try to reach out to someone in your real life for help.
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Gaylene has been more accurate for me this time around when I ask for general readings. Stuff she’s been seeing have been coming to pass. Something work related just came to pass so that’s the only reason I am holding on to her predictions because certain things have actually happened. Yona, I think her older readings from 2015 on are starting to pass, so that’s why I gave her another shot. She even said in a reading 2017 is be moving, related to love life, she saw stork/blessings? Maybe that was the baby? Even Barbara4846 gave predictions last year I feel are starting to come to pass this year. That’s why I am holding on. I don’t post updates so that’s my fault sorry.
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Oh ok, I see! That makes sense then why it’s hard to cut the readings out; I hope my statement didn’t come off as too judgmental. I am just a fellow mother and I hate to see you suffering, especially to the point that it is affecting your baby. I truly hope you can find some closure and peace that allows you to, for the time being at least, cut out readings and enjoy this new blessing.
josh34:
--- Quote from: Lpoche on June 26, 2019, 12:03:18 PM ---I don’t use Snapchat much, but I believe if it gave you the option to add him, you may may have accidentally deleted him. Try adding him and then see if you can send him something.
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I think this is the case, because if they delete you, they will actually still be "on" your friends list. So if it's asking for you to add them, then you must have deleted them, from your side. I'm sorry you're going through this. Stay positive <3 (:
doubleoh8:
Hi @catlover,
Just going to echo the thoughts of others who have urged you to stay strong for you and the baby and NOT go on any calling sprees... even with advisors who you think 'may' be somewhat accurate. It's a money drain and can just add to confusion and anxiety if you are not in a grounded space to begin with. Also, since you are in touch with the dad, I agree with whomever suggested you talk to him. He'll tell you where he's at with a lot more accuracy that even the best psychic. Unless he's an out-and-out liar, but I didn't get that from your posts and I also think if that's the case your own intuition will be telling you.
Also, if you are caught up in hopes and expectations about how he will feel in the future... please try to let go of that and accept what is in the present. No psychic will be able to guarantee anything for you and you are far better off basing your decisions on what's really in front of you and not a possibility down the line.
Good luck and stay strong. You have a lot of support on here and I think the guidance is pretty consistent -- take care of you.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Still tired on June 26, 2019, 11:17:39 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on June 26, 2019, 04:04:46 PM ---I agree with ST...you need to just be strong for your baby and not let anyone upset you this much..no man is worth it, I promise, and the money could be so much better spent on you and the baby.
ST, just curious, how long did it take you to stop getting the urge to call psychics...I ask because I still get a reading here and there (not NEARLY as much as I used to) and want to just stop completely, but I feel i go through a withdrawal when I cold turkey lol.
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It took me a LONG time to lose the urge...years! I actually closed my Keen account for about two years. But in the back of my mind I was still wondering about past predictions and what those readers would say about other things that came up. Then when I started back up in 2012 the urge was much stronger than it had been before. In 2013 I tried to stop cold turkey and was not able to quit. I realized then I had to do it gradually. I slowed down some in 2015 but then picked back up in 2016 when my job became stressful and my ex was being weird. It took 2 more years after that before I finally lost the urge. It helped when I finally cut all ties with my ex because suddenly I just didn't care to hear about him anymore. I asked about two other guys and those predictions didn't come true either. It got to a point where I just felt flat while getting a reading and really found it almost humorous to hear the same old BS. All the excitement went away. I think it was a change in perspective more than anything. I stopped believing that they could really predict anything and when I made up my mind about that then the emotional high really faded away.
I still have urges to shop compulsively but I have cut way back on that too.
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yea I can see how that would work, kind of a slow weaning off type of thing. You get bored with the whole process. And it's so true, hearing the same BS from them becomes almost laughable. I asked about a second guy too and was told all the same stuff..he's my soulmate, we will end up together. SMH. I also, in the beginning, would get sort of a high after a reading, but it's at the point now when I do get one, I just feel stupid for spending the money.
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