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I need help guys... :/
Star_01:
Hi CatLover I just stumbled across this post of yours, so maybe a bit late posting. I'm really sorry to hear of your situation but glad that the father of the baby is supporting you and I hope you're getting enough support from family and friends also.
My advice to you even though it's difficult is to really try and see how long you can go without having readings. I know it's tough, but think of your baby and the necessities he/she is going to need and your bond with the baby when they come. I spent thousands myself and nothing came of it and some people on here have been very lucky and reconciled with their exes or had multiple opportunities with guys. I would try to let this go and focus on the things and be around the people that make you feel good and if this man wants to be around you and with you then it will be no matter what but for now just keep as distracted as you can and less stress for you and the baby inside of you which you both don't need coming from this situation and these readings. I do really hope you're okay and I wish you all the best of luck and if you're a first time mum then good luck with motherhood. I agree with other posters slowly wean off, go from like, 10 a week down to 3 and so on.. Eventually you will begin to realise that readings are not worth it.
I don't want to put a dampener on people but lots of people have said that psychics are good at validating but many struggle to get the actual outcomes correct so trust in your gut whatever it has to say and believe what you feel is right.
Catlover86:
--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 08, 2019, 04:03:32 PM ---Hi CatLover I just stumbled across this post of yours, so maybe a bit late posting. I'm really sorry to hear of your situation but glad that the father of the baby is supporting you and I hope you're getting enough support from family and friends also.
My advice to you even though it's difficult is to really try and see how long you can go without having readings. I know it's tough, but think of your baby and the necessities he/she is going to need and your bond with the baby when they come. I spent thousands myself and nothing came of it and some people on here have been very lucky and reconciled with their exes or had multiple opportunities with guys. I would try to let this go and focus on the things and be around the people that make you feel good and if this man wants to be around you and with you then it will be no matter what but for now just keep as distracted as you can and less stress for you and the baby inside of you which you both don't need coming from this situation and these readings. I do really hope you're okay and I wish you all the best of luck and if you're a first time mum then good luck with motherhood. I agree with other posters slowly wean off, go from like, 10 a week down to 3 and so on.. Eventually you will begin to realise that readings are not worth it.
I don't want to put a dampener on people but lots of people have said that psychics are good at validating but many struggle to get the actual outcomes correct so trust in your gut whatever it has to say and believe what you feel is right.
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Hi thank you for reaching out! I think I am done for now. Which will hopefully mean I’ll stop completely. I have definitely been reflecting on everything and you’re right. Nobody has ever gave me a solid prediction on an outcome. I just have to continue doing what I feel is best for me. I’ve been praying, affirming, and meditating and I feel really good! These readings have been a roller coaster ride.
Star_01:
--- Quote from: Catlover86 on July 08, 2019, 05:30:07 PM ---
--- Quote from: Star_01 on July 08, 2019, 04:03:32 PM ---Hi CatLover I just stumbled across this post of yours, so maybe a bit late posting. I'm really sorry to hear of your situation but glad that the father of the baby is supporting you and I hope you're getting enough support from family and friends also.
My advice to you even though it's difficult is to really try and see how long you can go without having readings. I know it's tough, but think of your baby and the necessities he/she is going to need and your bond with the baby when they come. I spent thousands myself and nothing came of it and some people on here have been very lucky and reconciled with their exes or had multiple opportunities with guys. I would try to let this go and focus on the things and be around the people that make you feel good and if this man wants to be around you and with you then it will be no matter what but for now just keep as distracted as you can and less stress for you and the baby inside of you which you both don't need coming from this situation and these readings. I do really hope you're okay and I wish you all the best of luck and if you're a first time mum then good luck with motherhood. I agree with other posters slowly wean off, go from like, 10 a week down to 3 and so on.. Eventually you will begin to realise that readings are not worth it.
I don't want to put a dampener on people but lots of people have said that psychics are good at validating but many struggle to get the actual outcomes correct so trust in your gut whatever it has to say and believe what you feel is right.
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Hi thank you for reaching out! I think I am done for now. Which will hopefully mean I’ll stop completely. I have definitely been reflecting on everything and you’re right. Nobody has ever gave me a solid prediction on an outcome. I just have to continue doing what I feel is best for me. I’ve been praying, affirming, and meditating and I feel really good! These readings have been a roller coaster ride.
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You're welcome. It's great to hear that you have made some progress and you feel better within yourself already as that's what life is all about. Keep doing what you're doing and being positive and things should work out whichever way they want to. Best of luck with everything :)
Catlover86:
So here’s a little mini update. Had two somewhat negative readings back to back on 7/7. Didn’t let it bring me down but still felt like shit. Prayed, meditated, journaled, did everything I could think of to get myself out of my mini funk. As my day was ending.. I received a friend request from him on Instagram. I know that’s not a huge deal. But I was like wtf?? Readers made it sound like I’m shit to him. Going to stay away from readings for a bit. I see more progress when I work on myself. Internally that is.
Star_01:
--- Quote from: Catlover86 on July 09, 2019, 08:11:13 AM ---So here’s a little mini update. Had two somewhat negative readings back to back on 7/7. Didn’t let it bring me down but still felt like shit. Prayed, meditated, journaled, did everything I could think of to get myself out of my mini funk. As my day was ending.. I received a friend request from him on Instagram. I know that’s not a huge deal. But I was like wtf?? Readers made it sound like I’m shit to him. Going to stay away from readings for a bit. I see more progress when I work on myself. Internally that is.
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Well let's hope that this friend request leads to something special for you both and you get the predictions you wished for. Readings mess with your head you get told all sorts of different answers and positives and negatives, focus on your gut feeling of the situation and keeping positive the more you shift your focus away from him the more typically he will prick his head up lol.
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