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Catlover86:
Hi everyone,

I am feeling so down today. Could really use some help. I’ve had readings with Yona, abundant visions, cookie, and lady Jenna this year. They all pick up the same thing. I’ll be in a relationship around summer/after summer so like July-September? Right now, things aren’t going so well in any area of my life. I am pregnant, I need to move out of my current home, and financially I am struggling. Unfortunately I am not in a relationship with the dad but he’s very involved. Yona mentioned new love and asked me of that surprised me, I said well I’m pregnant so I don’t know if you’re picking up the pregnancy/baby, she said it was “adult love” potential long term. Then said she saw a man and woman’s hand together in an agreement but that it had to do with moving? She said he and I would move in together. We’re not even in a relationship and we live 2 hours away from each other. So I don’t know. Cookie saw exactly what’s happening now, periods in 2019 of me not feeling like a priority, going to be times where I want to just walk away, but she saw us meeting families (which happened) and that we would be getting closer. Didn’t saw we would be in a relationship so idk, abundant sees him wanting to start up a romantic relationship, gave me the timeframe, and said basically my life is going to be good. Right now things seem so shitty :,( I feel like he’s still doing his thing if you know what I mean because he’s distant now. Nobody picks ups on a third party, not even Yona but still. Then I feel like shit because I told him I booked a date to take maternity pictures and asked if he wanted to join, he said no. :,( made me feel so stupid. Can anyone give me some advice? I know these are very popular readers. What do you guys think?

username1111:
I don't know how far you are into your pregnancy, neither how old you and the father are... But I am gonna give you a bit of my own experience and I hope it will help.
I was pregnant at 19, the dad was also very young. It was unplanned and took both of us by surprise. As a woman, you are in it 100% of the time 24/7 from the day you realized whats happening. For men, it takes a lot more time, often, they need to meet their baby, hold him/her to get it, to feel their involvement and commit to the daddy's life... The pregnancy can create a big rift between you because you have NO ways to escape it, and he has ALL the ways to still do it. He may want to use all the time he has left before the birth to enjoy his life as a non-dad-yet.
Courage, ping me if you want to talk more. :)

Catlover86:

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--- Quote from: Catlover86 on June 20, 2019, 06:09:28 PM ---Hi everyone,

I am feeling so down today. Could really use some help. I’ve had readings with Yona, abundant visions, cookie, and lady Jenna this year. They all pick up the same thing. I’ll be in a relationship around summer/after summer so like July-September? Right now, things aren’t going so well in any area of my life. I am pregnant, I need to move out of my current home, and financially I am struggling. Unfortunately I am not in a relationship with the dad but he’s very involved. Yona mentioned new love and asked me of that surprised me, I said well I’m pregnant so I don’t know if you’re picking up the pregnancy/baby, she said it was “adult love” potential long term. Then said she saw a man and woman’s hand together in an agreement but that it had to do with moving? She said he and I would move in together. We’re not even in a relationship and we live 2 hours away from each other. So I don’t know. Cookie saw exactly what’s happening now, periods in 2019 of me not feeling like a priority, going to be times where I want to just walk away, but she saw us meeting families (which happened) and that we would be getting closer. Didn’t saw we would be in a relationship so idk, abundant sees him wanting to start up a romantic relationship, gave me the timeframe, and said basically my life is going to be good. Right now things seem so shitty :,( I feel like he’s still doing his thing if you know what I mean because he’s distant now. Nobody picks ups on a third party, not even Yona but still. Then I feel like shit because I told him I booked a date to take maternity pictures and asked if he wanted to join, he said no. :,( made me feel so stupid. Can anyone give me some advice? I know these are very popular readers. What do you guys think?

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is that all about poi1 or the new guy that yona predicted? Because maybe they are all picking up on a new guy? I know that cookie and abundant can be a bit too optimistic with their time frames. And especially if yona is picking it up too and they all allign, I would be hopeful!

Can I tell you something? You never know what tomorrow will bring (: Things can change in an instant. Stay hopeful <3

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After I told Yona I was expecting she automatically tied new adult love to the dad. She didn’t describe a man or was very detailed, that’s what worries me is that she just automatically said it’s him. Abundant describes him and our situation pretty accurately and keeps stating she sees us together. She kept getting the number 7 so she felt July was going to be the key month of him trying to make it a “romantic commitment” but it doesn’t feel like it could happen that soon. Yona said summer, she said ace of cups, new big love, not just the baby. I am trying to be optimistic.

Dreamer23:
I might sound like a downer but I don't think you should trust what psychics say. If you contact psychics, try your best to take what they say with a grain of salt. Because many times, if not most times, they can be very very wrong.

If you are seeking counsel maybe talk to a therapist. Or trust your own gut. Can you rely on this man? Do you want to be with him? Does he prove to be a good partner/father so far? If the answer to one of these questions is no, then can you try to build a life without him? Rely on family, friends and yourself to raise this baby and move forward in life.

Hugs to you and best of luck!!!

Jeninmd2:
Hi Catlover - I think what username1111 has said is great insight. That being said, what others have mentioned about taking readings with a grain of salt also still applies - I have read with Yona for a while and I’m sure you have noticed from comments on the board that unfortunately her timing can be accurate season-wise, just the wrong year.  I have no doubt that if Yona sees a big love coming for you, that it will come...the big question is WHEN (and sometimes who lol).  Please try not to lose hope that even if things aren’t meant to be with your child’s father that there is someone amazing that the universe will bring you when the time is right. In fact, regarding love matters, Yona has occasionally used that same phrase regading the time being right (or not) when referring to my love situations.

Stay strong - please do what’s best for yourself and your child, and things will eventually work out for the best. Sending lots of positive vibes your way!! <3

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