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diamondcanadian:

--- Quote from: josh34 on June 21, 2019, 06:45:14 AM ---
--- Quote from: bstalling on June 21, 2019, 06:33:29 AM ---We need to judge the facts as she has presented them, and they are not doing her any favors. She needs straight talk, Josh, not hope and lies from psychics. Which is something I know you don't like. A lot of people want to hear fairy stories it seems....

Even if I'm mistaken about her, I've given good advice and support here. At least, something for her to think about. 99 percent of psychics wont do that for her, even when charging her money.

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We don't need to judge anyone or anything about anyone prior to understanding the whole story. That's not your place, nor is that fair to her. You seem very geared toward "bad outcomes" and pessimsim regarding psychics' outcomes. You havent had great experiences with predictions passing, we get it. But a lot of us have, and I'd say there's reason to be optimistic. I'd say that holding onto hope and being optimistic about life is a blessing. Reputable readers with decent track records regarding predictions are giving positive outcomes, so I'd say theres hope. To go straight to "they're lying and giving false hope" is extremely pessimistic and negative of you. Geez. You automatically assume the worst dont you?  This has absolutely nothing to do with "fairytale readings". Its clear that you have a VERY negative outlook on psychics, even if they've been shown to have a gift regarding predictions passing. I'm sorry that you're too pessimistic and negative to see things in a balanced light. If you're going to be negative, and assume the worst, keep it to yourself, or in this case, leave that out. We dont know if theyll be right or wrong in her case. They very well could be correct for her, as they have been for many. Your "advice" is filled with judgement and insensitivity and you need to fix that before attempting to give "advice". What she needs right now is a shoulder to cry on. She needs support, and people who will be there for her. You can "be real" with her, without the pessimism, without the unnecessart and insensitive judgements.

 But i will say, that what we can agree on, is, that in the meantime, she should focus on herself and do things that make her smile. Who knows how this will turn out? She should do things that she enjoys, and things that make her happy. I think we can both agree on this.

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100% agree .

We shouldn’t be judging at all, we don’t know the OP’s individual circumstances so shouldn’t be judging on the little information she has provided here .

We should only be advising her as psychic users, to not take everything psychics say as gospel and try and live our life without them.

Clarita:

--- Quote from: josh34 on June 20, 2019, 09:51:13 PM ---
--- Quote from: persephone on June 20, 2019, 09:46:24 PM ---You think you’re always right and the rest of us are wrong and throw insults along the way.
What makes you think it’s ok to do that?
Dude, chill out.

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I really can't deal with this ridiculous reply right now. I don't even know how you came up with this. Just leave me alone. I'm literally sitting her, asking you to PLEASE leave me alone. You're mad at something I did a while ago, Got it. Loud and clear. But just let it go. I'm asking you with kindness, please just let me be. I'm so scared to even type here because you or one of the few others will start trying to get a rise out of me, and derail the conversation in an attempt to try and start things, to get me upset. This isn't okay. I am literally nervous to be part of ANY conversation here because of unprovoked hateful comments form people like you. I'm Just asking you to be kind, let things go, and PLEASE. LEAVE. ME. ALONE. PLEASE. I'm going through a lot and can't handle this kind of childish drama.

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Josh, your reply here disturbed me. I've seen you reply like this before. This site has very toxic people on it. The energy here is rancid in some places. Based on that my guidance to you is to not react to toxic people on this site and see it for what it is. I hope that helps.

ladya:
The OP is asking for help and support not people bashing her while she’s carrying a child. People have the choice to do whatever they want in life and we have no right to judge them. I would think if you’ve been through the same thing, it would teach you to be more understanding towards similar situations and understand dynamics are not always black or white. OP if you need anything you can always inbox me.

diamondcanadian:

--- Quote from: ladya on June 21, 2019, 01:03:10 PM ---The OP is asking for help and support not people bashing her while she’s carrying a child. People have the choice to do whatever they want in life and we have no right to judge them. I would think if you’ve been through the same thing, it would teach you to be more understanding towards similar situations and understand dynamics are not always black or white. OP if you need anything you can always inbox me.

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Well said !

Lovefash67:
Hey, I just told another font this but I honestly think you shouldn't bank on these psychics word. Yona said I will be in relationship with a man I have a strong connection with since Feb 2016, and each year that I read with her she says the same thing you will be a long term relationship at the end of the year and the next year comes and not a damn thing happens. I have still yet to meet this guy. Yona didn't even see a third party for my ex until late 2017 and she said that this girl is not a threat which was false because he ended up having a baby. Overall, my message is not listen to these psychics because when you do and you see that its not matching up with what is currently happening in your life it results to you becoming depressed and overall disappointed you even start to become desperate to find a solution. Do you have any family near you that you can stay with till you are able to get on your feet? I wish you the best of luck and congratulations on your baby.

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