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Feeling your POI
Candy:
For those who feel your POI energetically: when you suddenly feel overwhelming anxiety from your POI even though you yourself are in a calm state, does it mean your POI is anxious or going through something bad? Or does the anxiety simply mean you connect telepathically and somehow the energies translate to anxiety?
I sometimes feel my POI strongly but I can’t tell if the anxiety is what he is feeling or if it’s just me feeling his energy around me.
Do you also have vivid dreams about your POI? Do the events in the dream often foreshadow what will happen or do the feelings matter more?
ladya:
--- Quote from: Candy on March 16, 2019, 02:30:58 AM ---For those who feel your POI energetically: when you suddenly feel overwhelming anxiety from your POI even though you yourself are in a calm state, does it mean your POI is anxious or going through something bad? Or does the anxiety simply mean you connect telepathically and somehow the energies translate to anxiety?
I sometimes feel my POI strongly but I can’t tell if the anxiety is what he is feeling or if it’s just me feeling his energy around me.
Do you also have vivid dreams about your POI? Do the events in the dream often foreshadow what will happen or do the feelings matter more?
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I don't think the answer will be the same for everyone but i will say from personal experience only. So the emotions i pick up are usually the emotions of whatever the person is feeling so if theyre going through something and highly anxious ill get that out of nowhere. Im not an anxious person normally so it's so weird to feel, especially out of nowhere. Now in terms of dreams. Some foreshadow, some don't. I've had a few come true but it's not right away its usually months later. Some just show what theyre going through, etc. Now. I dont remember where I heard this but I heard that if dreams are more vivid than normal it usually means youre dreaming the same dream or somehow connecting through that dream because I've had some highly vivid dreams and some other more bleh ones. This, I can't verify nor have I found yet to understand why some dreams are almost life-like. If i ever find an answer, I'll be sure to update lol BUT, i think there's something to the more vivid ones cause are the ones that signify something the most or come true so idk.
GoldieShawn:
A couple years ago I had a few psychics tell me that I was feeling certain things because my ex couldn't stop thinking about me. I'm an empath myself so I do know it's possible for me to pick up other people's feelings and there have been times where I could validate it was right..but never with him. In his case, it would happen off and on for months, complete with intense dreams, and I never got any validation of it being true. We never reconciled and he never made any decisive moves to try to get me back. I even opened the door a few times and he didn't really do much.
My experience is that when it's someone else's feelings it can be very intense but isn't accompanied by a specific desire for an outcome for me. Like I might feel anxious because my friend is worried about a job interview, but it doesn't turn into to me desperately wanting her to call. I just feel the generalized anxious feeling. Whereas if I strongly feel this anxiety wanting X to text me, I get very suspicious it's something other than him causing it. Maybe it's mercury retrograde, maybe it's the Spring Equinox, maybe the moon is farting on Jupiter, but if he wanted to be in contact with me, in my experience I wouldn't be feeling it as anxiety about him.
Some of the readers even told me I should think MORE about him with LOA type stuff to get him to come back. I'll let you guess how well that worked :P I would say be cautious of it. It's exactly what we want to hear: a decisive reason why we feel the way we do that doesn't require us to move forward, complete with an explanation that includes the person still having feelings for us! I've come to look at it like this: feelings are one thing but actions are what matter. The next time it happens I'd take charge in your mind and tell him to keep his anxiety to himself unless he's prepared to step up to the plate ;-) Bonus: if he is feeling you, he will miss you when he senses your energy pulling away.
ladya:
--- Quote from: GoldieShawn on March 16, 2019, 07:16:49 PM ---A couple years ago I had a few psychics tell me that I was feeling certain things because my ex couldn't stop thinking about me. I'm an empath myself so I do know it's possible for me to pick up other people's feelings and there have been times where I could validate it was right..but never with him. In his case, it would happen off and on for months, complete with intense dreams, and I never got any validation of it being true. We never reconciled and he never made any decisive moves to try to get me back. I even opened the door a few times and he didn't really do much.
My experience is that when it's someone else's feelings it can be very intense but isn't accompanied by a specific desire for an outcome for me. Like I might feel anxious because my friend is worried about a job interview, but it doesn't turn into to me desperately wanting her to call. I just feel the generalized anxious feeling. Whereas if I strongly feel this anxiety wanting X to text me, I get very suspicious it's something other than him causing it. Maybe it's mercury retrograde, maybe it's the Spring Equinox, maybe the moon is farting on Jupiter, but if he wanted to be in contact with me, in my experience I wouldn't be feeling it as anxiety about him.
Some of the readers even told me I should think MORE about him with LOA type stuff to get him to come back. I'll let you guess how well that worked :P I would say be cautious of it. It's exactly what we want to hear: a decisive reason why we feel the way we do that doesn't require us to move forward, complete with an explanation that includes the person still having feelings for us! I've come to look at it like this: feelings are one thing but actions are what matter. The next time it happens I'd take charge in your mind and tell him to keep his anxiety to himself unless he's prepared to step up to the plate ;-) Bonus: if he is feeling you, he will miss you when he senses your energy pulling away.
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That's not how LOA works. It's about detachment not thinking more about the person. That's the secret to everything in the universe it's just hard to master because as humans we all have emotional attachments and expectations. I'm still torn on LOA because I feel like I have manifested many things in my life but I'm unsure if its LOA or I have great foresight of what's to come or maybe it was just meant to be. Maybe I'm just blessed or have good accrued karma? Idk. Until I have solid proof, which I don't know if I ever will, Im up in the air about it. I've always gotten the answers I was looking for so maybe one day I will get the answer to this.
Love2lovenj:
--- Quote from: GoldieShawn on March 16, 2019, 07:16:49 PM ---My experience is that when it's someone else's feelings it can be very intense but isn't accompanied by a specific desire for an outcome for me. Like I might feel anxious because my friend is worried about a job interview, but it doesn't turn into to me desperately wanting her to call. I just feel the generalized anxious feeling. Whereas if I strongly feel this anxiety wanting X to text me, I get very suspicious it's something other than him causing it. Maybe it's mercury retrograde, maybe it's the Spring Equinox, maybe the moon is farting on Jupiter, but if he wanted to be in contact with me, in my experience I wouldn't be feeling it as anxiety about him.
Some of the readers even told me I should think MORE about him with LOA type stuff to get him to come back. I'll let you guess how well that worked :P I would say be cautious of it. It's exactly what we want to hear: a decisive reason why we feel the way we do that doesn't require us to move forward, complete with an explanation that includes the person still having feelings for us! I've come to look at it like this: feelings are one thing but actions are what matter. The next time it happens I'd take charge in your mind and tell him to keep his anxiety to himself unless he's prepared to step up to the plate ;-) Bonus: if he is feeling you, he will miss you when he senses your energy pulling away.
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The funny thing is when i was told this in my reading I was not able to focus because i short on time and just was getting a quick update. The funny thing was one i had time to sit down and reread the transcript it was an immediate smack to the forehead. I was like i honestly thought i was going bonkers with the way i was feeling. So out of the blue and unlike me.
I have a friend who swears she feels her SO and I'm like ok. Because honestly i never understood any of it.
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