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Feeling your POI
ladya:
this is just my belief but i believe people can only run away from what they truly want for so long. With time it just gets harder and harder to suppress. You can only deny or runaway from it for so long. That's why a lot of exes come back after theyve done all they can do to shove down their feelings and push the individual away. if a person is really missing someone that much, time only makes it worse. that's when you know its real. if the love is that strong it never goes away. same goes for the missing someone esp if there was never proper closure. if the other person has made it known they moved on then maybe they would never disclose it or try to come back but if the door is still open even just a crack, the wondering and what ifs will eventually eat them up inside. just my 2 cents. if they never make it known, don't come back to me that just seems like it wasn't what the individual perceived it to be. to me, the heart always wins in the end, always.
Love2lovenj:
That makes so much sense.
alphabetsoup:
I feel like I could have written most of these posts. Do you guys know about the trauma bond from a narcissistic abuser? Interestingly enough it corresponds with feeling their energy. Similar to a twin flame.
ladya:
--- Quote from: alphabetsoup on March 19, 2019, 03:05:52 AM ---I feel like I could have written most of these posts. Do you guys know about the trauma bond from a narcissistic abuser? Interestingly enough it corresponds with feeling their energy. Similar to a twin flame.
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I feel like people always confuse the two or think narcissists are their twin flame. What you say makes sense because narcissists seek out empaths it’s like energetically they can feel them and so people sometimes feel the energy very strong. The difference is that a person who really loves you or your tf will never intentionally hurt you, not saying they won’t, but they won’t be able to because it will be like hurting themselves. It goes both ways. It’s hard to explain but you’ll know exactly what I mean if you felt it. Narcissists are hollow and lack empathy so they latch onto empaths.
psychic girls:
Nope they can’t tell about a person feeling just gave them a random name and you will get stock line 99 percent of them times like he scared, it because of fear.
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