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Feeling your POI
sawthelight:
I used to think I was feeling my first POI, but looking back, I just wonder if I was thinking I was, when it was just my own roller coaster emotions that I was going through. Since he never really made me feel secure or even cared about a lot, I just wonder if the ups and downs I felt were my own feelings.
I just think it's normal to feel anxiety/anger/disappointment etc. when you aren't in a stable situation with someone you love.
Love2lovenj:
I totally get it. The only reason why i think there is something to it is because these feelings would come out of no where. Especially the waking up in the middle of the night. I now use i believe rosemary/lavender essential oils as recommended to help me sleep better. Unfortunately its been picking up again this past week and its honestly driving me bonkers.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on March 15, 2019, 03:42:52 PM ---I totally get it. The only reason why i think there is something to it is because these feelings would come out of no where. Especially the waking up in the middle of the night. I now use i believe rosemary/lavender essential oils as recommended to help me sleep better. Unfortunately its been picking up again this past week and its honestly driving me bonkers.
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Oh Believe me..happened to me too. looking back, I think I was just reading too much into it.
Still not sure though...I would often get these intense emotions that would come out of nowhere, but I think it was because I was suppressing too much and the whole situation with him was just bonkers..lol.
Love2lovenj:
Yes it's crazy when things would be so much easier if you could just clear the air without pointing fingers. My ex is so stubborn that he just sweeps things under the rug and then "surprise" we are once again at the same place. I honestly don't get it. Is it only women who like to clear the air??
tacobelle914:
I think in our society men haven't been given the same tools for processing emotions, and it can manifest in some really frustrating ways.
As far as feeling someone else's energy - 100% I believe that happens very often. If you suddenly get anxious when you were feeling cool and optimistic in a connection I think some of that can be attributed to the partner.
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