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Love2lovenj:
I don't get the ghosting and then reappearing act. Total bs way of dealing with things. If your gonna ghost and come back you seriously need a swift kick in the ass. I have my butt kicking shoe, polished and ready to go too. Grrr
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on January 18, 2019, 05:43:52 PM ---I don't get the ghosting and then reappearing act. Total bs way of dealing with things. If your gonna ghost and come back you seriously need a swift kick in the ass. I have my butt kicking shoe, polished and ready to go too. Grrr
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LMAO right! It's not something I tolerate anymore. I really liked the second POI and he did that shit and when he "reemerged" I ignored him. I don't think it's cool to do that to a person, unless you have a real reason for it. But like I said, a hello text takes two seconds and could make the world of a difference.
ladya:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 18, 2019, 05:47:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on January 18, 2019, 05:43:52 PM ---I don't get the ghosting and then reappearing act. Total bs way of dealing with things. If your gonna ghost and come back you seriously need a swift kick in the ass. I have my butt kicking shoe, polished and ready to go too. Grrr
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LMAO right! It's not something I tolerate anymore. I really liked the second POI and he did that shit and when he "reemerged" I ignored him. I don't think it's cool to do that to a person, unless you have a real reason for it. But like I said, a hello text takes two seconds and could make the world of a difference.
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that's not technically ghosting if they appear and disappear but I do agree with what youre saying. Ghosting is when everything is going fine one day and next day theyre gone and you never hear from them again. Hence resembles a ghost lol. But a lot of men have that retreat type behavior just varies to degrees. I think I mentioned this on another post somewhere but thats where the whole man cave term came from because they would need a place to retreat to be by themselves.
sawthelight:
I hear you Ladya but at this point in my life, I'm at the point where they can retreat and stay retreated LOL. No time for that. ;D ;D
ladya:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 18, 2019, 06:23:40 PM ---I hear you Ladya but at this point in my life, I'm at the point where they can retreat and stay retreated LOL. No time for that. ;D ;D
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I understand you completely. Its just so common esp with men with more alpha characteristics. Men with more feminine characteristics are less likely to act in that behavior. I think they dont even know why they do it lol :o
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