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Love2lovenj:
Ok please chime in on this topic i would love to hear people's take.  How do you know if its a generic reading or an authentic one? 

People always say that the reading could apply to anyone but how specific does someone have to be for you to say, yes she is the real deal.

In the past, i would have readings and share it with a friend of mine and i swear just about everyone he read he said that could be applied to anyone.  Honestly i found it a little annoying because certain things would be said that to me i knew maybe 20% of the people would be like my poi.  So how specific does it need to be?

I don't try to make things fit but if it resonates it resonates.  The question is will the predictions actually happen.  In the end that's what i am looking for.  Will poi man up or will this be a repeated cycle that kind of thing.

Please share your thoughts.  There is no wrong answers here just want to see how others judge their readers.

sawthelight:
I personally feel (for most of us) they feed us generic crap.  They might word it a bit differently for each reading, but unless something huge jumps out at me (like something POI actually told me himself), it doesn't impress me anymore.  First POI was having major issues in his family with his sister...and a few psychics picked up on this...and I know it was true, because he told me himself and how down he was about it.  Still didn't make the predictions about us ending up together happen.

Majority of people calling psychics are calling because we are unclear about POI's feelings and intentions.  So it's easy for them to say, well they must be being distant, or I sense distance, or he's confused/scared/afraid of commitment/going through personal problems..etc.

Most men, if they don't want to lose a woman, or if they really care, won't ghost us for weeks at a time.  Regardless, it takes two seconds to send a how are you text or call.

For first POI, some psychics picked up on current things remarkably but the predictions still failed.

So overall, I don't trust readings much anymore.  It's never a good idea to get them with any expectations. 

Love2lovenj:
I totally agree.  Its a kinda go in with no expectations and if they are right and it was a positive reading then i can do the internal happy dance.

HornetKick:

--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 18, 2019, 05:05:02 PM ---I personally feel (for most of us) they feed us generic crap.  They might word it a bit differently for each reading, but unless something huge jumps out at me (like something POI actually told me

Most men, if they don't want to lose a woman, or if they really care, won't ghost us for weeks at a time.  Regardless, it takes two seconds to send a how are you text or call.
--- End quote ---

I don't believe this is always the case, probably more likely than not, but Some men feel inadequate/insecure towards a woman he really, really loves. The guy ghosts because he loves the woman very much since he feels she would be better off with someone more on her level. There are different reasons.


--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on January 18, 2019, 04:47:06 PM ---Ok please chime in on this topic i would love to hear people's take.  How do you know if its a generic reading or an authentic one? 

People always say that the reading could apply to anyone but how specific does someone have to be for you to say, yes she is the real deal.

In the past, i would have readings and share it with a friend of mine and i swear just about everyone he read he said that could be applied to anyone.  Honestly i found it a little annoying because certain things would be said that to me i knew maybe 20% of the people would be like my poi.  So how specific does it need to be?

I don't try to make things fit but if it resonates it resonates.  The question is will the predictions actually happen.  In the end that's what i am looking for.  Will poi man up or will this be a repeated cycle that kind of thing.

Please share your thoughts.  There is no wrong answers here just want to see how others judge their readers.

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Many readings can resonates or parts of readings because many of us go through similar things. Generalities would be if the reader said: you are going through a tough time right now. Well no shit, they already know you're on the phone asking questions so although it resonates because we might be going through a tough time, something about your situation should stand out.
Specifics would be if the reader said: I see you had a date with your SO and things didn't go as planned because you left feeling hollow. Plus he didn't open the door for you like he usually does or didn't call you the pet name that he has for you....something specific to your situation.

Predictions are harder to judge, but again, too many people try to make their situation fit especially when readers hand out numbers and they too don't know what the numbers mean. It is advisable to not call a reader back until the prediction time has come and gone (short term) and of course you'll know if they are good with time. You can also ask them how good they are with time to see if they get defensive about it or what reply they give. Honest readers will say well with some I'm about 80-85% and some might say I'm not too good. At least this honesty tells you they too know their short comings.

sawthelight:

--- Quote from: HornetKick on January 18, 2019, 05:30:34 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on January 18, 2019, 05:05:02 PM ---I personally feel (for most of us) they feed us generic crap.  They might word it a bit differently for each reading, but unless something huge jumps out at me (like something POI actually told me

Most men, if they don't want to lose a woman, or if they really care, won't ghost us for weeks at a time.  Regardless, it takes two seconds to send a how are you text or call.
--- End quote ---

I don't believe this is always the case, probably more likely than not, but Some men feel inadequate/insecure towards a woman he really, really loves. The guy ghosts because he loves the woman very much since he feels she would be better off with someone more on her level. There are different reasons.


--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on January 18, 2019, 04:47:06 PM ---Ok please chime in on this topic i would love to hear people's take.  How do you know if its a generic reading or an authentic one? 

People always say that the reading could apply to anyone but how specific does someone have to be for you to say, yes she is the real deal.

In the past, i would have readings and share it with a friend of mine and i swear just about everyone he read he said that could be applied to anyone.  Honestly i found it a little annoying because certain things would be said that to me i knew maybe 20% of the people would be like my poi.  So how specific does it need to be?

I don't try to make things fit but if it resonates it resonates.  The question is will the predictions actually happen.  In the end that's what i am looking for.  Will poi man up or will this be a repeated cycle that kind of thing.

Please share your thoughts.  There is no wrong answers here just want to see how others judge their readers.

--- End quote ---

Many readings can resonates or parts of readings because many of us go through similar things. Generalities would be if the reader said: you are going through a tough time right now. Well no shit, they already know you're on the phone asking questions so although it resonates because we might be going through a tough time, something about your situation should stand out.
Specifics would be if the reader said: I see you had a date with your SO and things didn't go as planned because you left feeling hollow. Plus he didn't open the door for you like he usually does or didn't call you the pet name that he has for you....something specific to your situation.

Predictions are harder to judge, but again, too many people try to make their situation fit especially when readers hand out numbers and they too don't know what the numbers mean. It is advisable to not call a reader back until the prediction time has come and gone (short term) and of course you'll know if they are good with time. You can also ask them how good they are with time to see if they get defensive about it or what reply they give. Honest readers will say well with some I'm about 80-85% and some might say I'm not too good. At least this honesty tells you they too know their short comings.

--- End quote ---

I heard that a lot about first guy..he thought i was too good for him and I could "do better".  I don't know..he seemed kind of full of himself to me.  Not insecure at all.  I can't see someone ghosting someone they really love but i guess it could happen. 

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