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A long tale of woe, warning and hope!
Synergy:
Waterminx,
I appreciate you sharing your story as well. I feel better about walking away from my ex. When I started calling early this year, I would wait for certain timeframes to pass and nothing would happen. Then I'd keep calling. A great guy is interested in me, and I can't believe that I almost convinced myself to walk away because I "need" to wait and see if these February predictions are correct. Give me a break!!! I am ready to live! My supposed "SM" is an idiot if he does feel the way all these readers say he does, yet he doesn't make a move. You snooze, you lose!
I really sympathize with your story because when I think of all the money I've spent on this, it makes me sick and sad. I have two young daughters! They have everything they need, and they are my life, but I could've done so much more for them with this money!! It makes me feel terrible.
I am glad that you are coming back from this dark period of your life. Your story gives me hope and strength. You guys all know that I call a lot of psychics, but in the past 2 weeks, I have been calling them a bit less. I hope this can become a trend. I know that I won't stop calling completely, but it helps to have this forum as support.
Waterminx, Welcome!
sunandmoon:
Welcome Waterminx! That is such a scary story, I can't believe you lost so much but OTOH I sort of can because I put thousands on my CC and have jacked up my minimum payment to a point where I have a hard time paying it. :(
Synergy - I did the same as you. I'd wait for timeframes and call to get updated or I'd hear something through the grapevine (usually within a day or two of my last call) and I'd freak out so badly I'd have to call to get that clarified.
Do NOT walk away from that great guy if you have any interest in him! The guy I am seeing now, we had been interested in each other for 6 months or so and had I waited for my current timelines to pass (they were between Sept - Nov), I'd have missed out on three very happy months in my life. I still have timelines all the way up until next spring, but I decided I wasn't going to wait any longer and honestly it was his own damn fault! I stopped by to see him one night after spending a delightful day with the new guy (not a date) and he was so rude to me I just said screw it, you don't deserve me.
I have not called a psychic since early September and I feel great. Even better is that my cc balance has gone DOWN for the first time in 18 months and I feel a bit more in control of my life right now.
Once a psychic said that I hold my answers inside of me and you know what? They were right. I really did (and do). My intuition has always been pretty accurate, I have a good handle on my ex's attitudes and emotions, but I just can't wait for him to pull his head out of his ass anymore.
I think we all get to that point where we do have the strength to walk away from our ex's and the psychics and it takes a different amount of time for each of us. Hang in there everyone! This forum has helped SO much!
HUGS
guesswho:
Wow, that's a really sad story. I'm so sorry about how things turned out with the psychics. I have called many, many psychics myself over the last three years. The thing is that there are a handful that have been accurate and their predictions actually did happen with the timeframes they said, especially Abrielle. Who knows though... it might just have been a great guess.
I reconciled with my ex after on and off and listening to the psychics, but when I finally got him I realized that all of the waiting and calling psychics and uncertainty just turned me off from the whole situation. I had been dreaming about the day we would get back together and my ex would propose and when I was given that opportunity this past March (proposal), I didn't want him anymore. I don't know why I didn't!! I guess I had never gotten over the break-ups and rejection.
I wonder how things would have turned out if I had never called a psychic. I would have probably forgotten about my ex lightyears ago! Oh well, you live and you learn. I hope one day to not call psychics again or maybe once in a blue moon. I don't think we were all meant to hang on. I think life should just naturally run its course without us knowing, but it's very tempting when you're down in the dumps and you need hope. It just sucks that most of these psychics aren't really psychic at all.
4everhopeful:
Wow, reading these last posts makes me really think. Some of you had the opportunity you had waited so long for but rejected it on your own. Wonder why these "psychics" didnt see that instead of saying things would work out. I think the biggest mistake I ever made was to call a psychic. It only makes you hang onto something that may or may not happen and prevents you from truly living your life. I think psychic visions are great if working with a crime or something like that is being investigated and they are looking for answers to something that has already happened. But to try to make choices for the future, I think psychic stuff is really not the answer. Im so glad Im not calling anymore. I still get the urge but I talk myself out of it by telling myself that nothing has manifested and my spending more money is not going to make it happen. I truly think that in the beginning I had the impression that the more I heard that it would happen, the faster it would manifest. It just doesnt work that way. Ive given up and Im moving on. He doesnt deserve me if he didnt make the effort to be with me. I am just telling myself he is settling for the one he has, cause I know in my heart I was the best for him. Im on my own and Im ok with that. I will be happy no matter what. Im truly blessed with all I have in my life. I have my health, and my childrens health, a good job, a nice home. I have my troubles but who doesnt. I am determined to count my blessings every day and be happy with what I have. To hell with that man and the psychic readings.
Libra:
Thanks 4everhopefull. It also helps to think, would your "SM" be spending this money to find out answers about you? Obviously the "SM" chooses to love himself more, why do we choose to love the other person more than ourselves.
When I think of needing to call a psychic I think I can use this money for a healing session, there are so many to pick and choose, something like that will help me and be an investment in myself, rather than paying money to hear predictions that may or may not happen.
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