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A long tale of woe, warning and hope!

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sunandmoon:
I did have psychics tell me that I wold meet another man, my ex would come back and I'd have to make a choice. Some said I wouldn't want him anymore.

I think MANY of us have heard the exact same things.

I looked up my Abrielle notes. I talked to her in Oct and Dec 2010. According to her, we'd be happy in Jan 2011, reconciliation by April 2011, and there was to be a proposal in June 2011. The only thing that happened was that we spent NYD together, had a great time and that was IT. He told me he loved me when he was drunk and didn't deny it the next morning. Now? Nadda

glasshalffull:

--- Quote from: Libra on December 01, 2011, 04:03:13 AM ---Thanks 4everhopefull. It also helps to think, would your "SM" be spending this money to find out answers about you? Obviously the "SM" chooses to love himself more, why do we choose to love the other person more than ourselves.
When I think of needing to call a psychic I think I can use this money for a healing session, there are so many to pick and choose, something like that will help me and be an investment in myself, rather than paying money to hear predictions that may or may not happen.

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Very good point, Libra. I have had the same thought. I can say that my SM would spend the money on herself! :-[

glasshalffull:

--- Quote from: sunandmoon on December 01, 2011, 12:53:48 PM ---I did have psychics tell me that I wold meet another man, my ex would come back and I'd have to make a choice. Some said I wouldn't want him anymore.

I think MANY of us have heard the exact same things.

I looked up my Abrielle notes. I talked to her in Oct and Dec 2010. According to her, we'd be happy in Jan 2011, reconciliation by April 2011, and there was to be a proposal in June 2011. The only thing that happened was that we spent NYD together, had a great time and that was IT. He told me he loved me when he was drunk and didn't deny it the next morning. Now? Nadda

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Yes, I had all kinds of scenarios predicted.

I have to say 'thank you GOD for this website!'. I find myself calling less and less. A few nice people PM me and that's a blessing too.

4everhopeful:
I am happy to say that I havent called in weeks. I dont even have the urge really. I still go read testimonials and the blog at CP occasionally, but if I have even the slightest urge to call, I tell myself it wont make any difference if I do hear good things over the phone. Im concentrating on me for a change and losing weight (almost 5 lbs gone, YAY) and only 15 to go to be at my target weight. Im feeling so much better with putting all of this behind me. Im happier now than I have been in a very long time. I do still have my bad days, but they are beginning to be less frequent. When I think of "him", I am starting to tell myself he didnt love me enough to stick around so he doesnt deserve what I had and have to give. Actually, I am at a point of believing that being alone isnt so bad after all. I do what I want, when I want. I go where I want, when I want. Why did I ever put someone else before me?????? Put yourself in the #1 position and keep yourself there, no matter what. Its the only way to fly. :)

Libra:
Hi 4ever I agree with putting yourself first no matter what. Now I learned different spiritual techniques and use them as soon as I am feeling down, I feel the difference immediately, and usually feel 100% better within a day or two. 

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