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Dreamer23:

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--- Quote from: jhuskindle on December 25, 2018, 06:10:49 AM ---
--- Quote from: candiednut on December 25, 2018, 01:59:12 AM ---No, not "blame", just taking responsibility. Don't put words in my mouth. And I never said you need to believe LOA to manifest...again don't put words in my mouth. You don't need to believe gravity for it to be real. Sometimes not believing or being negative actually makes you a better manifester as I have said before too. Go be triggered somewhere else, you are at the wrong place.

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So here you say being negative might help manifest that goes against the concept of loa... I wasn’t insulting you I’m just making a case for loa being bs. Some people call it luck of the draw I’m one of the few who believe it’s pre written. Either way negates the concept of loa.

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If you read my post you'd understand why I said that. LOA is not about positive thinking, positive thinking (at least in the way most people do it) does not work because it is denial. Being negative releases resistance to the outcome which sometimes can help you manifest.

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I agree with this so much. I never understood why being negative helps you manifest, because I've seen that it does, in my life, I have had times when I thought something wouldn't happen and it did and this explanation makes sense. Thank you candiednut.

I also have seen from my experience, that being neutral and basically not caring too much about how or when something will manifest brings things to me. So let's say I want something specific and I have a thought that is like "oh how I wish I had this" and then I don't think about it and I am relaxed and don't even care if or how it happens. Then it usually happens.

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You've just summarized how creation works here ;) Desire + Resistance = Takes time to manifest or never manifest if resistance isn't released. Desire + No Resistance = Very fast, even instantaneous manifestations...like if I wanted an ice-cream I just go to the shop to buy it, I don't have any resistance like believing I can't have it, thinking that its hard to get one, or that I don't deserve it etc...To the universe it is not more difficult to manifest an ice-cream than a mansion, it is our resistance and subconscious beliefs getting in the way. It's the "bigness" of the mansion to most people that makes it harder to manifest. If it were "no big deal", like the state you just described, we'd have it in no time.

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Yup! Now I have no idea how to get rid of the resistance...for those things that are bigger and our minds think it's harder to accomplish them, then the resistance is there....how do you get rid of it? It's so hard.

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