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Offline njlady

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #15 on: July 06, 2018, 10:39:24 PM »
If you let your feelings control your actions, you're not going to move forward.  A lot of things are hard to do.  You can have the feelings and say f*ck you to them; I'm going to go and get what I really want. 


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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #16 on: July 06, 2018, 10:56:08 PM »
If you let your feelings control your actions, you're not going to move forward.  A lot of things are hard to do.  You can have the feelings and say f*ck you to them; I'm going to go and get what I really want.

If we all did that, then none of us would be calling psychics.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #17 on: July 07, 2018, 03:23:24 PM »
If you let your feelings control your actions, you're not going to move forward.  A lot of things are hard to do.  You can have the feelings and say f*ck you to them; I'm going to go and get what I really want.

If we all did that, then none of us would be calling psychics.

Only the people who aren't accepting what is already gone. 

Not everyone calls about their ex. 

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #18 on: July 08, 2018, 04:14:58 PM »
If you let your feelings control your actions, you're not going to move forward.  A lot of things are hard to do.  You can have the feelings and say f*ck you to them; I'm going to go and get what I really want.

If we all did that, then none of us would be calling psychics.

Only the people who aren't accepting what is already gone. 

Not everyone calls about their ex.


95% of people on here are. If you’re happy and content with your life you don’t need to call fake hotline psychics, that’s just common sense.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #19 on: July 09, 2018, 12:14:22 AM »
I'd say only about half of people inquire about relationships. The rest are calling about jobs, money, school tests, tiffs with friends and family, etc. The repeat serial callers are almost always about relationships though.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #20 on: July 09, 2018, 01:02:44 AM »
If you let your feelings control your actions, you're not going to move forward.  A lot of things are hard to do.  You can have the feelings and say f*ck you to them; I'm going to go and get what I really want.

If we all did that, then none of us would be calling psychics.

Only the people who aren't accepting what is already gone. 

Not everyone calls about their ex.


95% of people on here are. If you’re happy and content with your life you don’t need to call fake hotline psychics, that’s just common sense.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #21 on: July 10, 2018, 10:18:43 PM »
I'd say only about half of people inquire about relationships. The rest are calling about jobs, money, school tests, tiffs with friends and family, etc. The repeat serial callers are almost always about relationships though.

At least 90% of threads I’ve read have been about a “POI”


No one is obviously calling readers when they are feeling happy. It’s because they are being troubled or are in a very negative state emotionally.

The readers are a huge waste of money and if I felt like everything was going in a positive direction in my life I would not give them a second thought.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #22 on: July 10, 2018, 10:20:24 PM »
Not to mention if you’re having problems with money you really have no business calling readers.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #23 on: July 10, 2018, 11:04:15 PM »
@maroonlight - did Micah's predictions happen for you?

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #24 on: July 11, 2018, 02:56:53 AM »
@maroonlight - did Micah's predictions happen for you?

No. I contacted him myself and we are talking again now but we haven't started dating again or have talked about dating again yet. Even if something does happen, I wouldn't try reading with him again or any other advisor at this point.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #25 on: July 11, 2018, 11:19:14 PM »
I'd say only about half of people inquire about relationships. The rest are calling about jobs, money, school tests, tiffs with friends and family, etc. The repeat serial callers are almost always about relationships though.

At least 90% of threads I’ve read have been about a “POI”


No one is obviously calling readers when they are feeling happy. It’s because they are being troubled or are in a very negative state emotionally.

The readers are a huge waste of money and if I felt like everything was going in a positive direction in my life I would not give them a second thought.

The boards don't really draw a generalized sample of people calling for readings. There's more people who are in crisis or addicted to readings on here than what would be an actual sample of callers. Lots of people call in when they have a problem that's nagging them, but it doesn't necessarily impede on their lives in the same way. Lot of people call when they're job hunting or going into exams, or buying a house. Legal issues are common. The people calling about a bad relationship are the ones that end up calling over and over and over again and end up on here.

I've had a lot of good readings over the years, and I've had predictions and outcomes come true for readings. I can't say that every single thing is going in a positive direction for me, but I can't complain either. I just have some problematic people that I have to deal with for the foreseeable future, and I will continue to call on a monthly basis as its been working for me.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #26 on: July 12, 2018, 12:38:56 AM »
I'd say only about half of people inquire about relationships. The rest are calling about jobs, money, school tests, tiffs with friends and family, etc. The repeat serial callers are almost always about relationships though.

At least 90% of threads I’ve read have been about a “POI”


No one is obviously calling readers when they are feeling happy. It’s because they are being troubled or are in a very negative state emotionally.

The readers are a huge waste of money and if I felt like everything was going in a positive direction in my life I would not give them a second thought.

The boards don't really draw a generalized sample of people calling for readings. There's more people who are in crisis or addicted to readings on here than what would be an actual sample of callers. Lots of people call in when they have a problem that's nagging them, but it doesn't necessarily impede on their lives in the same way. Lot of people call when they're job hunting or going into exams, or buying a house. Legal issues are common. The people calling about a bad relationship are the ones that end up calling over and over and over again and end up on here.

I've had a lot of good readings over the years, and I've had predictions and outcomes come true for readings. I can't say that every single thing is going in a positive direction for me, but I can't complain either. I just have some problematic people that I have to deal with for the foreseeable future, and I will continue to call on a monthly basis as its been working for me.

I've called dozens of these readers and spent close to 5k grand over the past 2 years and not one prediction has ever happened, many of these readers were the most highly recommended on here. There's no way it's that I'm impossible to read or something. I've had readers get present details very accurate many times, but not one thing has ever come out of it. I'm also not the only person on here who has had that experience.

I've just come to the conclusion that they are not the answers to life's problems. You're better off just taking action in your own life to fix things, instead of asking them what will happen, will it be ok, etc. 95% of the time they will only tell you what you want to hear. I've mostly only called about relationships but I inquired about a job once and they told me I would get hired or be called back for a second interview and that didn't happen.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #27 on: July 12, 2018, 10:49:34 AM »
@maroonlight - didnt you say someone on best psychic directory told you your poI wasn't coming back and you'd meet a new person and told you the exact month you'd meet him or smth?

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #28 on: July 12, 2018, 11:54:59 AM »
@maroonlight - didnt you say someone on best psychic directory told you your poI wasn't coming back and you'd meet a new person and told you the exact month you'd meet him or smth?

Yeah but that wasn’t a hotline. It was $225 for 30 minutes. I called him again on this poi back in December and he said he didn’t know if he would come back or not, so I don’t think I’ll be using that reader again either. He also made a pregnancy prediction which I have no desire to have kids at all especially not right now but thankfully it didn’t happen.

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Re: Tricks of the Trade
« Reply #29 on: July 12, 2018, 01:14:05 PM »
I have called readers when I wasn't upset to inquire about an international move, jobs, contracts, real estate deals, legal matters. Not everyone is desperately trying to get an ex back.  Even when I call about my POI I'm not trying to get him back, just trying to get some insight on the odd energy and supernatural things going on.



Also, please don't beat yourself up over feelings you have.  You can let your feelings control your actions that's why we have them.  Please choose love over fear.  Squashing your feelings down because they don't feel appropriate is not healthy. You and your feelings are good enough and are exactly as you should be.