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Tricks of the Trade
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 06:34:23 PM ---
--- Quote from: maroonlight on July 12, 2018, 04:26:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 02:31:13 PM ---Hello,
I used to work at a psychic hotline. Some people are psychic, some are not. Psychics have various gifts and diverse deliveries. You, should you continue to get readings, need to select one that 'feels' right to you. Do not hesitate to say 'good bye' two minutes into the call if they are not displaying some sort of gift. Also, the client is in control, and so the client must ask specific questions and challenge the psychic if the response is inaccurate; however, intuitive information should not be 'comprehended' via consciousness or imagination - this means that a psychic can tell you that you and your beloved will be divorced in six years while you are in your fourth year of marriage, just had your second child, and are both (seemingly) fulfilled. You can't 'see' via your consciousness that outcome occurring, yet by year five and a half, you discover he's been unfaithful...and then starts the downhill spiral.
Not all psychics - the real ones - will connect with all clients. It's up to the client - again, using their control/power - to select a psychic that fits their needs.
Some psychics read via energy, they don't use tools of any sort (Astrology, Numerology, Tarot Cards, Runes, Playing Cards, etc.). With that being said, energy changes. Additionally, the client has free will and can alter an outcome. A psychic can tell you that you will win the lotto this year so play, yet responsibly. Now, if you immediately go outside and play in traffic, the likelihood of you ending your life is high and the likelihood of you winning the lottery can become null and void. It's a challenge sometimes to share intuitive information regarding future events because energy changes, the client has free will, and many times, one thing needs to happen before another thing can occur. So if you're not doing what you need to do (i.e., "a soul-stirring love is likely to enter your life in two to three months" yet you're still dealing with your ex so you are not likely to recognize or receive the 'soul-stirring love', it's not the psychic's error; it's your actions that prevented the 'prediction' from occurring.
You always want to be able to validate information in real time. You may not be able to validate all as some may be future-oriented, or some may pertain to another and you don't know the details; still, never put trust in a psychic who hasn't - in that moment in time - proven their ability or gift.
Remember that some psychics - probably many - are business owners. Their intent is to grow their business, pay bills, buy something specific, etc. They will try to keep you on the line, tell you things that are not true, and even make up stuff to make you feel good and likely to call them back. You should make sure that your chosen intuitive is of light (healing, healed, prayerful, etc - simply implying they are of good energy as some are damaged souls who have abilities and are using their abilities to damage other souls).
I do hope you find who you need to complement your own soul's energy. Some gifted intuitives exist; yet so do some shady con artists with psychic abilities.
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I do believe that there are people with true gifts in the world, but 95% of hotline readers regardless if it is bitwine, CP, Keen, or Asknow are going to give you positive outcomes. The few that did give me negative outcomes were completely wrong in past/present details and how the situation would play out, so I can't give them any credit either unfortunately.
That's the whole problem. I've had readers say accurate things on past and present details, some being not easy to guess, but no predictions ever happen. I can't truly validate anything until the prediction timing has passed or not.
If they are gifted enough to really see the future, I shouldn't have to do specific things for the prediction to happen. If they say I will meet someone in 2 months, then I should meet someone in 2 months. If I go on dating sites or to bars frequently then I could very well "make" myself meet someone within the next 2 months. That being said, we do have free will and obviously no gifted person is going to be 100% accurate, but they should be able to see the most likely outcome instead of a "maybe if you do this" outcome.
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Firstly, one should never seek assistance from a variety of psychics, this is the basis for internal confusion and chaos. Each psychic is not gifted the same, all who say they are psychic are not, and you have free will. Maybe discover one or two gifted psychics to be a part of your 'support group'? Secondly, stop reading with a psychic if they cannot relay current and past information. How can you trust a psychic who can't get anything right about now or then, yet is so positive about what's to come? Also, all psychic readings do not receive positive outcomes. Depending on what the client is talking about, they may have great news regarding their love lief yet also be informed that a 'passing' is to come. Furthermore, psychics have different reading styles. Know what type of energy you want to interact with so that you may discover him or her. Some psychics are direct, some have a more compassionate approach, some are laid back and off the chain, yet they are intuitive. ;-)
I don't like the word 'prediction' because it makes me uncomfortable. A psychic who reads via energy is 'following' the energy of the situation all the while noting your energy (the client's) and possibly even that of another (if it's a question about a relationship)...during this process, some state an outcome, and it happens. Some may state an outcome, and it doesn't. Such is life. We all have free will and we all are ever-changing energy. Lastly, some psychics are simply trying to make money and pay bills...they need to keep the client satisfied. Then there are those who will speak directly and let you know you are 'likely' to meet someone at the gas station (you know the one, near the new shopping center) and it may be on a Wednesday, more than likely in the evening. Now you see how specific I was yet used the words 'likely', 'may be', and 'more than likely'? Because folks expect each word a psychic says to be 'bond'. It is not...'cause they may not be psychic. And even if they are, how gifted are they? There are some psychic readings that are 100% accurate depending on the psychic you choose, their level of ability, and your level of self-awareness and acceptance. :-)
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^^ I agree with this! When I started, I tried so many...but that was because I was new to the whole thing....but once I found my "team" my "squad" I stuck with them. I won't lie and say I haven't dabbled with a couple or so (due to rave reviews on the board and out of curiosity) but...I always stuck with my squad.
This is very insightful - thanks for your post!
sunshineluv7:
I'd back up everything Crazy Lace(y) (sorry I want to make it rhyme lol) said except for the part about tarot being a trick of the trade. I think its more of just a trade, unless it's going back to what i wrote about them using it to help someone who primarily reads energy verify the information they are reading.
By my personal experiences - probably 80-90 percent of working "psychics" out there are relying on the "for entertainment only" clause, and the remaining are gifted and at times mind-blowingly gifted.
(topic change)
That's why psychic readings can be as addictive as gambling. It has the same type of feedback loop.
miss- miss - win- miss - big win - miss - win - win - etc.
Actually, I'm going to start a new thread. Y'all might find what my therapist said super interesting.
CrazyLace - P:
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on July 12, 2018, 07:45:23 PM ---
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 06:34:23 PM ---
--- Quote from: maroonlight on July 12, 2018, 04:26:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 02:31:13 PM ---Hello,
I used to work at a psychic hotline. Some people are psychic, some are not. Psychics have various gifts and diverse deliveries. You, should you continue to get readings, need to select one that 'feels' right to you. Do not hesitate to say 'good bye' two minutes into the call if they are not displaying some sort of gift. Also, the client is in control, and so the client must ask specific questions and challenge the psychic if the response is inaccurate; however, intuitive information should not be 'comprehended' via consciousness or imagination - this means that a psychic can tell you that you and your beloved will be divorced in six years while you are in your fourth year of marriage, just had your second child, and are both (seemingly) fulfilled. You can't 'see' via your consciousness that outcome occurring, yet by year five and a half, you discover he's been unfaithful...and then starts the downhill spiral.
Not all psychics - the real ones - will connect with all clients. It's up to the client - again, using their control/power - to select a psychic that fits their needs.
Some psychics read via energy, they don't use tools of any sort (Astrology, Numerology, Tarot Cards, Runes, Playing Cards, etc.). With that being said, energy changes. Additionally, the client has free will and can alter an outcome. A psychic can tell you that you will win the lotto this year so play, yet responsibly. Now, if you immediately go outside and play in traffic, the likelihood of you ending your life is high and the likelihood of you winning the lottery can become null and void. It's a challenge sometimes to share intuitive information regarding future events because energy changes, the client has free will, and many times, one thing needs to happen before another thing can occur. So if you're not doing what you need to do (i.e., "a soul-stirring love is likely to enter your life in two to three months" yet you're still dealing with your ex so you are not likely to recognize or receive the 'soul-stirring love', it's not the psychic's error; it's your actions that prevented the 'prediction' from occurring.
You always want to be able to validate information in real time. You may not be able to validate all as some may be future-oriented, or some may pertain to another and you don't know the details; still, never put trust in a psychic who hasn't - in that moment in time - proven their ability or gift.
Remember that some psychics - probably many - are business owners. Their intent is to grow their business, pay bills, buy something specific, etc. They will try to keep you on the line, tell you things that are not true, and even make up stuff to make you feel good and likely to call them back. You should make sure that your chosen intuitive is of light (healing, healed, prayerful, etc - simply implying they are of good energy as some are damaged souls who have abilities and are using their abilities to damage other souls).
I do hope you find who you need to complement your own soul's energy. Some gifted intuitives exist; yet so do some shady con artists with psychic abilities.
--- End quote ---
I do believe that there are people with true gifts in the world, but 95% of hotline readers regardless if it is bitwine, CP, Keen, or Asknow are going to give you positive outcomes. The few that did give me negative outcomes were completely wrong in past/present details and how the situation would play out, so I can't give them any credit either unfortunately.
That's the whole problem. I've had readers say accurate things on past and present details, some being not easy to guess, but no predictions ever happen. I can't truly validate anything until the prediction timing has passed or not.
If they are gifted enough to really see the future, I shouldn't have to do specific things for the prediction to happen. If they say I will meet someone in 2 months, then I should meet someone in 2 months. If I go on dating sites or to bars frequently then I could very well "make" myself meet someone within the next 2 months. That being said, we do have free will and obviously no gifted person is going to be 100% accurate, but they should be able to see the most likely outcome instead of a "maybe if you do this" outcome.
--- End quote ---
Firstly, one should never seek assistance from a variety of psychics, this is the basis for internal confusion and chaos. Each psychic is not gifted the same, all who say they are psychic are not, and you have free will. Maybe discover one or two gifted psychics to be a part of your 'support group'? Secondly, stop reading with a psychic if they cannot relay current and past information. How can you trust a psychic who can't get anything right about now or then, yet is so positive about what's to come? Also, all psychic readings do not receive positive outcomes. Depending on what the client is talking about, they may have great news regarding their love lief yet also be informed that a 'passing' is to come. Furthermore, psychics have different reading styles. Know what type of energy you want to interact with so that you may discover him or her. Some psychics are direct, some have a more compassionate approach, some are laid back and off the chain, yet they are intuitive. ;-)
I don't like the word 'prediction' because it makes me uncomfortable. A psychic who reads via energy is 'following' the energy of the situation all the while noting your energy (the client's) and possibly even that of another (if it's a question about a relationship)...during this process, some state an outcome, and it happens. Some may state an outcome, and it doesn't. Such is life. We all have free will and we all are ever-changing energy. Lastly, some psychics are simply trying to make money and pay bills...they need to keep the client satisfied. Then there are those who will speak directly and let you know you are 'likely' to meet someone at the gas station (you know the one, near the new shopping center) and it may be on a Wednesday, more than likely in the evening. Now you see how specific I was yet used the words 'likely', 'may be', and 'more than likely'? Because folks expect each word a psychic says to be 'bond'. It is not...'cause they may not be psychic. And even if they are, how gifted are they? There are some psychic readings that are 100% accurate depending on the psychic you choose, their level of ability, and your level of self-awareness and acceptance. :-)
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^^ I agree with this! When I started, I tried so many...but that was because I was new to the whole thing....but once I found my "team" my "squad" I stuck with them. I won't lie and say I haven't dabbled with a couple or so (due to rave reviews on the board and out of curiosity) but...I always stuck with my squad.
This is very insightful - thanks for your post!
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You're very welcome! And that's why I wanted to share my experiences so that people can be better prepared to discover a psychic/intuitive to add to their team. :) Yet truly, if one is into psychic/intuitive readings and has two possibly three psychics/intuitives as members of their 'team', I personally feel that's fine. Or they may have one. You see, what people don't realize is the varying gifts/abilities a psychic/intuitive has. With that being said, you may have 'Ashley' as your Medium for when you want to connect with family because she is soooooo good at that. You may call 'Jack' when you need help with your professional life as he is so spot-on with 'less emotionally connected questions and situations'. And then you may reach out to 'Sara' because she is a gifted Empath and can enlighten you on people in your intimate life. So if one has speaks with multiple psychics/intuitives, I hope they are being conscious, responsible and strategic. 8)
CrazyLace - P:
--- Quote from: sunshineluv7 on July 12, 2018, 07:49:12 PM ---I'd back up everything Crazy Lace(y) (sorry I want to make it rhyme lol) said except for the part about tarot being a trick of the trade. I think its more of just a trade, unless it's going back to what i wrote about them using it to help someone who primarily reads energy verify the information they are reading.
By my personal experiences - probably 80-90 percent of working "psychics" out there are relying on the "for entertainment only" clause, and the remaining are gifted and at times mind-blowingly gifted.
(topic change)
That's why psychic readings can be as addictive as gambling. It has the same type of feedback loop.
miss- miss - win- miss - big win - miss - win - win - etc.
Actually, I'm going to start a new thread. Y'all might find what my therapist said super interesting.
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I don't know what you mean by 'using the Tarot as a trick of the trade'...I'm sorry if you thought using the Tarot Cards was a trick. No they are not. I started out reading Tarot Cards and then I stopped 'cause I don't want to use tools. Many intuitives use the Tarot Cards to develop their intuitive energy, some only use the Cards when reading because they want to (their presence can be 'calming'), or because it aids in the intuitive interpretation. Yet also know, some Tarot Card Readers are intuitive/psychic; some are simply skilled at reading the Cards.
Re: 'for entertainment purposes only'...that is required by law to be posted. It's on my website yet I don't read for 'entertainment purposes', I read for 'healing purposes'.
...and so you're a rapper!! LOL!!!! 8)
HornetKick:
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 13, 2018, 02:43:21 PM ---Yet also know, some Tarot Card Readers are intuitive/psychic; some are simply skilled at reading the Cards.
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I personal have a problem with readers who only read tarot and have no intuitive and/or psychic ability at all, but call themselves psychic. So not true.
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