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Tricks of the Trade
maroonlight:
So here it is. In the fall it will be 3 years since I started calling psychics on a regular to an occasional basis, and I am still on my 3rd POI who I have not seen since November, but have remained in contact with since we stopped seeing each other.
I would say it's been nothing but a failure on almost every reader I spoke to's part. They all said we would be back together by now. All is not completely lost as we started talking again a few days ago after not talking for almost 3 months, but pretty much none of the predictions happened.
I've come to the conclusion that the reason people say psychics were accurate on past and present details but could not get any predictions right is because they say general things that sound specific enough to apply to you personally, but they could actually apply to almost anyone. "He's confused." "He has a lot on his plate." "His job is stressful." "He's afraid of commitment." "I sense a 3rd party." "There's not enough communication."
The list goes on. All of these statements are accurate for many people, but they are not specific to you. When I think back to all of the readings I've had over the past 2 1/2 years, I remember a great majority of readers saying these things and nothing ever panned out. I know they're saying this stuff to everyone, not just me.
The next thing that usually comes along after those statements are some type of predictions along the lines of "Things will move slowly." or they give you a time frame somewhere between 2 weeks and 2 months for things to turn around. Depending on which month you call, the next couple months after that one will be when something occurs. Yeah, sure.
So unfortunately I wasted more money, not as much as before, but still enough to count, on more useless readers for temporary emotional comfort. I guess things could be worse considering my last 2 POI's were basically out of the picture when I was calling about them, but even if we do get back together, I would not consider any of these psychics to be correct.
candiednut:
I agree with you but if you and your POI are talking now, weren't a lot of the readers right? Maybe they are wrong aobut reconciliation timeframe
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: candiednut on July 02, 2018, 11:32:20 AM ---I agree with you but if you and your POI are talking now, weren't a lot of the readers right? Maybe they are wrong aobut reconciliation timeframe
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The thing is, 95% of the readers are going to give you a positive outcome regardless of who you call about. So even if we reconcile, I'm not going to bother again. Everything they said was far fetched and everything was supposed to be amazing by June etc.
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: Still tired on July 02, 2018, 05:20:56 AM ---Yes, they suck us in by saying things are very general, that could apply to a lot of people.
However I have had readers tell me things about past/present that were very specific, no way they could have guessed, and they were still wrong about future predictions.
I just don't believe many of them can really see the future, or sometimes they can see parts of it but not the ultimate outcome.
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I had that happen a couple times too and yes the predictions still never happened. I believe that the current situation with my POI is purely coincidental, not predictions on their way to coming true.
njlady:
Why do you want to keep getting back together with exes? That is living your life looking in the rear view mirror. When he leaves, cut him off. And you call and call and call because you want your past that didn't work out back again?
If I were at a restaurant and was told that my meal would be out in 10 minutes, it didn't come, asked again, was given a new time frame, didn't happen, got a new time frame andthat didn't happen either, I wouldn't keep asking.
Have you tried asking what you need to work on relationship wise or in choosing specific qualities in a man?
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