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Tricks of the Trade
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: candiednut on July 12, 2018, 02:57:42 PM ---
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 02:31:13 PM ---Hello,
I used to work at a psychic hotline. Some people are psychic, some are not. Psychics have various gifts and diverse deliveries. You, should you continue to get readings, need to select one that 'feels' right to you. Do not hesitate to say 'good bye' two minutes into the call if they are not displaying some sort of gift. Also, the client is in control, and so the client must ask specific questions and challenge the psychic if the response is inaccurate; however, intuitive information should not be 'comprehended' via consciousness or imagination - this means that a psychic can tell you that you and your beloved will be divorced in six years while you are in your fourth year of marriage, just had your second child, and are both (seemingly) fulfilled. You can't 'see' via your consciousness that outcome occurring, yet by year five and a half, you discover he's been unfaithful...and then starts the downhill spiral.
Not all psychics - the real ones - will connect with all clients. It's up to the client - again, using their control/power - to select a psychic that fits their needs.
Some psychics read via energy, they don't use tools of any sort (Astrology, Numerology, Tarot Cards, Runes, Playing Cards, etc.). With that being said, energy changes. Additionally, the client has free will and can alter an outcome. A psychic can tell you that you will win the lotto this year so play, yet responsibly. Now, if you immediately go outside and play in traffic, the likelihood of you ending your life is high and the likelihood of you winning the lottery can become null and void. It's a challenge sometimes to share intuitive information regarding future events because energy changes, the client has free will, and many times, one thing needs to happen before another thing can occur. So if you're not doing what you need to do (i.e., "a soul-stirring love is likely to enter your life in two to three months" yet you're still dealing with your ex so you are not likely to recognize or receive the 'soul-stirring love', it's not the psychic's error; it's your actions that prevented the 'prediction' from occurring.
You always want to be able to validate information in real time. You may not be able to validate all as some may be future-oriented, or some may pertain to another and you don't know the details; still, never put trust in a psychic who hasn't - in that moment in time - proven their ability or gift.
Remember that some psychics - probably many - are business owners. Their intent is to grow their business, pay bills, buy something specific, etc. They will try to keep you on the line, tell you things that are not true, and even make up stuff to make you feel good and likely to call them back. You should make sure that your chosen intuitive is of light (healing, healed, prayerful, etc - simply implying they are of good energy as some are damaged souls who have abilities and are using their abilities to damage other souls).
I do hope you find who you need to complement your own soul's energy. Some gifted intuitives exist; yet so do some shady con artists with psychic abilities.
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Thanks for sharing. The thing I don't get is, if a specific action is required for the outcome to occur - why doesn't the psychic say "this is what I see happening but only if..." when they say "this is what I see happening" then we would assume that that outcome will 99% happen.
I had a psychic tell me something was going to happen and when it didn't and I called her back to ask, she said "yeah..I wasn't 100% on that, I had to look hard for it" - then why did you tell me it was going to happen?? lol
I also read with a psychic and on her profile she says Spirit doesn't reveal everything when you're not supposed to know or knowing would interfere with the desired outcome etc, I think this is ethical and the logical way to do it.
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The only reader I've heard do this is Cookie. She will say "when this that or this happens, you will then be elevated, or she will see xy and z" happen
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 02:31:13 PM ---Hello,
I used to work at a psychic hotline. Some people are psychic, some are not. Psychics have various gifts and diverse deliveries. You, should you continue to get readings, need to select one that 'feels' right to you. Do not hesitate to say 'good bye' two minutes into the call if they are not displaying some sort of gift. Also, the client is in control, and so the client must ask specific questions and challenge the psychic if the response is inaccurate; however, intuitive information should not be 'comprehended' via consciousness or imagination - this means that a psychic can tell you that you and your beloved will be divorced in six years while you are in your fourth year of marriage, just had your second child, and are both (seemingly) fulfilled. You can't 'see' via your consciousness that outcome occurring, yet by year five and a half, you discover he's been unfaithful...and then starts the downhill spiral.
Not all psychics - the real ones - will connect with all clients. It's up to the client - again, using their control/power - to select a psychic that fits their needs.
Some psychics read via energy, they don't use tools of any sort (Astrology, Numerology, Tarot Cards, Runes, Playing Cards, etc.). With that being said, energy changes. Additionally, the client has free will and can alter an outcome. A psychic can tell you that you will win the lotto this year so play, yet responsibly. Now, if you immediately go outside and play in traffic, the likelihood of you ending your life is high and the likelihood of you winning the lottery can become null and void. It's a challenge sometimes to share intuitive information regarding future events because energy changes, the client has free will, and many times, one thing needs to happen before another thing can occur. So if you're not doing what you need to do (i.e., "a soul-stirring love is likely to enter your life in two to three months" yet you're still dealing with your ex so you are not likely to recognize or receive the 'soul-stirring love', it's not the psychic's error; it's your actions that prevented the 'prediction' from occurring.
You always want to be able to validate information in real time. You may not be able to validate all as some may be future-oriented, or some may pertain to another and you don't know the details; still, never put trust in a psychic who hasn't - in that moment in time - proven their ability or gift.
Remember that some psychics - probably many - are business owners. Their intent is to grow their business, pay bills, buy something specific, etc. They will try to keep you on the line, tell you things that are not true, and even make up stuff to make you feel good and likely to call them back. You should make sure that your chosen intuitive is of light (healing, healed, prayerful, etc - simply implying they are of good energy as some are damaged souls who have abilities and are using their abilities to damage other souls).
I do hope you find who you need to complement your own soul's energy. Some gifted intuitives exist; yet so do some shady con artists with psychic abilities.
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I do believe that there are people with true gifts in the world, but 95% of hotline readers regardless if it is bitwine, CP, Keen, or Asknow are going to give you positive outcomes. The few that did give me negative outcomes were completely wrong in past/present details and how the situation would play out, so I can't give them any credit either unfortunately.
That's the whole problem. I've had readers say accurate things on past and present details, some being not easy to guess, but no predictions ever happen. I can't truly validate anything until the prediction timing has passed or not.
If they are gifted enough to really see the future, I shouldn't have to do specific things for the prediction to happen. If they say I will meet someone in 2 months, then I should meet someone in 2 months. If I go on dating sites or to bars frequently then I could very well "make" myself meet someone within the next 2 months. That being said, we do have free will and obviously no gifted person is going to be 100% accurate, but they should be able to see the most likely outcome instead of a "maybe if you do this" outcome.
CrazyLace - P:
--- Quote from: maroonlight on July 12, 2018, 04:26:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 02:31:13 PM ---Hello,
I used to work at a psychic hotline. Some people are psychic, some are not. Psychics have various gifts and diverse deliveries. You, should you continue to get readings, need to select one that 'feels' right to you. Do not hesitate to say 'good bye' two minutes into the call if they are not displaying some sort of gift. Also, the client is in control, and so the client must ask specific questions and challenge the psychic if the response is inaccurate; however, intuitive information should not be 'comprehended' via consciousness or imagination - this means that a psychic can tell you that you and your beloved will be divorced in six years while you are in your fourth year of marriage, just had your second child, and are both (seemingly) fulfilled. You can't 'see' via your consciousness that outcome occurring, yet by year five and a half, you discover he's been unfaithful...and then starts the downhill spiral.
Not all psychics - the real ones - will connect with all clients. It's up to the client - again, using their control/power - to select a psychic that fits their needs.
Some psychics read via energy, they don't use tools of any sort (Astrology, Numerology, Tarot Cards, Runes, Playing Cards, etc.). With that being said, energy changes. Additionally, the client has free will and can alter an outcome. A psychic can tell you that you will win the lotto this year so play, yet responsibly. Now, if you immediately go outside and play in traffic, the likelihood of you ending your life is high and the likelihood of you winning the lottery can become null and void. It's a challenge sometimes to share intuitive information regarding future events because energy changes, the client has free will, and many times, one thing needs to happen before another thing can occur. So if you're not doing what you need to do (i.e., "a soul-stirring love is likely to enter your life in two to three months" yet you're still dealing with your ex so you are not likely to recognize or receive the 'soul-stirring love', it's not the psychic's error; it's your actions that prevented the 'prediction' from occurring.
You always want to be able to validate information in real time. You may not be able to validate all as some may be future-oriented, or some may pertain to another and you don't know the details; still, never put trust in a psychic who hasn't - in that moment in time - proven their ability or gift.
Remember that some psychics - probably many - are business owners. Their intent is to grow their business, pay bills, buy something specific, etc. They will try to keep you on the line, tell you things that are not true, and even make up stuff to make you feel good and likely to call them back. You should make sure that your chosen intuitive is of light (healing, healed, prayerful, etc - simply implying they are of good energy as some are damaged souls who have abilities and are using their abilities to damage other souls).
I do hope you find who you need to complement your own soul's energy. Some gifted intuitives exist; yet so do some shady con artists with psychic abilities.
--- End quote ---
I do believe that there are people with true gifts in the world, but 95% of hotline readers regardless if it is bitwine, CP, Keen, or Asknow are going to give you positive outcomes. The few that did give me negative outcomes were completely wrong in past/present details and how the situation would play out, so I can't give them any credit either unfortunately.
That's the whole problem. I've had readers say accurate things on past and present details, some being not easy to guess, but no predictions ever happen. I can't truly validate anything until the prediction timing has passed or not.
If they are gifted enough to really see the future, I shouldn't have to do specific things for the prediction to happen. If they say I will meet someone in 2 months, then I should meet someone in 2 months. If I go on dating sites or to bars frequently then I could very well "make" myself meet someone within the next 2 months. That being said, we do have free will and obviously no gifted person is going to be 100% accurate, but they should be able to see the most likely outcome instead of a "maybe if you do this" outcome.
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Firstly, one should never seek assistance from a variety of psychics, this is the basis for internal confusion and chaos. Each psychic is not gifted the same, all who say they are psychic are not, and you have free will. Maybe discover one or two gifted psychics to be a part of your 'support group'? Secondly, stop reading with a psychic if they cannot relay current and past information. How can you trust a psychic who can't get anything right about now or then, yet is so positive about what's to come? Also, all psychic readings do not receive positive outcomes. Depending on what the client is talking about, they may have great news regarding their love lief yet also be informed that a 'passing' is to come. Furthermore, psychics have different reading styles. Know what type of energy you want to interact with so that you may discover him or her. Some psychics are direct, some have a more compassionate approach, some are laid back and off the chain, yet they are intuitive. ;-)
I don't like the word 'prediction' because it makes me uncomfortable. A psychic who reads via energy is 'following' the energy of the situation all the while noting your energy (the client's) and possibly even that of another (if it's a question about a relationship)...during this process, some state an outcome, and it happens. Some may state an outcome, and it doesn't. Such is life. We all have free will and we all are ever-changing energy. Lastly, some psychics are simply trying to make money and pay bills...they need to keep the client satisfied. Then there are those who will speak directly and let you know you are 'likely' to meet someone at the gas station (you know the one, near the new shopping center) and it may be on a Wednesday, more than likely in the evening. Now you see how specific I was yet used the words 'likely', 'may be', and 'more than likely'? Because folks expect each word a psychic says to be 'bond'. It is not...'cause they may not be psychic. And even if they are, how gifted are they? There are some psychic readings that are 100% accurate depending on the psychic you choose, their level of ability, and your level of self-awareness and acceptance. :-)
CrazyLace - P:
--- Quote from: candiednut on July 12, 2018, 02:57:42 PM ---
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 02:31:13 PM ---Hello,
I used to work at a psychic hotline. Some people are psychic, some are not. Psychics have various gifts and diverse deliveries. You, should you continue to get readings, need to select one that 'feels' right to you. Do not hesitate to say 'good bye' two minutes into the call if they are not displaying some sort of gift. Also, the client is in control, and so the client must ask specific questions and challenge the psychic if the response is inaccurate; however, intuitive information should not be 'comprehended' via consciousness or imagination - this means that a psychic can tell you that you and your beloved will be divorced in six years while you are in your fourth year of marriage, just had your second child, and are both (seemingly) fulfilled. You can't 'see' via your consciousness that outcome occurring, yet by year five and a half, you discover he's been unfaithful...and then starts the downhill spiral.
Not all psychics - the real ones - will connect with all clients. It's up to the client - again, using their control/power - to select a psychic that fits their needs.
Some psychics read via energy, they don't use tools of any sort (Astrology, Numerology, Tarot Cards, Runes, Playing Cards, etc.). With that being said, energy changes. Additionally, the client has free will and can alter an outcome. A psychic can tell you that you will win the lotto this year so play, yet responsibly. Now, if you immediately go outside and play in traffic, the likelihood of you ending your life is high and the likelihood of you winning the lottery can become null and void. It's a challenge sometimes to share intuitive information regarding future events because energy changes, the client has free will, and many times, one thing needs to happen before another thing can occur. So if you're not doing what you need to do (i.e., "a soul-stirring love is likely to enter your life in two to three months" yet you're still dealing with your ex so you are not likely to recognize or receive the 'soul-stirring love', it's not the psychic's error; it's your actions that prevented the 'prediction' from occurring.
You always want to be able to validate information in real time. You may not be able to validate all as some may be future-oriented, or some may pertain to another and you don't know the details; still, never put trust in a psychic who hasn't - in that moment in time - proven their ability or gift.
Remember that some psychics - probably many - are business owners. Their intent is to grow their business, pay bills, buy something specific, etc. They will try to keep you on the line, tell you things that are not true, and even make up stuff to make you feel good and likely to call them back. You should make sure that your chosen intuitive is of light (healing, healed, prayerful, etc - simply implying they are of good energy as some are damaged souls who have abilities and are using their abilities to damage other souls).
I do hope you find who you need to complement your own soul's energy. Some gifted intuitives exist; yet so do some shady con artists with psychic abilities.
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Thanks for sharing. The thing I don't get is, if a specific action is required for the outcome to occur - why doesn't the psychic say "this is what I see happening but only if..." when they say "this is what I see happening" then we would assume that that outcome will 99% happen.
I had a psychic tell me something was going to happen and when it didn't and I called her back to ask, she said "yeah..I wasn't 100% on that, I had to look hard for it" - then why did you tell me it was going to happen?? lol
I also read with a psychic and on her profile she says Spirit doesn't reveal everything when you're not supposed to know or knowing would interfere with the desired outcome etc, I think this is ethical and the logical way to do it.
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You're welcome. I can't speak for other psychics or intuitives. Some are simply more honest and confident than others. Some are simply more gifted than others. The best way for them to share their gifts/abilities is to not act as if they hold all the answers, being honest with their interpretations of the intuitive information, gifts used (as some psychics have many), and the existence of free will. If more psychics/intuitives were honest, there would be less discouragement and skepticism. Additionally, some are not psychic yet read the Tarot Cards...know that 'trick of the trade'. ;-) Now, know that some psychics use the Tarot Cards and are indeed psychic; the Cards aid in their intuitive ability, connection and such (in some cases, it's a crutch). And then there are those who don't use any 'tools'...
Yeah, sometimes intuitive information will only go so deeply. Sometimes the psychic can't receive info, yet they don't tell you that and make up something. And sometimes they aren't 'given access' to such information as Spirit knows if the client is able to handle such at that current point in time. Additionally, a psychic may pick up something negative, yet will not tell you because they don't want to hurt your feelings...which I feel is dishonest and disrespectful.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: candiednut on July 12, 2018, 02:57:42 PM ---
--- Quote from: CrazyLace on July 12, 2018, 02:31:13 PM ---Hello,
I used to work at a psychic hotline. Some people are psychic, some are not. Psychics have various gifts and diverse deliveries. You, should you continue to get readings, need to select one that 'feels' right to you. Do not hesitate to say 'good bye' two minutes into the call if they are not displaying some sort of gift. Also, the client is in control, and so the client must ask specific questions and challenge the psychic if the response is inaccurate; however, intuitive information should not be 'comprehended' via consciousness or imagination - this means that a psychic can tell you that you and your beloved will be divorced in six years while you are in your fourth year of marriage, just had your second child, and are both (seemingly) fulfilled. You can't 'see' via your consciousness that outcome occurring, yet by year five and a half, you discover he's been unfaithful...and then starts the downhill spiral.
Not all psychics - the real ones - will connect with all clients. It's up to the client - again, using their control/power - to select a psychic that fits their needs.
Some psychics read via energy, they don't use tools of any sort (Astrology, Numerology, Tarot Cards, Runes, Playing Cards, etc.). With that being said, energy changes. Additionally, the client has free will and can alter an outcome. A psychic can tell you that you will win the lotto this year so play, yet responsibly. Now, if you immediately go outside and play in traffic, the likelihood of you ending your life is high and the likelihood of you winning the lottery can become null and void. It's a challenge sometimes to share intuitive information regarding future events because energy changes, the client has free will, and many times, one thing needs to happen before another thing can occur. So if you're not doing what you need to do (i.e., "a soul-stirring love is likely to enter your life in two to three months" yet you're still dealing with your ex so you are not likely to recognize or receive the 'soul-stirring love', it's not the psychic's error; it's your actions that prevented the 'prediction' from occurring.
You always want to be able to validate information in real time. You may not be able to validate all as some may be future-oriented, or some may pertain to another and you don't know the details; still, never put trust in a psychic who hasn't - in that moment in time - proven their ability or gift.
Remember that some psychics - probably many - are business owners. Their intent is to grow their business, pay bills, buy something specific, etc. They will try to keep you on the line, tell you things that are not true, and even make up stuff to make you feel good and likely to call them back. You should make sure that your chosen intuitive is of light (healing, healed, prayerful, etc - simply implying they are of good energy as some are damaged souls who have abilities and are using their abilities to damage other souls).
I do hope you find who you need to complement your own soul's energy. Some gifted intuitives exist; yet so do some shady con artists with psychic abilities.
--- End quote ---
Thanks for sharing. The thing I don't get is, if a specific action is required for the outcome to occur - why doesn't the psychic say "this is what I see happening but only if..." when they say "this is what I see happening" then we would assume that that outcome will 99% happen.
I had a psychic tell me something was going to happen and when it didn't and I called her back to ask, she said "yeah..I wasn't 100% on that, I had to look hard for it" - then why did you tell me it was going to happen?? lol
I also read with a psychic and on her profile she says Spirit doesn't reveal everything when you're not supposed to know or knowing would interfere with the desired outcome etc, I think this is ethical and the logical way to do it.
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I actually had a reader (I don't remember who-it was on Keen) who used to tell me what specifically NOT to do regarding a POI I was calling about at the time...and of course, I went ahead and did it anyway, and the results were not good. I think she saw what was going to happen if I put pressure on him or gave him ultimatums and was warning me against it. Looking back, she was right but I'm not sure if the outcome would have changed if I had followed her advice anyway, he ended up being a huge disappointment.
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