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POI gets a reading on me

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helloworld:

--- Quote from: njlady on March 23, 2018, 05:02:28 PM ---It is productive and no one was disrespectful.  If more people put themselves in a pair of POI's shoes, there would be a whole lot less compulsive calling going on.

Your situation is a perfect example (and lesson) about keeping it real, listening to your POI instead of living in your head, keeping a healthy perspective and using common sense.

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I agree no one is being disrespectful, that wasn't what I was implying. All I am saying is it will be more productive if we do not digress by pointing out to another forum member who a few people thought acted like the man I went on dates with. I have no issues with comparisons but please let's leave that forum member alone and focus on our own experiences. Thanks.

journalmuse:
It's a pretty interesting thought exercise. Thanks so much for sharing.

I have to say, I find the weirdest part of all of this the fact that he actually shared all of this with you. Did it come across as that he was trying to use it to convince you or did it seem like he already felt like you'd receive it well? I just can't imagine, in my wildest dreams, ever sharing with a person I got a reading on, that I got a reading on them. Just strikes me as very odd.

helloworld:

--- Quote from: journalmuse on March 23, 2018, 07:46:16 PM ---It's a pretty interesting thought exercise. Thanks so much for sharing.

I have to say, I find the weirdest part of all of this the fact that he actually shared all of this with you. Did it come across as that he was trying to use it to convince you or did it seem like he already felt like you'd receive it well? I just can't imagine, in my wildest dreams, ever sharing with a person I got a reading on, that I got a reading on them. Just strikes me as very odd.

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Yes, initially I was a little weirded out that he told me had a psychic read me. Not only did he tell me about the psychic reading but he made me read text messages he sent to his family and friends asking them how he can get me back! It was a little freaky to see those messages. He was trying to show me to what extent he went to to "win me back". In his head, he fantasized a life with me and yes, he told me that too. I haven't elaborated on that one but go figure. I guess he thought all these things would make me feel special... no!! Only made me realize how desperate he is... I mean after 2 dates, this intense, seriously?!

He even told me had I not agreed to meet him, he would have waited outside my building to see me because he doesn't give up... yikes! Very stalkerish. I have blocked him from social media and all other contact but part of me is still on guard because I feel he may find another way to contact me in time.

Angelina11:
Once I was told by a man who liked me, that he had a psychic reading about me (that was before I found out about online psychic sites). At that time I felt a bit like my privacy was  violated, but now if someone were to say they had a reading on me, that would not bother me at all since I now know how off psychics about their predictions most of the time, lol
Like dude, entertain yourself as much as you want ;D

maroonlight:
As sad as it is, that's probably what's going on behind the scenes in most cases on here, and that is what was going on behind the scenes with my last 2 POI's. The psychic told him the same shit that they tell us when meanwhile the other person is off living their life. I am so done calling psychics. It's been 2 months and I feel better now that I've stopped...

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