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helloworld:
Disclaimer: He's not a POI but someone I went on a few dates with and got obsessed with me.

Just a few days ago, this "POI" told me had a psychic reading done on me. He told me what the psychic said so I can surely validate because I know exactly what I did so here's the story from the other side.

I went on 3 dates with this man after which he left for a month and a half long work trip. He stayed in touch but during the first week he got mad at me for the weirdest reason, called me names, etc. so I blocked him. Fast forward a month later he reached out from another number apologizing profusely and begged to see me one last time. I agreed to see him for 30 minutes. During our meeting, he told me he was extremely upset when he realized how wrong he was that he met with a psychic to ask about me. The psychic nailed the past and current and then told him that "she" is trying her best to "move on" but hasn't because she can't, she still has strong feelings for you, you two are meant to be together, etc. A reminder, "SHE" in this case is me. He told me he was so happy after his reading with the psychic because had the psychic told him I had moved on, he would have lost it.

When he went crazy on me, in a weird way I was relieved because I didn't see him as a real potential so for me there was nothing to "move on" from because I was not into him. Did I have feelings for him - Not at all. Was I struggling to move on - Nope. On the contrary, I was actively dating other men. Are we meant to be together - For God's sake, I hope not! He's a disaster so the only feeling I had for him was and will have for him is sympathy for his insecurities. This man was convinced the psychic was spot on because I agreed to meet him after he got back...!

Just wanted to share this story because I don't know many times I've heard psychics tell me the exact thing for POIs I am actually interested in - the relationship has potential, he will be back, he still cares, etc and how easy it is to fall for the BS if we are totally into someone. In reality, things can be completely different.

helloworld:
I agree. He was clearly all in while I was almost all out and yes, he didn't seem stable at all. That's why I wasn't vested.

One more thing - he had the psychic pull angel cards and he took pictures of the cards and showed those to me. He thought the cards were bang on for "our" situation because in summary, they said "go for it" and "meant to be". I didn't know how to tell him those cards could be accurate but for his work perhaps because nothing is going to happen between him and me.

Here's the kicker - he read with 2-3 psychics and one psychic told him to move on but he got upset with her because he thought that psychic had a crush on him and didn't want him to be with anyone else. Go figure...

journalmuse:

--- Quote from: helloworld on March 22, 2018, 04:03:55 PM ---
Here's the kicker - he read with 2-3 psychics and one psychic told him to move on but he got upset with her because he thought that psychic had a crush on him and didn't want him to be with anyone else. Go figure...

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Yikes. RUN!

njlady:
There is a guy who posts on this board and gets loads of sympathy from people about his POI leading him on because of the feelings she supposedly has for him (per certain psychics) when she has him blocked 97% of the time and your situation is exactly what I think of when he posts, with you being in that woman's shoes.

sawthelight:

--- Quote from: njlady on March 22, 2018, 05:13:36 PM ---There is a guy who posts on this board and gets loads of sympathy from people about his POI leading him on because of the feelings she supposedly has for him (per certain psychics) when she has him blocked 97% of the time and your situation is exactly what I think of when he posts, with you being in that woman's shoes.

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I thought the same thing!!

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