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Letting go, having faith and seeing what happens....
sawthelight:
Yes...it's definitely a lesson to be learned by experience, not someone telling you to stop...I know, for me, I really took a look at what I was spending, and where I was with the person of interest and felt so damn stupid! I just felt pathetic, tbh.
I have a few readers that have been accurate for me and they are the type that don't keep you coming back again and again for reassurance...I just let things play out.
candy1:
Thanks everyone, and for those who are also working at cutting back/stopping - I wish you all the best of luck. For me, honestly it has nothing to do with things not panning out the way predicted, in fact, my situation is "panning" out how it was predicted, and since finding this site and starting to talk to the more favored psychics here - in basically the approx. time frame. Who knows for outcome. My need to stop was this 1) I constantly have struggled with my faith and my need for readings - knowing basically that with my faith and belief in God, I should not be getting readings - but my lack of faith in myself and my own intuition and my desperate need for control and need to know, I couldn't "not" get readings, and 2) the amount of money I spent was appalling to me as I am not an "addictive" personality so why am I wasting all my money on something that I have nothing to show for. And 3) it definitely wasn't helping me or my situation.
I have a unique situation with my POI (as I am sure many of us think we do). I don't know what the outcome will be - hopefully it will be what has been predicted for me... BUT I am finally at a point where I know that it's going to be ok, one way or another. I have faith that God is leading me the way I need to go and I feel good.
That is not to say I don't think about getting readings, I do. It doesn't mean I don't go look on Keen, I do... It doesn't mean that I am totally perfectly perfect, because - I am not. I am flawed and I am ok with that. My POI is flawed and that's ok. Our situation is not perfect, and it never will be - and that is what keeps it real. I am working on this day by day, some days are super easy other days I am a mess and a work in progress, but I tell myself over and over and over and over again "what's meant to be will be, it's up to God - not me" and no psychic reading will ever change that. And I pray, everyday, a lot - it helps me - a lot... So, hopefully that helps those out there trying to stop or cut back as well.
mystery123:
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--- Quote from: Realist411 on December 04, 2017, 02:35:16 AM ---Congrats!
It's a hard habit to break, but you can do it. I'd not just keep us updated here, but talk to someone in real life and keep up the good work.
One day at a time.
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Thank you Realist! I feel good, I still go and look on keen - mostly read emails from some of the readers that email things I like to read. I pulled myself out of lines for arranged calls and wasn't even remotely bothered by missing a call from a reader I waited for for months. No one in my "real life" knows about how much I was getting readings. So talking to them is not something I'm prepared to do... But I pray... I pray a lot - because that's what I believe. I have no need, want or desire to read, that doesn't mean I am putting so much pressure on myself to say I will NEVER get a read again - but I don't want to right now. And that feels great.
What's meant to be will be and I am telling myself that everyday! As you said... One day at a time!
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That’s me right now!! Word by word.
candy1:
--- Quote from: KRFun on December 04, 2017, 10:44:51 PM ---It's like reading kinda kept me from enjoying the moment. Constantly trying to know what's next would kill a lot of things for me. It is very hard to go cold turkey on this but I am doing my best. This forum has helped more than anything. Thank you all of you for sharing your experiences and being such a good support system.
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Good Luck KRFun! I think the part that drove me the most nuts was not the trying to know what was coming next but the disappointment when contact didn't happen when it was "supposed" to or the seeing my POI didn't happen when it was "supposed" to. We aren't "supposed" to know exactly what or when things are 'supposed' to happen - we're just supposed to live our lives and enjoy them. Psychic readings prevent us from doing that.
candy1:
--- Quote from: mystery123 on December 04, 2017, 10:46:45 PM ---
--- Quote from: candy1 on December 04, 2017, 03:33:20 AM ---
--- Quote from: Realist411 on December 04, 2017, 02:35:16 AM ---Congrats!
It's a hard habit to break, but you can do it. I'd not just keep us updated here, but talk to someone in real life and keep up the good work.
One day at a time.
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Thank you Realist! I feel good, I still go and look on keen - mostly read emails from some of the readers that email things I like to read. I pulled myself out of lines for arranged calls and wasn't even remotely bothered by missing a call from a reader I waited for for months. No one in my "real life" knows about how much I was getting readings. So talking to them is not something I'm prepared to do... But I pray... I pray a lot - because that's what I believe. I have no need, want or desire to read, that doesn't mean I am putting so much pressure on myself to say I will NEVER get a read again - but I don't want to right now. And that feels great.
What's meant to be will be and I am telling myself that everyday! As you said... One day at a time!
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That’s me right now!! Word by word.
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Good luck Mystery123!! It's a nice weight to have lift isn't it! :)
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