What did you say bella?
Just saying for *me* that I have heard the whole "back burner" thing before, and how they can  make it out to be a negative or a positive...cover themselves. At least that's my experience.  Neither relationship worked out.  It is to me, as I have heard many, one of the catch phrases, i know that there are not too many to describe certain things, but really? Not negating your readings at all. 
